Hello, my wonderful friend! This is how women pursue men. What I'm about
to reveal to you in this video is going to forever change how you see women.
These are some of the ultimate signs that a girl likes you,
and that she's interested in you, and really wants you to notice her.
Many, if not most people think that men do all of the pursuing. However,
when a woman is interested in a man, she pursues all day long. Like, she totally pursues.
And the men who know how to see that she's pursuing you and who
know what to do about it are the men who are successful in love.
That's how you just captivate that gorgeous gal and how you get a relationship with her,
a lifelong relationship with her~
So these are secrets every man needs to know. So I'm going to be sharing 6 life-changing,
eye-opening secrets with you in this video.
Now, as we dive in, make sure you subscribe and ring the notification bell.
My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to
source to learn how to find that adorable gal and make her fall so deeply in love with
you that you get to spend the rest of your life with her by your side.
Okay, are you ready to learn the powerful secrets about how women pursue men?
Let's get started with secret number one!
The main way a woman will pursue you is simply just by showing her
interest for you. Because that's kind of what pursuing is all about, right?
Now, if you've been following me for a while, you've probably seen videos
like this one about the body language signs that a woman is interested in you.
By the way, if you haven't seen that video yet,
I will put a link in the description because it's pretty eye-opening.
Now, when we are attracted to someone, there are things we just naturally
do without even knowing it because we're feeling emotions like butterflies.
And when you can spot those signs, it's a fast way for you to know, "Oh, she's totally interested!"
There are also some more obvious things women will do, like say certain things
because they're really hoping that you're interested too, but they're not quite sure.
And when you are able to accurately read those signs that she's interested in you,
that's how you can go, "Holy cow, she's totally pursuing me right now!"
And that would be an incredible feeling, right?
So do make sure you check out that other video
because I'll share some of these signs with you there.
Another one of the most common ways a woman will pursue you is by flirting with you.
And as a little bit of a hint,
flirting is one of the best ways to pursue possible for both men and women.
When you truly understand the most effective ways to flirt, you'll become a rockstar at pursuing.
This is why as a coach, I love teaching you some of the most effective strategies in my Academy.
Realize when you see a woman flirting with you, that is her trying to pursue you,
trying to let you know that she's interested in you, and really,
really, really, really hoping that you're interested in her as well.
Now this leads us to my next secret, and this one will forever change everything.
Are you ready for this?
This secret is that women pursue men in a feminine way.
One of the main reasons why men will feel like a woman is not pursuing him is because he's
expecting her to pursue in a masculine way because that's how he would do it.
But she's not masculine. She's feminine.
So if you are looking for a woman who is feminine and soft and gentle and tender,
You need to allow her to be feminine.
And that means she needs to pursue you in a feminine way. Just like as a feminine woman,
she wants a strong, confident, masculine man, that right there
lights her heart on fire and makes her knees buckle and gives her butterflies.
Here's something that's absolutely revolutionary.
Research has shown us that if a woman takes on a man's role by doing something
like pursuing in a masculine way, she has to sacrifice some of her femininity to do that.
She feels unsafe because she's taking on a masculine role. And
then guess what. She starts to act more masculine.
So if you're looking for a feminine woman,
that's not gonna help you, and it's not going to help her.
As a matter of fact, it can kill her attraction for you faster than anything else.
This is why it is critical that you pursue in a masculine way and she pursues in a feminine way.
Another thing to remember with this is as a feminine woman who truly wants to hang
onto her femininity, she will not settle for a man who asks her to sacrifice that.
So you must allow her to pursue you in a feminine way while pursuing her
in a masculine way. That makes sense, doesn't it?
I get comments a lot that say, "Hey, why doesn't she just man up?"
Well, um, that's kind of the man's role. Not hers. So let her be feminine.
Okay, my next secret about women pursuing men is going to surprise a lot of people.
You ready for it?
When a woman shows you she's interested, when she pursues you in a feminine way and you do
not respond, maybe because you're not aware that that's what she's doing, for whatever reason,
if you do not respond, it is like a slap in the face. It is outright rejection to her.
At this point, she feels embarrassed. She feels crushed and she pulls away.
