- I am a guy.
- I'm a guy.
- I'm a guy, - I'm a boy.
- I am a guy.
- I'm a guy - And I'm a girl.
(upbeat music)
- Say your name, your occupation,
and yeah, describe your like body type.
- I just turned 28.
I'm a boxer. And yeah, my body type.
I mean I'm in the gym often.
- I'm Josh. I am 5'8"",
16.
- You're 16? - (Josh) Yeah, I'm 16.
I think I'm the youngest here for sure.
- Yeah, definitely.
- My name's Tyler, I'm 27.
I'm a fitness influencer so I look like an
action figure, I guess.
- Lovely confidence, brother.
- I'm Will. I'm 18.
I'm currently a student at Stanford
and I'm around 5'7". Pretty skinny.
- Hey y'all. I'm Ben. I'm 21.
I'm a student at USC
and then I work out pretty often, and I'm 5'10".
- Hi, everyone. Joseph here. I'm 32.
I'm about 5'8"", 5'7"
and I am an urban planner.
- That sounds like something like really humanitarian,
like I feel like that's something like a girl would do.
- My name is Caleb, I'm 21. Body type, I'm not a big guy.
I'm like 5'7". Always wear like platform shoes
to kind of compensate for that.
Honestly, I just wanted to get past the first round.
I was kind of banking on the fact
that I heard other voices out there being
a little higher than mine.
- Who thinks who's a chick?
I think the second person is a chick. 110%. The first one.
You strike me as a chick that with the platform shoes thing,
but the second one is a chick. In my opinion.
- That scared me because I was like, I was expecting people
to just think that I'm some chill dude.
Super chill vibes.
No, and so I had to kind of work off of that
because he clocked me right away.
- What is something that only men would know?
- Okay, I wanna ask this to number two then.
- (Joseph) Sure.
- Number two. What does it feel
like peeing with a boner?
(laughter)
- Difficult.
- Come on, yo. Spit it out.
- It's difficult.
- Difficult. That's a chick. 110%.
- I've never had a boner, unfortunately
and I've never had to pee with one,
so I was sitting there like perhaps it feels really
awesome and cool to pee with a boner,
but then apparently I was wrong.
- I was also even suss of Tyler just
because he dominated the conversation so much.
Maybe he's just saying too much
because he wants to like direct attention off of himself.
- Number two, what's your favorite video game?
- Mm, Kingdom Hearts - (Tyler) Chick. Chick.
- Wait, wait. I didn't know that wasn't a very manly game,
but it's like one of my favorites.
- I was like, I know a lot of girls
who play that kind of game.
Kingdom Hearts and Minecraft.
- What's a feminine hobby you have or a hobby
that you'd like consider more feminine?
- I would say meditation and yoga.
It helps me stay focused on things
like when I get stressed out,
- I'd say probably art.
I hear people say it could be feminine
sometimes, but I don't believe that.
- My man on his Leonardo da Vinci shit.
- Right man. Right.
- Probably for me man,
I would just say like I've been into fashion,
like I'm not the best looking guy so I've always had
to like cope with with it for like looking nice.
- I like dancing.
I'm, I'm on the Stanford Cheer team. Go Card.
I love it. I just started this year.
- Oh hey bro. What are you doing here?
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(upbeat music)
- Joseph.
- Okay. Big step over. There you go.
- I've been misgendered on the phone, to my face,
so many different circumstances.
I was like, okay, this is just another situation like that.
- I'm so sorry for voting him out,
but also I kind of had to use them as a stepping stool
to get to the second round.
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Who's gonna win?
- I wanna finish the feminine hobbies.
- Sure. - Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- I personally write poetry.
It's something I did ever since
I was with my last girlfriend.
Just kind of, I don't know,
like it since English class. Makes me feel happy.
Contextualizes where I'm in the World.
- I actually dance, too.
I don't like to perceive it as feminine
'cause I go to a liberal arts school where
it's kind of popular to do that.
But I just started doing it this last year.
It gives me a space to just kind of let loose, I guess,
'cause I'm in a frat so it's a little
awkward for me sometimes.
- Yeah. What frat are you in? - ("Caleb") Delta Tau Delta.
- Alright. Yep. Vote that dude off chick or slash dude
and then end the game after that.
- You didn't get into the frat, did you?
- Vote him or her off- - (Girl) You didn't get a bid?
You didn't get a bid. Did you?
- Trust me. I don't need into get a frat.
- You're mad. You're mad.
- I'm like, okay Tyler. Tyler, please just calm down.
Just calm down. Just this much.
- Can people lie about their age?
- Why do you wanna lie about your age?
- I don't know. The 16-year-old.
I vote you all the way to the right out.
- Stay mad. Why are you overcompensating?
- They put a lot of people in here for variety reasons.
