- Are you getting suspicious over your boyfriend?
You don't know what's happening.
You have this gut feeling but he might be lying
or worse, he might be cheating on you.
But in this video,
I will share with you nine signs
that your guy could be cheating on you.
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So without further ado, let's just get on with this.
The sign number one.
He hides you.
Let's say you have been dating for a while,
maybe over a month or three months,
and he has never introduced you to his family or friends,
and whenever you're in touch with him,
you can always see about his constantly hanging out
with his friends or family, meeting his friends,
he's going to bar because he's having fun over the weekends,
but you're never invited.
And he always give you some kind of lame excuse for it.
So this is one of the signs that he is hiding you.
And yes, there are a number of reasons
why the guy would be hiding a girl.
And reasons could be about you also
may just not be behaving high value,
so he doesn't see you as a serious girlfriend.
Therefore, he is not introducing you to family or friends,
or the other reason could be that he has a girlfriend
and you're the chick on a side.
Number two.
So this sign kinda happens
when you're more in a long-term relationship
or perhaps you're married.
So let's say your husband comes back home,
let's say after vacation or something.
And he starts to pick on you for no reason,
starts to find faults in you.
So he might start to pick on you for things like,
oh, you didn't wash the dishes and you're so dirty,
or you're such an irresponsible mom,
you can't even educate your kids,
or don't even know how to look after them properly,
you know, so if he never picked on you for these reasons,
and out of the blue, after spending some time apart
or something else, he starts to pick on you for no reason,
it's a sign that he is looking for faults in you,
because he might be interested into someone else,
and he's looking for excuses.
Why you're not good enough for him?
Again, this can be a sign that he's cheating on you,
that's why he's looking for excuses,
or this could be another sign
that he's just taking you for granted
because you're over-giving.
Saying that this is when men start to look to the left
is when you start over-give,
he starts to take you for granted
and then slowly bad things happen.
If you feel like a man is taking you for granted,
check out my video right here, so you can fix it
before you start to go to the left.
And of course I'm not giving men excuses for cheating,
I personally believe a man who has values
and himself who is a high value man
will not cheat on a woman.
He will try to sort things out with her
or he'll break up with her.
However, a lot of men don't have very strong values
and then, you know, many takes you for granted
and his attraction towards you starts to decrease.
Values man, guys, instead of breaking up with you
or letting you go, they start to look to the left.
Number three.
They start to promise you the world
for no reason whatsoever.
So this is more in marriages as well,
or maybe if you're like a long-term relationship,
but I would say it kind of happens more at marriages.
So let's say he starts to promise you the world,
cheating on you and now he kind of feels guilty,
so he serves to promise you the world.
Kind of trying to make it out for his guilty feelings.
I'll take you on this holiday, I'll do this for you,
I'll do this for you, I'll do that for you,
like out of the blue,
he literally starts to promise you the world.
So again, this could be a cheating sign for sure.
Or this could actually be a sign that he is more into yours.
So how do you see the difference?
The difference is if you have been behaving low value,
so to cut my video on what's a woman of low value,
and you have been naggy, clingy, all of that,
he has been taking you for granted the whole time
and you have not changed,
you're still like this low value girl,
and out of the blue, he starts to promise you the world.
From the high value logical perspective,
it doesn't make sense because you have not changed.
So he's attraction towards you is still on a low,
but he's promising you the world.
Why is he promising you the world?
Because he's feeling guilty.
Now, if for example, you have an acting high value,
let's say he's been a bit away and he started to miss you,
obviously, because you don't have value and he misses you,
he's trying to pursue and charm you
about why he's promising you the world.
So understanding this,
it kind of gives you a bit of a better perspective,
how to like watch out for these signs.
Number four reason that he might be cheating on you,
let's say, he came back from holiday
and he doesn't want to be intimate with you.
So maybe he has been on holiday for a month,
couple of months or longer, he comes back,
then he's like, happy to see you,
and he's kind of nice to you,
but he doesn't want to be intimate with you.
Unless your intimacy level was always on a low
and you guys would kind of be intimate very rarely.
But if you would be intimate quite a lot,
and now he goes on holiday
and as a man, he should be missing you,
he should feel like he wants to get closer to you.
But suddenly he comes back after this long-term holiday
and he doesn't want to be intimate with you.
This is a really red flag,
that he might be cheating on year.
Number five, things don't make sense, logically.
His stories don't adapt.
So ladies, when you are telling the truth,
when somebody asks you a question,
you take your time to think about it,
and then you tell the truth,
you repeat that same truth in the same way to everybody.
So when people ask you that same question,
tell the exact same answer to everyone,
then you're telling the truth.
When you're lying, you need to think
because you're like making up a story.
And then if you ask that person the same question,
couple months later, or a month later,
he might forget the line that he has told you,
his answer might be something different.
So if you feel like his answers are changing
over the same questions,
this is a very big sign that he's lying to you
and his stories don't add up.
Then the stories don't add up,
it's usually because the person has something to hide.
