We're going to talk about three really quick ways you can totally makeover your attitude and change your life by changing your day
Changing your vibe, so let's get started
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Three simple tips to change your attitude a bad attitude goes far beyond simply being a little grumpy or a tad cranky
Anybody can get cantankerous or pouty due to a rotten day or a tough situation?
the problem arises when you allow the negativity to build up so much that it becomes a pervasive part of your life
a poor view on life is like a cloud when you can't get out from under
It's always there
And it affects everything you do like that cloud a bad attitude sabotages
your attempts at self growth the good news is that you have the power to change your thinking
Follow these three simple tricks to change your attitude completely. Start by picturing a better life
Sure, it's nice to fantasize about wonderful experiences you could have if you were rich or famous
However dreaming alone is not going to move you forward in this life
It is possible to use those fantasies to propel you toward the types of actions needed to overcome your poor attitude
Think of the areas in your life where you could improve if your perspective were to change
Instead of focusing on all that's wrong with your crummy job for example
Envision how much better it would be if you were to concentrate on the positive aspects of it
If you can't think of anything good about your job
You could look at some realistic alternatives to your current position or ways to make it at least more bearable
Visualizing an improved situation can provide the motivation needed to generate new ideas
Now you can also avoid becoming a victim. The victim mentality is so easy to fall into
It's a dangerous trap because it allows you to think there is nothing you can do about your current circumstances
This isn't to say that some life situations can simply be overcome through
Positive thinking, however, even under incredibly stressful times you can begin with at least one small portion of your life
That you can control and then move on from there.
By seeing yourself as in control
And then accomplishing even the smallest act toward change
You can really begin to shift your mindset and make things incrementally better, each small change adds up to a significantly different experience
Use positive words.
Our words influence how we feel
We all know someone who
constantly speaks negatively,
complains and refuses to ever look on the bright side.
Hopefully your attitude has not fallen quite that far. Even if it has though you can turn things around by changing your vocabulary
substitute a phrase like:
I'm able to do at least part of this tour now,
and I can finish it at a more convenient time.
For a former go-to statement like: I'll never get this done
Proactive language leads to forward action. You're going to feel more confident with that change is possible
when you begin to choose your words more wisely.
These are three simple tricks that you can use to change your attitude
that require just a little bit more than some slight adjustments and while it's going to take some time to make these adjustments
stick, you will soon see the improvements that are possible with just a few tweaks.
I'd like you to stop whatever you're doing for just a moment and listen
carefully the fact is that you will not get more than you expect, hold on. Let me say it one more time
I want you to really get what I'm saying before we go on
You only get what you expect. You simply cannot achieve more than you believe that you can. It's really not that complicated
Like Mary Kay Ash once said, "if you think you can, you can, and if you think you can't, you're right"
Listen carefully my friends; do not put limits on your desires
You can have, do or be whatever you want, if you believe that you can
You don't have to know exactly how you're going to get there either. That's one of the really cool things about this whole deal
Put your desires out to the universe and then believe that you're manifesting them, because you are. You are what you think.
Placing limits on your thoughts or attempting to limit the aspirations of others, will only attract more limits into your life
Instead open your mind and recognize that the world is abundant
You can achieve whatever you believe that you can. Do you think I'm full of it? Well think of Andrew Carnegie.
He was the child of poor immigrants, and he believed that he could achieve his dreams
and then he went on to become the second richest man in history, so how did he do that? Well
he simply believed that he could and he decided what he wanted,
He took the necessary inspired action
and his true divine desires manifested exactly as he expected.
"I am no longer cursed by poverty because I took possession of my own mind and that mind has yielded me every material thing
I want and much more than I need" Carnegie once said, "but this power of mind is a universal one
available to the humblest person as it is to the greatest." In case I haven't made myself clear,
Do not believe anyone who tells you that you need to put limits on your goals and your desires
You are the only keeper of your own destiny, and you decide what you believe you can accomplish
Refuse to accept anything less than your true divine desires
Are you still not convinced?
Then I want to ask you to remember what Buddha once said "All that we are is the result of all that we have thought"
Think big my friends believe that your greatest desires will manifest
Because the truth is; that we really do get what we expect. You need a further nudge? Well consider
what famed American writer and mythologist Joseph Campbell said,
"Follow your bliss and doors will open for you that you never knew existed,
follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls."
All right this brings me to the question of the day;
What do you think? Will you refuse to accept limits upon your potential?
Share your thoughts and your ideas in the comments section below and let's talk about it.
Alright, that's all I've got for you right now, as always,
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