That's why we have deep voice guy. We have GI Joe,
we have twin. - I guess the 16-year-old
is like the wild card, the curve ball. All right.
- I mean we have higher voiced people here.
I'm not really the curve ball.
- Yeah, I have a high pitched voice,
but I'm definitely a dude.
- What are some challenges as a guy would you guys say?
- Just like coming out as gay. That was really hard.
Just being accepted by other guys sometimes was like more
challenging than being around girls.
I feel like sometimes it's just really stigmatized
and I never wanted to be seen as weak
and I've definitely gotten a lot better at it
over time.
- People assuming we have the worst intentions.
- Ooh. Yep.
- I really deeply care-
- You're only 16.
What do you know? - I'm a romantic.
- I know what you mean.
- No, you don't. I'm 21.
- Hey dude. I'm pretty dark. People-.
Hey listen, I'll explain later.
- Yeah. Okay. But no, it's genuinely
'cause I just like, I'm a romantic guy.
Like I really deeply care about people.
It kind of means a lot to me
and I think it's kinda sad
when people assume like, 'Hey, I'll walk you home'
means like, I wanna have sex afterwards.
I might just kind of want to do the right thing.
And so I feel like a lot of men make us all look bad
and I really dislike that.
- You seem like you'd be a good friend.
- Thank you. I deeply appreciate that.
- It's probably the dating scene.
I've been on dating apps since I turned 18
and they're very discouraging to say the least.
I don't get a lot of action from girls
and I feel like there's endless options for women, whereas
for me it's just always been a challenge.
- I feel like no guy would be saying that.
Like we we're not talking about why
girls have so many options.
I felt like that was a little telling on themselves.
Like maybe they got options like,
and they're trying to like push the suspicion away.
- I would probably say the biggest challenge
about being a guy right now in the society that we're in,
it's just probably just, if you're not rich
or have like this $20 million boat
or drive this like Ferrari, it's like not hard
to get chicks, but like that's literally,
it makes it much harder if you're not like this 6'3"
like Calvin Klein model.
So yeah, that's pretty much why I'm a TikTok slash
influencer or whatever you want to call it.
Just trying to get rich.
- Yeah. I'd say something tough would be like, people ask me
to open things a lot of the time.
Like my mom and I don't really always
have that strength on me.
I fail a lot and that's embarrassing,
So I think that's tough sometimes, honestly.
- Men, we all have our problems
and women have their problems too,
but I feel like for men it's very hard for them to be able
to reach out if they need things.
- (Tyler) I will literally do anything
before I ask for help.
Like it's just how it is.
- I think what Alan said was very touching
and a very real experience
that men have to go through in this life.
We teach men to perceive vulnerability
as weakness and that's just not the truth.
It's not weak. It makes you a human being.
- Do you guys feel like you have someone that you can go to
for like emotional like
support and vulnerability? - Definitely.
- Yeah. I have a brother.
- I have a twin sister. - My dad
- Caleb.
(buzzer)
All right, we're gonna come and get you.
- I tried to do like ethnographic research on dudes,
but at the end of the day,
I'm a chick and there's only so much lying that I can do.
- Please raise your hand if you want
to continue playing the game.
Alright. Majority wins. You will not continue.
If the lights turn green,
you voted the mole out and you win.
If the lights turn red, you didn't vote the mole out
and you lost.
And you won.
- Yeah. - Good job boys,
- Y'all on me. Get off me.
- Could there have been two moles?
- Get off me. - Oh my god.
- Ready?
Three.
Two.
One.
Go.
- Oh my God.
- Is there two chicks? Oh no, there isn't.
There's one chick you look. There's one chick.
- Oh, my name's Chloe. I'm a TikTok
influencer just like you actually,
I just didn't want to give it away.
I did purposely make it deeper for this,
but I don't think I trained well enough.
- Yo, you give me 070 Shake vibes.
- I get that all the time. I get that all the time.
- People have commented on my voice since I was about 14
years old and then I hopped on TikTok at 19 years old
and I started posting it.
It was the first thing that people noticed about me.
I've kind of used it to empower myself
because I think that it gives me a unique quality.
- I was so sure it was gonna be Joseph,
so it was actually a surprise.
We have a wide range of personalities, backgrounds.
There is a lived experience to being a man.
- There is like an inherent privilege that comes with that
that we didn't really address.
Like I feel like we kind
of focused on like the negative aspects of being a man,
but we've never really talked about like male privilege
that we just get that we're born with.
- All right, let's open this up.
- Open it.
- (yells)
- My money, my money.
- Whoo.
- One, two, three, four, five, six.
- This makes me feel like I need a different profession.
- Gentlemen.
- Let's go.
(laughs)
- I almost wanna clean it up now, honestly.
Lemme just put this in my pocket.
- Yeah.