Just like when you get your hopes up and you put yourself out there and you're so excited
thinking maybe she's interested in you, and she turns you down, and you pull away, that's
exactly how she feels when she tries to pursue you in this feminine way and you don't respond.
So if you want to be successful in love, if you want that happy, lifelong relationship with a
beautiful, soft, feminine woman, this is something you need to master for your sake, as well as hers.
And this actually brings up a really important point.
Many men think that they don't want to pursue.
Actually though, it's not that they don't want to. It's that they don't know how.
And so then they're absolutely terrified, which makes sense, right?
Because when you try to do anything you don't know how to do,
you're going to be terrified. That's just what it means to be human.
So, many men, rather than understanding the correct way to pursue, which makes you feel
more confident, it gives you that boost of masculinity, that boost of strength,
rather than understanding the right way to do that and getting those positive feelings,
they just feel absolutely terrified.
And is that maybe you right now?
This is especially true if you've put yourself out there before and it didn't go well, right?
This is why I help you master both how to tell that she's pursuing you
and how to pursue her effectively and confidently and masculine so
that you can completely captivate her while feeling strong and confident.
These are the insider secrets I love sharing with you in my Academy,
so that you can become a heartthrob almost without even thinking about it.
Can you imagine how good that would feel? That's a powerful feeling, isn't it?
So to learn more about this, how it works, how you can get started, and all the other
life-changing things you will discover when you join me, go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
While you're there, you're going to discover 3 of the most powerful strategies that you
must know to make a woman fall so deeply in love with you that her heart belongs to you forever~
So if you're looking for a lifelong kind of love, someone who loves the real you,
these are the things you've got to know. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I will
also put a link in the description and a link in the pinned comment.
Do you want a lifelong love? If you're saying yes, then you've got to see it.
For my next secret, let's just clarify what it
means to pursue as a man because there's actually a lot of confusion about this.
Because again, when she's pursuing you, when she's trying to show her interest, she really
needs to see you pursuing her as well. Otherwise it's complete rejection, and you don't want that.
First, let's talk about what it does not mean.
It does not mean to be super needy. It does not mean that you have to let her
walk all over you. It does not mean that you have to kiss her feet, so to say.
That's a really toxic, unbalanced relationship. And you deserve so much more respect than that.
And any high-quality woman is not going to want that. So please don't feel like
it means that you have to be completely walked on.
On the flip side, pursuing a woman also does not mean that you act super aloof,
that you pull away and make her chase you, that you make her beg for your attention.
That is also pretty toxic, and a high-quality woman is not gonna tolerate that for a second.
Because you can't, again, you can't have a balanced,
fulfilling, loving relationship when that's going on.
So pursuing does not mean to be needy
and walked on. It also does not mean to play hard to get and be aloof.
So what does it mean to pursue?
Here it is at its core.
Pursuing simply means that you confidently and appropriately show her your interest
in her while also appropriately responding to her interest in you.
That's all it is. You just confidently and appropriately show interest while
also responding appropriately to her interest.
It's that simple!
And again, don't worry about the details. This is
something I will help you master in detail in my Academy. So you
don't have to worry about all those little details. I've made it super easy for you.
So if you've ever felt like you have to act desperate, or you have to let
her walk all over you, or if you've been told that you need to make her beg, don't do that.
Just don't do it. You're setting yourself up for failure when you use those fake tactics.
Okay, my next secret is probably my very favorite!
This secret is that in a happy, loving, loyal, healthy relationship,
both people are always pursuing.
This is not something that should just happen when you're initially showing interest,
or something that just happens until you get her number or until you get- until you're official.
No. In a loving, fulfilling relationship, you are both always pursuing each other.
You're both always showing interest, always trying to give each other butterflies,
always trying to make each other feel good and feel loved.
That's what makes a relationship fulfilling. That's what makes it happy.
So can you imagine how exciting it would feel to know that that gorgeous
gal who lights your heart on fire is going to be pursuing you forever?
That feels amazing, right?
This is also why you need to understand how to pursue her as well,
so that you can have that exciting, fun, loving, fulfilling relationship.
And again, if you'd like to discover 3 of the most powerful strategies to
get that kind of relationship, make sure you watch that free masterclass.
It's the best thing you can do for your love life today~ So go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass
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