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everybody we are back this is get real
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ashley and juni and
pineal who couldn't make it today but i
promise he'll be back
very very soon okay so it's season two
start of a brand new season and we have
a special guest
to kick things off i'll be introducing
her in a little bit
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okay so before we introduce our guest we
have to introduce our brand new host
for season two junie
hey everybody it's juni it's my
time first time here no second time
second time here well i was a guest
before but now
i have upgraded now how did i say it
yeah i've been
promoted into a hill into a host and i'm
uh
very excited to be here happy to see
ashley and
our special guest and uh yeah uh
i hope i do well i mean bm
miss him yeah i'll try my best to fill
in the fill in the seats yeah
last week we announced that bm won't be
able to join us for season two because
he's very
busy with his solo promotions so
whenever
he's done with that maybe he'll join us
but for now we have our friend
juni in the studio if you guys watch
dive studios you guys probably
saw his face a lot you did oh yeah a lot
of things yes
eric and i've seen all of your reels and
stuff pop up
on my explore page yeah i've watched i
watched a few
yeah i'm gonna be honest i watched a few
but well how do you feel
uh i mean i feel good i'm this is like
family and i've seen everyone here for a
long time
and i've seen you for a long time now
yeah well yeah
but uh she obviously she doesn't think
so
but uh yeah um i feel comfortable and
you know it's dive studios
it's always welcome so neil's not here
but he'll be back
soon we promise and then we'll have the
complete
hosts yeah the whole gang in the studio
all right that was enough introduction
for season two
we have our guests joining us for the
first ever episode we have
carson
[Applause]
welcome welcome welcome she's looking
beautiful in orange
yes can you introduce yourself please um
my name is carson allen
uh i'm from the u.s but i work here in
korea as an actress
actress is it is it the first time
having an actress here
uh on get real model slash actress leah
we have oh yeah
so yeah she's an actress you guys know
each other right we
we went to middle and high school
together in korea in korea yeah so at
the
american middle school high school oh
what yeah
so me and me we go way back wait so you
went to
middle school and high school in korea
yeah at an international international
american school
yeah so i went like how long has it been
like since you've been here
for like um oh god like 15 years
wow should probably be better queen than
you than me
and me yeah i'm like the foreigner like
somebody you know
like can we get a little bit of cream
later hopefully
sure yeah super curious
yeah oh right now
perfect pronunciation perfect yeah
that's
so natural yeah now your turn
[Laughter]
i don't think i've ever heard you speak
korean that's why really yeah yeah
i mean i i try not to because i'm always
shy
but uh yeah all right so um carson have
you ever listened to
get real i have i watched the episodes
leo were in
oh nice yeah from season one okay well
thank you for being here today
thank you for having me we've been
talking a lot about
changes today because you know it's the
start of a brand new season
season two new hosts you know big
changes so we're actually going to talk
about change today
and uh for the new season we kind of
changed up the format as well so it
might be
a little unfamiliar at first but i think
we'll all get used to it
so we have listeners who anonymously
sent in their thoughts confessions or
stories regarding change
and we'll be reading them and discussing
them
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no i was gonna ask if someone ever
accused you guys of changing for the
worse like
oh my god yes you've changed in
relationships
i feel like i've heard that uh
definitely like with my
previous relationship which was pretty
long like four years
uh whenever we would get into arguments
he would always bring up
like oh i miss the old carson i miss
the old you and he would always say that
and i'm like
but that's that was like three years ago
that was four years ago i'm
i'm not the same person anymore like if
you miss her i'm sorry
should we have a funeral like too to
like fully send her off like what do we
need to do to like
i don't know but it would bug me so much
that he always brought that up
and um because when we were first dating
i wasn't really pursuing
this like career and entertainment and i
think that's kind of what he was
referring to
and um yeah it really bugged me that he
would say that
yeah i mean i've got i've gotten that
from my family and friends but they're
all different
my family said i changed for the better
and oh
you look like you're actually like
really achieving your dream
and you're becoming this person that you
really wanted to be
and that made me feel really proud but
then my friends back at home they'd be
like hey man you changed like
where's the old you like you're you're
all like through music
and like you you know getting makeup on
and
having hair like styles and stuff like
that it's just like
hey man this is what i gotta do like you
gotta like you know
i gotta accept it and you gotta put on
the uniform yeah and this is work right
and they have their own jobs and
but then you know i think the people
that respect that
and uh encourage you to change for the
better is the people that
will stick around the longest in your
life and
it's always good to have positive people
around you so
um if you have any friends that kind of
put you down for changing
i don't think that's a it's a good it's
a good relationship you know
when do you know if a person's changing
for the worse and when do you step
in to be like hey i know you're my best
friend but
something you're doing is like you're
like you're changing in a bad way
uh do you not even say that uh if i
really care for the person
like i love this person's death and i
want them to
be happy i would tell them straight up
but then my
like limit is if
i kind of it's it's a judgmental thing
it's like a subjective thing but if i
look at this person's life and
it's this person is being affected in
such a negative way like
let's say if you want to get really
serious like maybe
they're drinking too much or maybe
they're going out too much
or you know kind of not being focused on
their career
or something like that you kind of want
to tell them like hey like you're
amazing at this craft you're amazing at
this
job you should keep doing it and stop
like
resorting to other things and trying to
make yourself feel better by
consuming alcohol like something like
that so i would like if it's something
serious that way
i would tell them straight up if it's
something that
is necessary to necessary to actually
like uh experience like you know a phase
someone needs to go to a phase to become
better so
don't you think so like if it's
something like that then i just kind of
not i try not to like be too concerned
and let him be yeah i would agree i
think like everybody has that like mario
moment where you've gotta beat the
bowser to like move to the next
island you know like you don't change
unless you've overcome something but
for me i don't really like to intervene
like you said like i would have to be
really close with this person to give my
opinion straight up
um if i'm not that close i think i just
tend to like
back off a little bit and like distance
from them a little bit
um i don't know i i i'm just not the
person to really
i guess say my opinion on somebody
else's
life unless it endangered them you know
in like a
really serious way um that's hard
i don't know i don't like to be like hey
let's talk i don't know
yeah and you could be considered like a
boomer
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