Shane Dawson just dropped part 2 of the mind of Jake Paul and this one was
titled the dark side of Jake Paul and he was with the lovely Kati Morton who is a
licensed Marriage and Family Therapist here on YouTube and when I was watching
this video I'm like wait a second a ton of people who watch this are gonna start
trying to diagnose themselves or diagnosing other people around them as
sociopaths so we need to talk about that right now
what is everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is
all about helping you improve your mental health that could be improving
depression or anxiety or your relationships and things like that so if
you're in that kind of stuff make sure you subscribe and bring that
notification bell I promise you that I am NOT a sociopath
but like people keep saying sociopaths anyways first and foremost go check out
Katie Morton's channel I actually go check out her channel when I'm trying to
learn a little bit more about different mental illnesses to do videos on my
channels she's very very smart and educated so go check around her
subscriber numbers are blowing up
anyways if you're watching this Kati Morton or anybody else watching this
I've been trying to collab with Katie Moore and since I came on YouTube
because I love what she's doing she lives in Southern California I'm live in
Las Vegas Katie let's collab together let's spread a message of hope to
anybody struggling with mental illness girl anyways maybe in the future maybe
when I get bigger but yeah let's talk about this let's talk about the dark
side of Jake Paul so I was live streaming this over on Twitch and I was
taking down notes all sorts of notes I have like 15 billion video ideas but as
I was watching this I was like man like a lot of people I know a lot of people
can relate to different symptoms and science and you know a lot of people
might spot them and others so we need to talk about it so if you haven't watched
it go watch it there's gonna be some spoilers but Katie morning starts
described all the traits of a sociopath feel for
other people yeah and we feel all day I feel pissed off I feel excited I feel
disappointed whatever they don't have any of that in the DSM this is what she
had but it's just it's a diagnosable disorder as antisocial personality
disorder okay she mentioned that 15% of criminals in
the prison system antisocial personality disorder so these are people who have
impulsivity issues the biggest one is a lack of emotions as well as manipulation
if you want to learn more about it I just made a video on the first video
where I go through all the different signs of a sociopath like as I'm
watching this you know all sorts of thoughts were running through my head
and like so for those of you who don't know me I'm an addict and alcoholic and
recovery so when she was talking about how people are doing things only to meet
their needs and they're talking about how a youtuber might you know make an
apology video just to get people on their side or the youtuber might do
something nice for a fan or something like that but it's just to get something
in return like if you've ever known a lot of them do that we call this self
seeking where we're only doing things to get something in return
whether it's like physical tangible things or it's like attention or
affection or love or things like that but I think it's important to separate
you know the signs and symptoms versus like an actual diagnosis like mental
health and mental illness are so complex and it's one of the reasons I have this
channel to increase awareness and decrease the stigma and all that stuff
like it's so complicated and this DSM it's it's a framework it's a guide to
kind of work in but as you start to learn more about different mental
illnesses you start to see all of this overlap okay you start just like they
talked about in this video they talked about how sociopaths and narcissists
have similar traits if you look at people with borderline personality
disorder you'll see of sociopathic traits right but she
touched on a point where she said some people only might show some of the signs
or symptoms but you know they really feel awful they feel bad like if you
know anybody with borderline personality disorder that's them you know what I
mean they manipulate people they try to get what they want they're trying to get
love affection they they don't have a sense of self they don't have an
identity so they might mimic other people and things like that but most
people with borderline personality disorder which is why I hate the stigma
around that disorder most of them feel awful they feel terrible about the
things that they do to other people so like I wanted to touch on that real
quick because when we're talking about this like you might know people who have
signs and symptoms but I please please please like as somebody who's like a
mental health advocate like don't go running around like saying oh there's a
sociopath there's a sociopath you're a sociopath because some people just might
have those traits right so one thing that Shane touched on was sometimes he
doesn't feel emotion sometimes he doesn't cry sometimes you know if you
see something sad he doesn't and I'm thinking about making a video about how
society and social media is turning us into sociopaths like that lack of
