there was a recent study done had to figure out whether or not it makes sense
for parents to be honest what they're teenagers about their past run cues now
this is a fascinating question because even though i don't have children myself
i've always wondered what's the best policy ies the policy or is it want your
kids are pretending like you and intial
when you were a teenager well at the study published in at the journal human
communication research examine drug surveys of nearly six hundred americans
six seventh and eighth graders that questionnaire attitudes toward tribes
whether they use trans and what kinds of messages their parents we're giving them
children reported their parents told them about regretting their always past
substance abuse act or use will more or less likely to have anti substance use
perceptions so they're more likely to be open-minded toward using these trends
are experiment with him
which i find really really interesting so high gas dot moral of the story is
don't be honest with your kids pretend like you've never used drugs
what happens is
you tell your teenager
well uh... i had like a cocaine binge and it was really really bad i i i
almost died out overdose i was in the hospital
the even if you let's all the negative things the holyfield teenagers getting
here according to this one study
is
away dot
my momma where my dad did trust which means there ok now which means i can
experiment with it and i'll be fine waiter here
well uh... i believe a disclaimer read study it's also possible this is an
cause a little bit something is causing both increased likelihood telling your
kids about your drug use and then having
the non anti drug use uh... police
um... but i actually i i'm a bit depressed by this because i sometimes
think about you know what sir peregrine strategy i would want to use if i ever
had a kid and uh...
was responsible and claim that its action line was going to to present
um... and i i i i would imagine that you know i'm hopeful that i've gone to
graduate school and i will resume with this child in tell them the right things
that he should do it he will go out and do them
um... but apparently that will actually work because the psychology the kid is
fundamentally dissimilar from the psychology an adult
well actually want to talk about based on this was uh... just away if you go i
think
jake was talking about how key reasons with pro when he was like i can just
tell them what to do and i think given the argument and it does it do you think
that pro is like the one in a million child who is a completely logical at age
you know wonder whatever or do you think that i think is deluding himself
and the kids exited about their differing back in a kid i guess it as an
attorney who first bns no i'm curious to see what you have to say i'm not parents
i feel like i i just let the parents good um...
i think will first of the julian you're kind of a clinic is personality and
natural tendencies
if they're attracted because i have for siblings some bliss
listen and figure things out and take it in an internalize it is almost over
system itself would tolerance on it's use a lot of the drawn that aspect but i
think pros store two years old exactly at least fourteen
he's not ellis contacted for an employee and that that's not what i wanted to say
i mean a two-year-old is very different from a rebellious teenager when you're
sitting here
come definitely dollars out when your teenager you become a lot more curious
about bad things uh... alien you you're much more open to experimenting and you
have
access to those types of things that you know don't even know that those things
are well
i mean i i'm not going to do but i have heard about the terrible twos apparently
to was when they begin to like automatically naturally psychologically
rebel against their parents yet but not drug use its like on the crawl this way
sunitha
walk i guess he's walking by now and but yeah you told me that they're very good
point uh... identity interesting to see like so
so up rosa lopez older than that the children both uses a charcoal and how
they're going to procure future yeah i can't seem to be honest about your check
is not beat you guys i've ever done any tribes are anything but i had to be
honest about hong
levin
does that you know what it because i don't have the drug is past listening to
me less credible
you don't even want to talk about that and it is it
that girl and they have to go
uh... left approached by armed
i get i'm one of those people i'm going to have a spouse who is
i don't know i guess naive enough to believe f_-fourteen and i've had this
conversation
i think atkins i think he left his art
i until i think i figured out strictly fourteen cuz i wass up you did wrong in
her siblings
thank you listen
out to be wrong i want to believe that it will run becoming approaches the with
some straight up
and somewhat in full reasoning women
that they can take apart