Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Today we're gonna be
talking about the 5 things that you need to know before you ask a girl out.
Mainly this video is for beginners but really I hope that even if you don't
feel you are a beginner, you're watching this anyways because there's some
principles that are really crucial in asking girls out that I think a lot of
guys forget so let's go over them. First things first, you want to be direct.
You want to be direct. When you're asking a girl out, don't actually
ask her out. Just tell her. This is very good because this shows a lot of
dominance which is very masculine trait and it shows that you're going after
what it is that you want. What do you want you want? You want to hang out with her.
If you ever have the opportunity to ask a girl out maybe over text, maybe in person
just say to her "let's hang out." Let her know you want to see her again.
"We should hang out sometime." You can suggest it. "We should hang out sometime."
But don't ask. Listen; is this gonna be the make or break if you ask her?
Is she gonna be like "oh it's so unattractive. This guy asked me out in the form of a
question." No, but I think that doing it in this direct way is gonna help
get you practicing this dominant mentality of just going after what you want.
Saying what you want and again that will
take you into other areas of your life and then be more attractive.
Number two; you gotta remember this, very important, expect rejection most of the
time. If you're not getting rejected quite a bit, that means that you're being
too particular. That means that you're really going after only one person every,
I don't know, however many months or years and you're keeping it really
tight. I get it, it's fine. Be picky with who you want. But I believe
that guys should be going out there and meeting lots of the girls because you
don't know what's gonna happen with this one girl. If you're meeting one girl in
your six months, that's not a really good ratio because you want to be practicing
dating. You want to be going out and finding someone who's gonna be awesome
for you. I want you to be dating a lot and expect rejection most of the time.
Because that's what's gonna happen. You're gonna get rejected most of the
time. That's normal. You're not going to attract every single
girl that comes your way. Yes, you will be able to attract more girls than
not if you are using a lot of the techniques and principles that I talk
about my videos. But still, it's not possible, you will not make that
connection with everyone you meet. Number three; similar to what I was
saying earlier, do it for the practice. Meaning just ask the girl out. If you're
thinking I don't know maybe she's gonna reject you or you're not sure if
you're into her, whatever it is, just ask her out. Do it for the practice. There's
actually, I don't say a skill in asking a girl out, but it is a moment that is
very hard for guys. So the more and more you do it, the more you practice it, just
asking girls out, taking them out; that's gonna help you be more comfortable in
the future when it happens again. If you're just doing it every once in a
while, it's still gonna be kind of scary for you if it is right now. So make
sure that when you have an opportunity to do it, just go for it. Don't hold back,
don't make excuses in your head like "oh she'll probably say no." Get the rejection,
do it for the practice. Number four; don't wait too long. If there is a girl at your
work or at your class, there's a girl that you have in your social circle that
you really like or the girl that you see on the subway all the time, listen, don't
wait too long. Just go for it. Like I said earlier, you're gonna get rejected most
the time so just make it happen. Here's the thing, the longer you wait,
the less and less a girl is attracted to you. She wants you to ask her out
if she likes you. In theory, if she likes you, she's gonna want you to ask
her out and the longer you wait, she's just gonna be like "okay this guy doesn't
even like me" or she's gonna be able to tell that you're too
nervous to do it and that is also not attractive. Women like guys who go after
what they want. Like I said in the very beginning of this video. Just being
dominant, going for it. So don't wait too long.
Go for the rejection. Keep that in your head. Remember again practice. You see
how I'm tying all these principles together? Let's go to number five.
Remember this; a girl is not gonna do this for you.
Bottom freakin line. She is not going to ask you out. This is another reason why
guys wait too long. Because they're thinking "well maybe she'll do it or
maybe she'll say the perfect thing that just offers like this perfect moment
where it's gonna happen." No, girls waiting for you to do it.
Not because they're entitled, not because they're lazy and I would say even not
because of society standards. I'd say for the primal reason is she's looking for a
guy who is dominant. That is the masculine trait that she looks for.
That's what she wants to see. Just like you're looking for the feminine
qualities to become attracted to her. You need to just go for it. Stop wasting
time. I think you see the theme here of this video. Just do it. Stop worrying
so much. There's a really big mistake that guys make when asking a girl out.
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about that. Let me hear you in the comments and I want to hear you say that
you went for it. Literally type in the comments "I went for it" for a girl
you've been waiting to ask out. Who cares if you get rejected. Go for it. Let's hear you
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