Hello, everybody. I hope you are all having an
amazing week. One of the best ways to know if
somebody wants to date you is to know if
they're physically and romantically attracted to
you. Do you have a crush but you're not sure if
he's exactly feeling you or not? Well, in this
video, I'm giving you the top 10 signs that he's
just not that attracted to you.
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The first weird sign that he's probably not
attracted to you is that his exes all look like the
exact opposite of you. Now obviously, there can
be exceptions. Like, sometimes we fall for
somebody that's our usual type. But as humans,
generally, we do have a type of person who we find
ourselves naturally attracted to. So, if you're a
Taylor Swift but your crush has a huge roster of
Kim Kardashian exes, there is a good chance
that he won't naturally gravitate towards you initially.
The second sign that he's not attracted to you is
that he never seems to pick up on some of those
little hints or advances that you make around
him. So, if you sent him a flirty text or say
something a little risqué that hints at romance
but he's just completely not responding, he's
missing what you're saying, or he's just
ignoring it completely, then there's a good
chance that he hears what you're saying but he's
just ignoring it because he's not interested, or
he's not even picking up on the romantic vibe at
all. And that's because his mind is not in a place
of attraction. This guy is probably not attracted.
The third sign that he's not attracted is that you
borrow something from this guy and then
almost immediately, he asks for that thing back.
So a day or two later, he's like, "Yeah, can I
have my sweater back?" "Can I have my 5
bucks back?" A guy who's feeling attracted to
you is going to do whatever he can to keep the
conversation and interaction with you rolling for
a longer period of time. He's not going to ask
for his thing back, which essentially cuts off the
conversation, or the reason to have dialog with one another.
Sign number four that he's not attracted to you,
guys, and this one's so weird and unexpected,
but it's that the conversation just never veers to love or romance.
I just love the fall so much.
Look at all these romantic leaves I found!
No. Do you know how many times I've pissed on those leaves?
A guy who is feeling attracted to you is always
going to take the conversation to a romantic
place. Even if he's not doing this in an obvious
way, he'll say something like, "So, what
qualities are you looking for in guy?"
"What are some of your turn ons?" "Who are
some of your celebrity crushes?" Like, you want
to get the conversation into a sexy place so that
the two of you can start talking about something
a little more romantic.
Sign number five is that he never compliments
you. When a guy is attracted to you, he's
naturally going to pick up on the physical way
that you look that day, because that is just where his mind is.
I just got my hair done. Do you like it?
Really? It looks the exact same.
He's going to notice what you're wearing. He's
going to notice your hair. He's going to notice
anything that you would have changed about yourself.
The sixth sign that he's not attracted to you is
that you throw a party and he doesn't come,
even though he was invited. Now, it does not
matter what the reason is, if a guy likes you and
you invite him to a party, you are damn straight
he's going to be there. And he's going to be on
time. He's going to make sure he's looking his
finest. So, whether it's a birthday party, a
graduation part, or just a regular house party, if
you throw it and he doesn't show up, there's a
good chance he's not attracted to you. I'm sorry.
Sign number seven is that he never gets jealous.
So, it is a really normal, instinctual, and
biological reaction that when a guy sees
someone he's attracted to getting the attention
of someone else, that he immediately gets
jealous and has a reaction to that. Now, that's
not to say he's going to act inappropriately or
say something mean, obviously. But, you will
be able to sense the jealousy of a guy who's
attracted to you if he sees you flirting with
someone else, or if you're even talking about
how some other person is interested in you. If
you never see him react like that in these kind of
scenarios, there's a really good chance that he's
not romantically attracted.
Number eight is that he only hangs out with you
in group settings. Here is the deal. When a guy
or a girl is feeling insane attraction to someone
else, one of our first instincts is to get that
person alone. We want to have further
conversation. We want to progress the
relationship. We want something physical to
happen. It is in our best interest to take that
person out of a group environment into a one-
on-one environment. If you notice that you are
always hanging out in group settings with this
guy but he's never trying to change that, then
there's a good chance that he is just not feeling the love.
Number nine is that his demeanor looks distant
and cold. When a guy is not feeling attraction,
he's not going to put effort into adjusting his
demeanor or showing positive body language
signs that show that he's interested. We can all
naturally read body language pretty accurately.
So, if you get the sense that your crush just isn't
attracted to you based on his demeanor, then
you're probably right.
Now guys, number ten, the final sign that he's
not attracted to you is that he talks about
hooking up or liking someone else in front of you.
[indecipherable] We totally hooked up. We
were making out. I was like on the bed
afterwards. It was awesome.
There is an exception to this. If he likes you a
lot, there is a chance that he may actually test
the waters with you and see how you react to
him mentioning someone else or mentioning a
relationship with someone else. But if this ever
happens more than one, if it happens repeatedly,
and especially if he give you details of a
hookup- like, eww, don't wanna know that-
there is a very high probably that this guy is not
feeling attracted. Discussing other hookups with
you kills the mood instantly. It's probably not
worth it to waste your time, because someone
who likes you is not going to do that to you,
because that's just really icky.
A huge shout out to Daniel Coz for helping with
this video, guys. He is so cute. You should
definitely go and subscribe to his channel. He is
a Disney fan just like me. So, that's amazing.
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