the dissociative identity disorder community already has it hard enough as
many of you saw if you watched Anthony Padilla's video with people like to
DissociaDID but Trisha Paytas doesn't really care about that and right now she
has offended yet another entire community but here's
the thing if more people understood borderline personality disorder
what Trisha Paytas does would make a lot more sense what's up everybody this is
Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the
solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about mental health
I've been trying to put more commentary stuff on the second channel but I felt
like this deserved a main channel appearance but anyways if you're into
that stuff make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell
so yeah we're gonna be talking about Trisha Paytas is brand new video meet my
alters dissociative identity disorder me if you have seen these types of videos
likes which caught on camera the channeled DissociaDID has a ton of
subscribers and things like that but anyways like this I feel I feel like I
finally I finally come to understand what the entire LGBTQ community was so
upset about like I knew what she did was very offensive to some when she came out
as a trans man a gay man trapped in a woman's body who doesn't really feel
like a man and all that stuff but yet again like and we're gonna discuss in a
second if you understand borderline personality disorder it makes sense
anyways although I do not have dissociative identity disorder I am
somebody in the mental health community right and this is offensive this I I can
imagine and I've already seen some of the backlash in the comments people from
the DI D community are highly offended by this but aside from that borderline
personality disorder has a massive stigma around it
massive stigma around it and Trisha Paytas being such a public figure she is
making that community look bad as well all right and how do we know how do we
know she has borderline personality disorder well for those of you who
haven't met me know I am NOT a licensed therapist I'm not a licensed
psychologist I am just somebody who is a nerd when it comes to mental health I
worked at a rehab for a few years we did dual diagnosis addiction as well as
mental health disorders all right and many people with borderline personality
disorder have substance abuse disorders as well so I have literally worked with
thousands of people who have borderline personality disorder and like I want to
discuss this because first off there's nothing wrong with having borderline
personality disorder it's a very difficult disorder part of the stigma
around it is people with BPD can sometimes be difficult to have a
relationship with whether it's an intimate relationship like your
significant other or if they're a friend or a family member but also it's very
hard on them because a lot of them are working hard to manage their borderline
personality disorder all right but like I said Trisha Paytas is a very public
figure and this hurts that community so before we dive into this I'm gonna break
down her video with a few clips like you need to understand borderline
personality disorder if you want to understand why Trisha Paytas behaves the
way she does I am a huge believer that if you understand different forms of
mental illness it will help you empathize with those people right and
while not giving them a pass or giving them an excuse for their behavior it
makes more sense why they do what they do so real quick I'm gonna run through
the nine symptoms of borderline personality disorder both me and you
cannot diagnose Trisha Paytas but in this video that she made on World Mental
Health Day she clearly stated that she was diagnosed with borderline
personality disorder which is much different than what she's doing right
now which is saying she's self diagnosed as having D ID
all right number one fear of abandonment it is an intense intense fear this is
often why it's very difficult for people with BPD to
maintain relationships alright they are so afraid that somebody will leave them
that sometimes it turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy where they push
that other personal way alright next one unstable relationships okay number three
unclear or shifting self-image I want you to focus on this symptom okay one of
the main symptoms of borderline personality disorder is this one it is
an unstable sense of self most people most people they they know who they are
right our our personality our identity it forms at a very young age most people
who struggle with BPD experience trauma at a very young age and oftentimes had
an you know emotional or verbally abusive relationship with one or both
parents sometimes it was repeated trauma that is why sometimes people are
diagnosed with PTSD instead of BPD but anyways an unstable
sense of self alright impulsive self-destructive behaviors
another symptom self-harm another one extreme emotional swings that's
something to pay attention to one of the trademark symptoms of borderline
personality disorder is these massive shifts in moods right rather than your
mood going from like you know staying between like a 1 and a 5 it is at like a
10 why it's not just happy it is just ecstatic it's not just liking somebody
it's falling in love with somebody it's not just getting a little bit upset it
is getting furious okay next Quantic feelings of emptiness
this can also be associated with the lack of sense of self explosive anger I
will link this article down below these are a little bit different than what the
DSM says and also feeling suspicious or out of touch with reality so I do want
to make it clear it is very common for people with borderline personality
disorder to dissociate okay but just because you dissociate doesn't mean
dissociative identity disorder that is completely different okay so now let's
turn to some clips Trish um I never really
formed my own personality um so right there that clip right there that is not
dissociative identity disorder that is borderline personality disorder I've
watched a lot of videos of this recently most recently obviously Anthony Padilla
did this okay so this is very common very very common due to that unstable
sense of self or lack of sense of self it is very common for somebody with
border / borderline personality disorder - for example hang out with certain
people right and adopt that identity these are these or this is sometimes
thought of as being like a social chameleon right I don't know who I am so
I will adopt this identity and that helps keep that sense of self stable so
what she says I was watching a lot of videos about dissociative identity
disorder it is easier for somebody with BPD to start identifying with that and
then get that kind of stable sense of self like oh I am one of these people
this is my group this is where I belong right I would argue this is just my
opinion I would argue that this is something similar that happened when she
