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oh this is quite interesting. If you had to call me by another name what would it be?
I always have the temptation to call you Kamini Kamini
Gross
It just rhymes so well
So gross
And also it's my favorite movie
Okay
Yeah so Kamini Kamini I like it
okay
It's so catchy
Cool
Oh maybe I'll call you like granola
What?
Remember that day we went to the cafe and then you were like "I wan't"
did you order granola?
You shamed me for it
Right and then I was like "can you eat something else?"
like it's almost one,
but granola is so good.
who the hell eats granola at one for lunch?
That's the thing about me I really like breakfast
What are you hesitant to tell me?
So what I'm I hesitant to tell you?
Or vice-versa. Okay, you go first. You wanna go first?
Okay it may be like umm
I don't know I'm just so afraid that like, I don't want to let you down
Why?
No, just in general
Okay
Everybody because sometimes when I'm like you know in my moments of
anxiety and I feel like - oh my god I'm such a failure like I'm feeling every relationship in my life
and I have no sense of purpose and then I'm like - okay but Kam like
and we're working together a lot
Yeah yeah
Right okay and I know that something
you like really value is like responsibility and like you know doing
the things that you say you're gonna do
Yeah
Right because I based on the stories
Okay
That we've talked about
Yeah
Yeah so I'm so afraid that like one day
my anxiety is just gonna take over and like when in the midst when we're doing
like something important for our project like you know like working with the refugee
children yeah and like all the other things that we want to do yeah
so I don't ever want to like you know not do the things that I'm meant to do
Yeah and let you down
that would be it
Okay you ready to hear mine?
Oh god
I know that you are not into this whole like "I'm gonna settle down and I'm gonna like get married"
and you know la blah blah
but like I want to tell you that like this phase will be over
You think its a phase?
This phase will be over and I do see you
oh I want to see you settle down with someone really nice.
So that we can have tea, high tea some where next time. Bitching about our future spouses
I can't cope with the wife and tea though cuz like you know I mean like .. yeah
Like have play dates
Yeah yeah Oh oh
Not with each other but like with our children yeah
So it's like yeah yeah. I mean, that sometimes
Me and my adopted kids right?
Yeah. Sometimes like, you know when you tell me like
"Oh I don't think I'm ever going to settle down" or like "I don't see myself settling down" or
"I just want to do a live-in" or something I'm just like - no babe I want you to settle down
So then later we go on like teas
But jokes aside. I mean I do want I don't know maybe it's cause like
I'm just a kind of person, I feel like its always nice to have that one person like
Yeah
You know in the long run and like when you get older and stuff
so I just want that like for everybody else you know
My biggest fear of like marriage
Okay
is like when people are not in love and they stay together
Okay like they fall out of love
Yeah and they are not willing to like reconcile with the fact that they've fallen out of love
Okay, yeah
Or like or holding back someone from you know doing the stuff that they want to do because now they're in this like commitment
Okay this one I think you've told me before
Yeah I'm so afraid that like I believe like that we should just go after the things that we really want to do
and relationships shouldn't be the cost of like holding us back. Even if they say that like, you know
"I do want stay" or something like a part of me will never be able to come to terms
Okay I mean that makes sense but like if it comes to that like the fact that
you have to compromise like what you want like your other party doesn't understand this
then I don't think that's the relationship that it's supposed to be you get what I mean
like yeah like if you find someone who is able to like respect what you want to do
then I think like there wouldn't be this you know situation but the first one where
you know the falling out of love one
Yeah
I think that makes a lot of sense because I think I have thought about that before like "what if?" you know like
Yeah or like what if you get married like yeah in like half way into it you're like
"No I just met this other person and I think he's my soul mate"
Ohh sh*t but I already signed this forever contract
Yeah okay it makes sense yeah I mean yeah that one is a bit of like a
I don't know experiment like I don't know it's like you don't know if that's gonna happen
Yeah that's true
Yeah
Are you happy we met and why?
Yeah I'm extremely happy because
Okay like you know how for the India trip like I told you right before in the trip
I went for the Vietnam one
Yeah
Even for that one I just signed up by myself so I was
just like going in with no expectations and I was just praying that I get along
with someone and then like I did like. For me and you it was like we could talk about a lot of things
Yeah
and like because I mean ________ they don't really like have similar interests in certain ways
but for us like there was a lot things of we could talk about
So many
Yeah so I was so glad
Yeah like theatre, arts
Like theatre, movies, arts yeah like families and things we like and
and I hope like you find someone to fall in love hopelessly again
Yeah I love how you're like
Yeah on the track right?
This was good
Yeah I want to keep these cards though
Why yeah?
I don't know I just like
You want to compile and write an essay?
I most likely would do that
Like maybe publish a book
Based on the stories we've had
Yeah
yeah yeah yeah
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