Number six, another sign that the guy is cheating on you
is when you, let's say, confront him
and he goes really, really crazy on you,
like he blames you for everything, he attacks you,
so, when a person is lying a lot of times
they'll be able explode much more on you
because he trying to hide
that they actually have done something wrong.
They put more energy in attacking you
because they trying to cover up their tracks.
Number seven.
So this is another sign.
Let's say if, you let's say you found something, right?
Like another girl's hair or something else, right?
And you confronted him with that.
And he, instead of kind of being chilled
and laid back about it, he is looking nervous,
maybe he's laughing a lot.
Some people attack you and blame you
'cause they trying to cover their tracks.
Other people then be caught off guard
and they have something to hide,
they get this nervous laughter,
so they kind of giggle and they laugh a lot.
Then their body is kind of a little bit like shaking,
you know, so if you feel like he's kind of laughing it off,
but laughing it off a lot, like uncontrollably,
this could be a sign.
When he's nervous because he has not been telling the truth
and he's been caught off guard.
If you find something that can come across suspicious
and you ask a guy like, oh, what's that?
Do you know? Like for example,
maybe you found like another girl's earrings in his flat.
Right? And you say like, oh, like,
since when did you start to wear earrings? Right?
And he kind of looks at you, very calm, rolls his eyes,
you know, and kind of teases you, you know,
like taking these earrings and putting it next to his ear
or something like in a very calm approach
because usually when you know about
nothing wrong is happening.
But if you confront him, let's say the earrings
and he starts to kind of act nervously,
like jiggle or attack you, you know,
this is usually a sign that he has something to hide.
Number eight that he might be cheating on you is
if you are intimate with him, right?
And he comes up with different moves
or he starts to kiss you differently.
Maybe you've been with the guy for a couple of years
or maybe you've been married for a long time,
and you know how a guy kisses you, right?
We kind of have the same thing over and over, right?
And now suddenly he starts to kiss you totally differently,
like he picked up a technique somewhere, right?
Or if you're being intimate with him
and out of the blue is coming out
with all these kinds of moves, right?
So this could be a potential sign
that he might be cheating on you.
And again, ladies, if you have been behaving low value
and you've been pursuing him,
he's been taking you for granted, all of that,
now you see him
and he's coming up with all these kinds of move, yes,
there is a big possibility that he might be cheating on you.
If you have been high value,
and you know that a guy is crazy about you, he loves you,
he pursues you, he tells the world how he's into you
and he's coming but be smooth,
it could be 'cause he's kind to impress you
and satisfy you more or better.
Just because you're seeing these signs,
like don't think straight away that he's cheating on you,
like think about your behavior first, is he into you?
And he's trying to impress you or have you been low value,
and he's picking up techniques.
And number nine.
So this is kind of the most obvious one
is usually when he doesn't want to come home with you
'cause he is losing attraction for you, right?
And he starts to stay late at work
or he's busy over weekends because he doesn't want
to spend that much time with you.
So that could be a possibility
that he's flirting with other girls
or doing something way worse than that.
So when the person you feel like he don't want
to spend that much time with you, again, look at yourself,
think about why.
Maybe you're very nagging a relationship,
maybe you're controlling, maybe you're complaining a lot.
If you feel like this is the case, then yes,
he could be doing something.
Now ladies, I want you to tell you something,
just because you find a guy doing some of these things,
it does not mean that he's been cheating.
I never made a video like this in the past
because I was like, this is just like,
I just don't want the girls start
to look for like that needle in a haystack
and start to get insecure,
because when you start to look for it,
when you find some kind of suspicion,
then if you're a high value,
that suspicion is usually not true,
and when you confront the guy with it,
when you come across insecure, when the guy's like,
oh, you don't trust me.
So it's like looking for these type of suspicions,
it can really backfire
'cause it shows that you don't trust him.
Saying that you need to see these signs,
and these signs make more sense if you behave low value,
and he starts to like do these type of things.
If you, however, behave high value
and you see these type of things,
they usually have a totally different meaning.
So just because you're seeing these signs doesn't mean
that he's technically like cheating on you,
it could actually be that he's more into you
and he's trying to pursue you, and impress you.
Some guys will purposely show some of these signs
to see will you get insecure,
so it can be like a teasing game,
a lot of games that men play on women.
The intention behind that game is to make you feel insecure,
to see how much you react, how you respond to the situation.
But if you become really, really upset over this,
it shows how you feel about the guy.
And when you overreact to these games,
it can really backfire your relationship and you especially,
because you showing him that I am really, really into,
I'm overreacting so much over this.
This is when you give a guy a lot of safety and security
and that is exactly what a guy like starts
to feel a bit more comfortable and safe in a relationship.
And when he feels a bit more comfortable and safe,
that is when guys usually start to take you for granted.
It's a bit of the vicious cycle with the games.
What I would recommend you is to learn their games,
high value and that is basically when you'll be able
to see right through him,
you'll be totally covered and safe,
and this is what we women love, we love feeling safe, right?
So if you want to learn their games, but guys play on you,
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