so as I was keeping up over on Twitter with the democratic debate tonight I saw
a lot of people talking about jaclyn Hill deleting her Twitter and lo and
behold yes jaclyn Hill deactivated her Twitter
as well as her Instagram this is something I haven't talked about much on
my channel but there's actually a lot that we can learn from it what is up
everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but
focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel what I like to do is take
a look at what's going on in the YouTube community or pop culture try to see what
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you gotta follow me over on Instagram and Twitter one video about it when the
situation first happened but anyways I saw today that she deleted her Instagram
and Twitter for a little bit of a mental health break if you are new to my
channel you don't know me too well like I am so against canceled culture for a
variety of reasons and here's why like well I do believe that people should be
held accountable I do not believe in not giving people chances the the main
reason being I'm a recovering drug addict an alcoholic I just celebrated
seven years sober and I don't think anybody you know should just be
completely canceled or written off because we do it too much with our
prison system here in America with drug addicts with alcoholics with people with
mental illness and things like that I believe in people learning and growing
from their mistakes but what we're gonna be talking about with jaclyn
hill is that she made quite a few missteps and i don't think she realizes
how she took these missteps but again like a lot of you out there watching
this i want you to reflect on your own lives and say oh my god like what can I
learn from this situation I know a lot of you out there you're not starting
your own makeup lines if you are you go but like there's still things that you
can learn from it so anyways the first thing that I saw like when she came out
and she made like her we're kind of like apology video I used quotations because
it wasn't really an apology now here's the thing as a recovering drug addict an
alcoholic I've had to make a lot of apologies alright part of you know the
program that I work you know we make amends to people all right when when we
wronged somebody we make amends we ask how we can make this better and when we
do this we take 1,000% responsibility for this we don't point fingers at
anybody we don't blame anybody else like when I'll make amends to people I don't
say okay well you know hey I'm sorry I did this to you but had it not been for
you know being raised by an alcoholic mom or me having a traumatic childhood I
wouldn't have done that right so that was one of the issues with Jaclyn Hills
video when she came back with that little apology because she didn't take
full responsibility like I wish more people followed Gary Vaynerchuk
he he talks a lot about this personal responsibility like everything that
happens is his fault right and this is how a lot of us need to operate and
especially when it comes to our own mental and emotional well-being there's
something called locus of control right people with an external locus of control
they are much more depressed they're usually more anxious because these are
people who think that the rest of the world is causing all of their problems
people with an internal locus of control they believe that their actions have a
direct influence on the results in their life right they feel much more in
control so it actually is beneficial to take responsibility for these things but
the Jaclyn Hills video she blamed the lab and everything like that now one of
the things was like body language and how you
talk is very important and this is another reason why if any of you out
there have heard me talk about mindfulness start practicing mindfulness
be more mindful of the way that you're talking to people like when I watched
her video I was like girl why are you yelling at me why you can not hear I
like she came off very abrasive so if you're somebody out there who's trying
to make something right like notice the tone in your voice now one of the things
is I actually sat down and I watched the entire Marlena stell video from
yesterday and those who don't know but clearly I don't I'm not a makeup person
right but I try to you know keep an eye on what's going on in the YouTube
community I remember Marlena still last year and everything like that anyways it
was interesting was my line is still saying that she warned Jacqueline Hill
about that specific lab now like you guys do me a favor if you haven't yet
and you probably have if you're watching this video go check out the video I'm
gonna link it down below in the description from a biochemist named
Kenna myself and my beautiful girlfriend Tristan just washed it and
this this girl knows her stuff and like it's really cool like she got over a
million views on her Jacqueline Hills video but I think this is needed because
I think I think more people who are using makeup and interested in this
stuff like I think that's something cool like this is a new niche right like
people like looking at this stuff and examining it and explaining it right
because what we're learning with this Jacqueline Hill situation is that there
are things that could be potentially harmful you know what I mean anyways go
check out her video because she talks about a lot of inconsistencies with what
Jacqueline Hill was explaining about you know the lab and how that thing worked
right just like when it comes to the cotton gloves and how no Bob would do
that and how they actually clean those bats and everything now one thing I will
say is this and again this isn't necessarily letting Jacqueline Hill off
the hook but it felt like Jaclyn hill was relaying information that she was
getting in my personal opinion it feels like Jacqueline Hill is getting a lot of
input right now and that's one of the issues but anyways
