- Hey, what's up, it's me, Jessica J.
And I'm just wondering if you've ever sat
and thought to yourself,
"Hey, Jessica, what dirty things girls wish guys did?"
Well, if so, I'm gonna tell you today,
and the reason that this is edited in the former ways
I used to edit is 'cause I didn't want
my post-production team seeing how horny I was going to get.
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Okay, so, the last video I did was like,
things women wish men knew about what we wanted
in the bedroom or about sex.
This one it's about the dirty shit we really wish you did.
And if by the end of this, you know that you're not
in a place where you feel comfortable enough to go there
with women or maybe you're not even getting women
into bed to begin with.
I got the solution for you at the very end.
Okay, so, there's seven of these,
and this is gonna take a while for me to fucking film.
So I'm just gonna get right to it, right now.
So the first one is ass play.
Okay, I'm gonna tell you right now.
The butthole has a lot of nerve endings,
even the muscles in the gluteus maximus.
Lots of nerve endings, I'll tell you right now,
nothing gets me hotter than just having my butt rubbed.
And while no, I'm not telling you to put it in there
when she already told you she doesn't want you
to put it in there.
I'm telling you, you know,
like grabbing a firm (growls)
like that or even just like, you know,
manipulating a little bit back there without insertion.
(chuckles) Oh god.
We love that shit.
I'm telling you right now, especially when we're turned on,
we want all of our senses ignited.
And I know I've said it in other videos before,
some of our most sensitive sexual hotspots are in the folds.
That's actually one of my number one secret spots
that men almost never go to, and I wish they did,
is my inner elbows!
But ass play, yeah.
The butt and the hole.
And, you know, you probably seen all these memes
about eating ass now because women are realizing
just how much they fucking love it.
The second one is (chuckles)
we'd love it if you just whipped it out
during those super romantic moments.
So in the last video I talked about being more romantic
in a way that catered to her and her love language.
So if you know, you're having
a very romantic time out together, the scene is set.
You done made her feel so special and loved.
Now is the time to whip it out. We wanna see that shit.
We are hungry for that shit.
Because like I always say, no female fantasy ever ends with,
and I hope he never fucking kisses me
or fucks my brains out.
That's why makeup sex is always the hottest
because when we are making up, we are coming together,
and connecting, and understanding each other
in ways that is absolutely necessary
to go from angry to happy.
And when we feel that shift, we wanna feel your shaft.
The third one is, you want you to dominate us
and take control.
I'll tell you right now.
I don't care how empowered we women are.
I don't care how woke the world is.
I don't care how many rights we now have,
or how much money we're making compared to y'all.
We still want you to do what you fucking do
in the bedroom and take control.
Nothing primarily gets my pussy pulsing
like a man in power in poundtown.
You like all them p's?
For all my girlfriends who like make high six figures
seven figures, who super independent women.
They all like being fucking dominated
and overpowered in the bedroom.
I'm like horrified, some of the things that
my girlfriends like in the bedroom
because they are so high powered in their individual life.
Now I'm not sitting here and telling you to go in there
and order her around, and call her a little slut,
or tell her to get down on her knees and suck it bitch,
you fucking suck it. (makes gagging noise)
No, it has to be in a way that she wants,
not only in a way that she wants,
all women want men who take control in the bedroom.
That means be assertive, tell us what you like,
do the thing that you know we like
and just please take the reins, please.
Even if she's the one who wants to like dominate
and shit.
You encourage the shit outta her while she does it.
God, this is hard to do. Number four is dirty talk.
I talked about this in the last one.
Y'all think that dirty talk isn't for everybody
because maybe she didn't respond to the last time
you called her a little butt slut or cum dumpster.
No, dirty talk doesn't mean you take whatever you heard
in the porno and then you spit it out at her.
That is not effective dirty talk.
You need to find out what makes your girl hot?
Me and my cousin were actually talking about this.
I was telling her like, listen
it doesn't matter if he says it every fucking time.