came out as trans alright it was an identity that she could latch on to
sometimes and it's like I said it's like I can't just sit down now and be like
alright guys come to the center you know I think that is just more evident by
just looking at my different videos and so many people will joke in the comments
like what Tricia are we getting today in reality who are getting different
personalities inside of church wait this is talking about how some people like
which identities in this video which identities in this video okay this is
two of those symptoms that you're seeing come to fruition of borderline
personality disorder an unstable sense of self and emotional regulation issues
alright when these two things are happening or one of these two things is
happening you don't know what the person is going to behave like alright like
working at the treatment center working with people who have borderline
personality disorder you did not know how they were going to be from day to
day a good example of this is if you watch a relationship with Jason Nash and
all of the vlogs that they did you could see how Jason struggled in that
relationship because he didn't know all right like one of the most famous clips
was this one no yo-yo if you're in a good mood you're
gonna love it isn't that the fun part though about dating someone with like
borderline personality like you don't know what mood they're gonna be in are
they gonna be happier they're gonna be mad you're always in a good mood unless
I piss you off all right back to her video like I
watched it was like oh like she seems crazy but I know that's like when I
sound like now which is actually really scary but I'm just trying to explain
again this is pretty much self diagnosed but it's something that I definitely I
definitely have distinct names for all my personalities listen to the words
coming out of my mouth don't self diagnose okay as much as I
make videos on mental health mental illnesses different symptoms and
everything like that that is not to self diagnose that is the worst thing that
you could ever do alright it's like trying to self diagnose a physical
illness the problem is is that there are specific treatments for specific mental
illnesses okay and if you self diagnosed you might be wasting time on something
that isn't gonna work for you and this can then lead to an idea that no form of
therapy can help you alright there are a million different reasons why you don't
self diagnosed but in this instance one of the main reasons is that you piss off
an entire community alright much like she did with the trans thing and real
quick one of the one of the things that I feel makes people so frustrated is
that when Trisha Paytas does these things they're unfalsifiable
what does that mean you cannot disprove what she is saying okay there is no
scientific test that you can do on Trisha Paytas to prove that she does not
identify as a man there is no scientific test
that you can do to prove that she does not have dissociative identity disorder
okay and this is one of the main reasons for the stigma around mental health and
why we all need to act right is because people will often say oh you're faking
it you're faking it right and when we're doing these antics and these these these
actions that can kind of exploit mental health issues all it does is feed that
stigma okay but like I said I believe so many people get frustrated because
there's no way to disprove what she's saying if you remember back when the
whole trans thing was going on she would get on camera and cry and say like you
can't tell me how I feel you can't tell me what I think and while that's very
true it upsets a lot of people because there's this this dissonance where you
know like yeah I can't tell you what you think or feel or what's going on in your
mind but on the other hand I know you're full
of crap you know what I made some people call it my polar borderline but it's
really she acknowledges the diagnosis that she had from a mental health
professional she talks about how she has borderline personality disorder but to
her it's dissociative identity disorder that is not how it works
imagine going to a hospital and getting diagnosed with I don't know I don't know
some kind of some kind of physical illness like maybe a flu and you're like
no it's cancer they say it's a flu I think it's cancer like you can't do that
you can't do that now if she went through the necessary steps and got a
proper diagnosis cool but until then it's pissing off a lot of people and
it's just that like love thing is like the hardest is to find someone to love
through the disassociation love through to switches so this last clip she talks
about wanting to be in a relationship and be with somebody who can handle her
through her switches and if you watch Anthony Padilla's video that's something
that comes up with each of the guests he had on there it could be difficult to
find people are gonna be there with you through it
right it's the exact same thing with borderline personality disorder but
again here is my strict opinion on this anybody who's followed Trisha Paytas for
any period of time has seen her go in and out of therapy
all right last year I was super proud of her she said she finally found a
therapist that she really liked to seem like she was going to therapy
quite often then that fell off all right but anyways you need to treat the right
illness so if anybody out there is watching this if anybody out there knows
somebody with borderline personality disorder
the primary therapy used for borderline personality disorder is dialectical
behavioral therapy okay so one of those symptoms that unstable sense of self
dialectical behavioral therapy can help with that it can also help with the
other major issue which is emotional regulation dialectical behavioral
therapy is the best therapy for borderline personality disorder but
there are also other therapies that can help like cognitive behavioral therapy
again I've worked with thousands of people with borderline personality
disorder the people who do those two types of therapy primarily DBT see the
most success and the best results alright anyways I'm gonna go out on a
limb on the glass is half-full kind of optimistic guy I do I do hope that
Trisha Paytas isn't purposely doing this to offend people there is a narrative
out there that when she's not getting views or when she wants to stir stuff up
and get pushed into the limelight again she finds a way to really tick off an
entire community and I am hoping that's not the case I'm hoping that this is her
symptoms coming to light but at the end of the day our mental health is our
responsibility and if we're pissing people off it is
our job to go get help go to therapy seek treatment whatever we have to do
people don't people don't have to sit there and put up with our stuff but if
this is something that offends you if you've been watching Trisha Paytas for
years now and she is constantly offending you hit the unsubscribe button
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