emotion that lack of empathy that you know we're talking about like when Katie
said they'll like just move on from one subject to an X like you got to
understand we're living in this 24-hour news cycle where this is one of the
reasons what more people have depression and anxiety than ever before but we're
constantly inundated with bad news bad news bad news awful news like back in
the day 30 or 40 years ago like it had to be a major crisis in the world or in
your area for you to really hear about it you know what I mean now we're seeing
more and more and more and more and more everywhere we go and eventually people
start getting desensitized to it so over on the philip defranco red rocket
podcast they were talking about getting kind of desensitized to it and i can
really relate to that does that make them sociopaths does that make me a
sociopath no absolutely not but it's something that I personally look and
reflect on constantly so those of you who are new to my channel not only am I
an addict and alcoholic and recovery I've been clean for six years but I also
worked at a treatment center for three years okay in the last three
years I have had over 70 people die over 70 people die from overdoses and
suicides okay there are so many times there are so many times when I get this
news and just no emotion right just none you know what I mean and it makes me
question myself like what's happening to me
am I just numb to this type of thing but sometimes those emotions come back later
but I want you all to know if you're watching this like don't judge yourself
too harshly if you don't express the emotions that you think somebody should
express our brains are so complex and constantly changing and like like some
of us who have just been around like that kind of trauma so so much and that
tragedy we get a little desensitized to it and it sucks but you have to really
be mindful of your situation and notice like okay I do feel things I do feel for
other people like this old lady was walking across the stream so I hope you
get across that street girl for instance the other day I was in my car and I'm
driving there's little lady that started to get into the crosswalk and I was like
honey you got like 12 seconds you know what I mean like we have to spot those
things in ourselves and say oh okay I don't feel no emotion at all because
it's important to just realize that you know we can't always judge ourselves for
what we feel or what we don't feel that's a huge part of mental health is
we're constantly judging our emotions so like they go on later to say is that
Shane is an empath you know Shane feels a lot but you know his brain can point
out the specific times when he didn't feel bad you know what I mean that
doesn't mean that he's he's a sociopath now like on a certain day you might have
sociopathic tendencies or sociopathic traits if you really want to learn more
about this go watch my video I'll try to link it up in the info card up here
about my borderline personality disorder story okay so just a real brief little
recap of that I've never been officially diagnosed with borderline personality
disorder but as I learned about it I noticed a lot of those traits that I
used to have a lot of the symptoms of borderline personalities
order I had but now I'm in a much better mental state but for example what are
the symptoms of borderline personality disorder is black black and white
thinking a ton a ton of people have black and white thinking that does not
mean that they have borderline personality disorder so you know like
part of what I try to do on this channel is just to educate people I know that
Shane Dawson's new video the dark side of Jake Paul with Kati Morton is going
to get millions upon millions upon millions of views and I'm hoping I'm
hoping some of you came to this video and you're learning like okay don't run
around telling everybody they're a sociopath don't think that you're a
sociopath if you need help make sure you check out the description below I have
resources where you can talk to mental health professionals and things like
that alright but don't go around diagnosing
yourself like YouTube is a great place where we can educate people like when I
do videos about different disorders or diagnosing people and you know it's not
like I try not to diagnose anybody I try to explain it I don't know this person I
think Kati Morton did a very good job of saying she doesn't know Jake Paul says
she's not gonna diagnose him without knowing him you know what I mean but
like we got to be careful we got to be careful about trying to self diagnose or
diagnose others I know a lot of people who get sober you know and I warn people
all the time I'm like don't do that you're gonna piss a lot of people off
alright but anyways this was a very interesting video and also make sure
you're subscribed and bring the notification bell right after I upload
this video I'm gonna go to edit a next video and the next video is gonna be
about Shane realizing that he needs to go to therapy because he's a fixer
because I can definitely relate to that and that might be something that you
could relate to too so I'm gonna make that right after this
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watching don't self diagnose or diagnose others and I'll see you next time