Oh hi babes
You may remember that a while ago I did a video about how to help a partner with a vagina
or women to orgasm
and this time because I'm all about equality (shoulder dance)
I wanted to talk about penis pleasure and how to help a male partner
But before we dive in, I want to say thanks to Adam & Eve.com
who partnered with me on this video
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Just like vaginas, It's important to understand how male pleasure anatomy works
So lets~ talk about it!
Most of the nerve endings in the penis are concentrated around in head or the glans
Now this is relevant.
Because sometimes y'all will email me like -
I really wanna give my boyfriend an AWESOME blowjob
and everytime I do, I feel like I'm gonna throw up
which is like WOAH. We just went from blowjobs to vomit really fast
I think the idea that you need to put a penis in your lungs in order to give your partner pleasure
is an expectation and an idea which comes from porn
and it is simply not true.
SO on the tip of the penis there are two hotspots to know
One is the corona which is that little ridge around the head
And the second is the frenulum which is the little patch of skin on the underside of the penis right beneath the head
For folks who are intact, who are uncircumcised, who have their foreskin
Foreskin is another pleasure center on the penis
This piece of skin it provides natural lubrication it has about 20,000 nerve endings
and particularly when you pull the foreskin very gently
over the head of the penis, particularly over the corona and the frenulum
it can produce a very pleasurable sensation
or so I hear.
I don't have a penis
for those who are circumcised. the bad news is that
circumcision does damage nerve endings and the pleasurable function of the foreskin
the good news, is that you can still stimulate those hotspots with your hands, with your mouth
or with toys :D
For everyone but particularly for those who are circumcised
add a little bit of lubrication during hand play or oral can increase the sensation
when it comes to pressure and speed, I have my usual respone; ask your partner
everyone's different
and you know the penis is basically like a large clitoris
so all my other tips in the video about the clitoris and stimulation
still have applications on the penis
Very important question, what about the balls?
What indeed.
You've probably figured out by now, that is a very sensitive body part
and you don't want to go slapping it around
But with all that sensitivity, you can produce pleasurable sensations as well
Some people like their balls licked or sucked or touched or put a vibrator to them
I mean there's all kinds of things you can do, so as usual
communicate with your partner and figure out what feels good
Underneath the balls, before the anus, you'll find a little patch of skin
that is called the perineum.
Sometimes, this area is sensitive to pressure and lubricated touch
Can you hear my neighbors?
If only they knew I was about to talk about butts with the internet
Cause your butt can be a wonderful source of pleasure as well
Especially if you have a penis
The anus, just the outside has a lot of nerve endings
So that can feel nice. On the inside of the butt, you'll find your prostate
AKA the male G-Spot
The prostate is a gland. It's involved in producing semen and it sits at the very root, the base of the penis
It's about - this - big and it swells during arousal
You wanna make sure your partner is pretty aroused before doing prostate stuff
You wanna make sure to use lube because the butts dont produce any of their own lubrication
and you also wanna make sure your partner is ready and they invite you in.
You can stimulate a prostate with another penis, with fingers, or with toys
Like a prostate massager
Just make sure whatever it is that you're putting in there has a flared base so that it doesn't get stuck
Like you know, this guy, or this guy.
every year, 3,000 of some people end up in an emergency room because they put stuff in their butt that doesn't have a flared base
Don't be one of them
Now, why would you want to experiment with the prostate?
It's pretty taboo, some people are uncomfortable with it
The main answer
is that this type of pleasure, this type of stimulation
is distinct from the penis. It's on the inside of the body as opposed to the outside
A prostate orgasm was once described to me as an intense full-body orgasm that sends wave after wave throughout my whole body
Quite the endorsement right there.
So if you're curious, you can experiment on your own or with a partner.
IF you're both down with it, of course.
Some people are just not comfortable with butt stuff and that's perfectly okay.
In my bonus video linked down below,
I'm gonna talk more about some ways to enhance penis and prostate pleasure
So check it out!
And thanks again to adamandeve.com for supporting my channel and sex ed on youtube
I'll put all that promo info down below!
Stay safe, Have Fun out there! And I'll see you next time!