- I was nervous as hell.
- We got another one. Are we supposed to do another...?
- Okay. Yeah, yeah. - I'll just, okay, yeah.
- This is a really good question.
All these questions are good.
- Oh, man. I can go deep into that.
But for time's sake I won't.
- When was the last time you lied
and why did you?
- Oh, it was today I told my grandma
I was coming to a doctor's appointment.
- I lied to my friend this morning
when he asked me,
What am I up to today?
I said, well, I'm just gonna
do a couple of errands.
- Okay, well, I told my parents
I was coming to New York
for a birthday party,
not a blind date.
- Oh. - So...
- What's the first thing you
noticed about me and
why do you think it stuck out?
- You have really pretty
eyes are like almond shaped and brown.
- I definitely feel that
creative energy from you.
- I mean, I think your eyes.
- Your skin tone, it's very pretty.
- Your hair, 'cause
it's like the haircut that I've shown
so many hair stylists.
I feel like when I've gone in.
- I was looking at yours
and I was like:
that's how I wish my curls look.
- I see...
I see the field
and I see the mountains,
and I see this going far, far away.
- If I ask you to show me
your happy place,
where would it- - My happy place?
- Yeah. Where would you take me?
- Definitely like my belly.
- Like my room in my bed
because I'm such a
homebody person.
- Like a nice coffee shop
with somebody that I connect with.
Feels like a happy place, like a walk
around the MET with
somebody that I like
can be myself around.
Feels like a happy place.
- Well, that's weird
because I feel like my happy place.
I haven't even been there yet. So...
- Really? - Yeah.
But in terms of places I've been to
would definitely be a record store.
- Yeah. It said take me to your happy place.
- Oh, oh! Okay.
I thought it meant on me or something.
- How would your parents react
if you brought me home
as your partner?
- I feel like my mom would
definitely be pleased
just because you're very handsome.
- Wow, thank you!
- That's a tough one. - It's a tough one?
- Yeah, because I've never brought
a woman back home,
so they would probably
be very awkward at first.
- Surprised. - Why?
- They're really traditional
and they're always pushing me to date
a Chinese lady. - Mm hmm.
- Yeah.
- Use five words to describe what
being vulnerable with me
would be like.
- Exciting.
- New.
- Soft, kind.
- Deep.
Long. Definitely. - Okay.
- Deep. - Deep?
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- I would say comfortable.
- Comfortable.
I already feel pretty comfortable
talking to you. - Likewise.
- Yeah.
- Heard and understood.
- Calm.
- Scary. Because being vulnerable
can be scary, right? - Yeah.
- I guess scared because
well, that's a me thing,
like I'm really scared
of being vulnerable.
- Maybe a little emotional.
Maybe we'll get into some topics that
we don't really talk
about to other people.
- And insightful.
- If your ex were here,
what would they warn me
about being in a
relationship with you?
- Every single person was like,
You're great, you're perfect.
I don't know what it is.
There's just something missing.
So it was me that was missing.
- I look for reassurance.
I like being told
what I'm doing right in a relationship
just because I want to know
what you like me doing.
So I can keep doing it.
- That I'm
persistent in finding the answer.
- Mm-Hmm. - Which I'm working on.
- Nothing, I'm a
like breeze of fresh air