what I really want to talk about too is that I think a lot of her problems are
stemming from the fact that she hasn't just done a recall so what that young
woman Kenna talked about in her video is like a standard procedure its standard
procedure that if this is the imaging you do a recall so my background is
actually in the car service industry so the first service advisor job I had was
for Ford and around that time like 1999 and 2000 Ford's like expeditions and
f-150 had a recall for this cruise control module that was catching on fire
right now it didn't mean that all of them were gonna catch on fire but there
was a possibility that that part could catch on fire so they recalled all of
them and this is where it feels like pride and ego is getting in the way like
obviously there's different things he had to take into consideration when it
comes to running a business and everything like that but like when I see
the Jacqueline Hill took a mental health break because of all this like the girl
just needs to recall like she just needs to recall it right anyways here's here's
some information from an Instagram account I actually saw this like t
school tweeted this I don't know it was accurate but it said this Jacqueline
social media accounts are down she needs time away from the criticism Jacqueline
is a human like all of us and we all make mistakes I can look back at quite a
few in my life it's not easy when you're down and you see all the negativity some
forget Jacqueline has had great success as well I don't need to list them at
this point but I will say her kind heart is one of
the greatest attributes and that to me a success I know I will also be attacked
by some saying how can I know this information her boyfriend's mom is a
very kind person and follows me I message her because I was worried
Jacqueline is safe she needs time heck so Stacy so when it comes to this like
this is where I hope just as people we can have just some empathy right like
this this sucks for anybody right like I do think that while Jacqueline
Hill made some missteps in this situation I don't think she is like this
terrible malicious person here's a good example of this all right so what are
the things first we'll talk about Hamlin's razor if you're new here I love
me some Hamlin's razor Handler's razor says do not attribute to Marlys which
could easily be attributed to stupidity or ignorance all right so I remember
when tannic on happened okay and I look what Tana mojo is now like in TV show
her getting engaged Jay Paul or whatever anyways it was like conspiracies going
around like she did this on purpose she wanted to overcrowd Tanic on and
have it failed so she got more attention like like I don't imagine Tana mojo as
being this evil genius I think she was a dumb kid out for revenge and this
happened so when I look at Jaclyn hill I don't see a person who was malicious in
this situation I think there's some stupid moves that were happening but
something that's been brought up is that this feels like it was rushed right it
feels like this situation like she was trying to get products out there and I
just watched that eight the new 8 OC video on this and it's something that I
thought as well like I haven't been following Jaclyn hill for too long but
my my girlfriend and others have filled me in on her and like she's been working
on this for like five years right like five years and some of us we just get so
impatient right and when it comes to patience like here's just what I want to
teach people there's a look at what just happened to Jaclyn hill right and this
happens to so many of us like we want to rush things we just want to get this
thing done right we want to like to get better now
we want to improve it now we want to make money now we want to do all these
things now now now now now but if we don't take her time in that process like
what we're seeing right now is a perfect example about how all that stuff can
come crumbling down because Jaclyn hill would have been fine if she waited a
month two months six months you know what I mean but it seems like this was
rushed but I want you to take a look at your own life like what processes are
you trying to speed up right now what are you trying to get involved in and
make happen right now right and how much is that affecting you like
your beliefs that you need this right now maybe you think you need a
relationship right now you need all this money right now you need a car right now
or whatever it is sometimes we really need to look at this and like this is
something I've been working on personally a lot lately is really just
appreciating the process and focusing on the process and not trying to hurry
through and just get that result that we want you know what I mean
so again if you're watching this Jacqueline Hill situation like try to
see what you can take from this and learn from it yourself you know what I
mean anyways let me know down in the comments below like what what you can
relate to in this situation like when it comes to apologizing like do you pass
the blame or do you know people who pass the blame do you have an issue with
rushing through things and things not turning out as well as they could like
how can you personally relate to this situation
but anyways at the end of the day you know I I hope the best for Jacqueline
Hill I hope she comes out on the other side of this thing I hope she comes out
better and stronger she's made some mistakes in the past and some other
things but anyways like these are things that people need to learn and grow from
alright but hopefully she just recalls the product again check out that bye
okay in this video I talked about snipping link down below
it's like 23 minutes very very good and like if you are in the make up and
you're just kind of like into like extra stuff and learning like go subscribe the
Kenneth Channel is really cool alright anyways that's all I got for this video
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