I just need him to say this one thing every fucking time.
And she goes, that's funny because I'm the same way.
It's exactly the opposite
but I need to hear it every time and it doesn't get old.
Every woman has a thing that she wants
to fucking hear in the sack.
So just, you know, just like find out what it is.
You know, this requires really getting to know your girl.
And you know, the one man in my life
who had perfected dirty talk really paid attention
to what like drove me the fucking craziest in the sack.
And he, you know, just did that same fucking thing
every time and said that same fucking thing every time.
And you can be the best sex of her life.
If you find out that thing that she wants you to do
every fucking time when it comes to dirty talk.
'Cause I promise you, every girl wants it.
Number five, I mentioned it in my last video.
We want you to hurt us a little bit.
Again, the pain pleasure principle.
When we are in heightened states of arousal
our body cannot decipher between pain and pleasure.
So heightened states of pain
our brain will confuse as pleasure.
Which is why women will be like,
oh my god, hurt me, oh my god, your fat dick, hurt me.
Or I had a girlfriend who really liked to be hit hard
until she looked like she had been
in a domestic violence dispute.
I'm telling you, we want it.
I'm not telling you to go in there and rough her up
because I said to.
Again, it's about finding out what she specifically wants
but I'm telling you, we want you to fucking go there.
The sixth one is make us work for it.
Just like you don't want your girl to be fucking easy
or you don't want a girl who is easy.
We also don't want a man who's easy, either.
Make me work for that dick,
make me prove myself for your penis.
Oh my God,
I can't even finish saying what I have written down.
Basically just like tease us and shit
and make us work for you to put it in us
and make us fucking beg for it
and don't just give it to us right away.
All right, that's it.
That's all I'm fucking saying about that, I'm about to cum.
And the seventh one is will you just fucking come onto us?
I said it once and I'll say it again.
It turns us on to turn you on.
So if we're having a moment
and we're talking about something so deep in the car,
talking about our connection, how much we love each other.
And then I look over and your penis is out.
That's gonna turn me on.
We love knowing the effect we have on you
but first we need to have a connection.
You can't just fucking whip it out on the plane,
like I read a news article about today
some 76 year old man tapped this girl on the shoulder
on a flight from Newark to Boston.
She looked over and his penis was out.
That's creepy.
Please don't do that guys.
Oh my God, please.
We have to feel a connection.
We have to feel an emotional connection.
We have to feel valued and appreciated and wanted by you.
Don't forget that last piece.
A lot of you guys think that last piece
of wanting a woman is something to be ashamed about.
And I'm telling you, it's not.
Granted, we women don't fucking celebrate enough.
Because we got to a point where men coming on to us
was a dangerous thing.
But I'm telling you right now if you're a good guy
and you like this girl and you respect this girl
and you have a great connection
and you make her laugh, whip out your dick for her?
She's waiting for it.
And if you're still having issues moving things forward
without feeling too forward or creepy
don't forget to sign up for this master class right here
which gonna tell you exactly how to shift that frame
in your mind from being, oh no, I can't do this
to, oh yeah, she wants me to do this.
Because I'm telling you, once you get it in your head
and accept that this is a good thing.
This is what she wants after we've created a connection
and how to create that connection.
That's when you start attracting women on autopilot,
that's when women start putting you won the pedestal.
And that's where you ultimately have options.
I got on a call with a client the other day
and I asked him what type of women he wants.
And his answer was I want any woman that wants me,
like what bro.
And then he's like so confused as to why like all the women
he's been with in his life have ended up cheating on him
or using and abusing him.
I'm like, bro, because you literally just fell into
the trap of I'll take anybody who wants me, I guess.
Don't fall into that fucking trap,
there's no fucking excuse.
It's a free fucking master class, just go to it.
And please go out there and get like as fucking dirty
as like, (takes a dramatic breath)
we both want you to get.
And thanks for watching as always,
I'll see you guys next time.