For some people, the fear of confrontation, of facing up to someone who clashes with them,
goes far beyond mere distaste for quarrelling.
After all, nobody really likes conflict or disagreement, and most of us will take steps
to avoid getting into an argument if we can.
But some people will do anything rather than get involved in conflict.
And this fear of confrontation can take their lives in the wrong direction.
One would think that keeping the peace, and smoothing things over, would be a good strategy
for life.
And often it is.
There are times when we may disagree with others, but the differences between us are
not really worth fighting about.
But there are also times when the differences really do matter, when compliance or submission
to things you don't agree with can lead you into doing or saying things you later seriously
regret.
At such times, when your deepest values and principles may be at stake, it's horrible
to find yourself unable to take the stand you want because you are too terrified of
the conflict you will unleash with your actions.
A paralyzing fear of confrontation may have its roots in childhood learning, or in previous
experiences of conflict that turned out badly and had a traumatizing effect, making any
future altercation - even just the thought of a fight - a source of anxiety and terror.
It's rational not to do things that cause you anxiety and terror, but not standing up
for yourself when it matters can mean you really miss out in life.
But you need more than will power to overcome fear of confrontation.
A deep-seated pattern of conflict avoidance due to fear can't easily be undone by conscious
effort.
You already know that you sometimes need to face up to people who are opposed to you.
And that establishing clear boundaries about what you will or won't accept makes for better
relationships in the long run.
But this knowledge is not enough to prevent the cramping fear that rises in you when push
comes to shove.
To break through this limiting pattern, you need to reach into its roots, which are deep
in your own unconscious mind and behaviors.
This is the part of your mind which sets up automatic associations (triggers) that go
off by themselves and produce a particular response in you without you even thinking
about it.
And you can reach into and work with this part of yourself most easily and effectively
with self-hypnosis.
"Overcome Fear of Confrontation" is an audio self-hypnosis session that will allow you
to completely reprogram your responses around the idea of dispute and conflict.
As you learn to relax more and more deeply each time you listen, so you find yourself
easily integrating a new template of inner strength and clarity.
The old fear will just melt into the past and you will feel more and more ready to face
life, whatever it brings.
This means that you will be more and more able to approach the possibility of confrontation
in a much calmer and more self-controlled way.
And when it comes to a real conflict, you'll find that you are much better able to say
what you think calmly and clearly, maintaining your stance, and staying calm in the process.
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