Either this is clay and if you are afraid that you've been put in the friend zone by
racks, then this video is for you.
Okay?
So the most important thing that I have to tell you is number one, you are not in the
friend zone.
Okay?
The friend zone is not something you need to worry about.
Now you.
I'm not saying the friend zone doesn't exist.
I'm not saying the friend zone does not exist at all because it does exist in dating sort
of suit circumstances, right?
Like if you meet somebody and you know, you're not sure if they're attracted you it or whatever,
then yeah, you might have to be concerned about the friend zone, but since you've been
in a romantic relationship with this person already, you do not need to be worried about
the friend zone because they already find you attractive.
Okay?
That person already finds you to be an attractive person.
Um, and you know, attraction isn't just something that can just be flipped on and off like that.
It's something that once it's there, it's pretty much always going to be there.
You know, barring any sort of like weird physical, mangled mints or anything like that that maybe
you've gone through that you're probably gonna consistently be attracted to you.
Okay?
So that's definitely not something you need to worry about.
Uh, the problem is, is that that attraction between the two of you is being blocked by
negative emotions.
Okay?
And that's something we talk about in other videos about how to clear out those negative
emotions with the advanced relating skills and all that stuff.
I'm not going to go into all that now, but right now they are attracted to the reason
the two of you are not together is not because of a lack of attraction is because that attraction
is being blocked by negative emotions.
All you have to do is remove the negative emotions and the attractions are there will
just flow automatically.
Okay?
Just flow automatically and do it and naturally does, which is bringing the two of you together.
So don't worry about trying to retract your ex or anything like that because that's just
going to chase you down some weird rabbit hole that frankly you do not need to go down.
I have to do is just remove the negative emotions.
The attractional take care of itself.
Okay?
But you may be thinking, okay, well my ex says we're just friends.
Like, what's up with that?
Like what do you have to say about that Mr. breakup expert?
Well, okay, here's my answer for you.
Um, and that's this.
Okay.
So oftentimes when you're first getting reacquainted with your ex after a breakup, you know, oftentimes
from your access point of view, oftentimes they'll have had to go out and tell their
family, their friends, everybody, you know, hey, we broke up.
Yeah, it's sad, but you know, ultimately we had to do it, blah blah.
And then when you know, they, they see that the two of you hanging out again are talking
again or whatever.
It's like, Hey, what happened?
I thought the two of you broke up, you guys back together again, you dating all that stuff
and oftentimes your x just doesn't know where this is going.
They don't know if the two of you are going to get back together.
They don't know what's going to happen.
And so oftentimes they just have to say no, we're just friends.
And the reason for that is because they don't want to go through.
Like the weird embarrassing thing was like, yeah, we're back together.
And then like, you know, you guys start arguing again and then another week later you've broken
up again.
And then it's like, oh well just kidding.
We're just broken up again.
Now it's embarrassing to do the whole back and forth thing for them.
And a little weird too, because they don't know where things are going and so they just
need to call you a friend or in order to justify to themselves and to the people around them
in their life, why they're hanging out with you, to give them permission to hang out with
you because you know, they don't know if the two of you are going to get back together,
especially in the early stages.
They don't know where things are going, especially in the early stages.
But you know, what, if you can continue to make the interactions between you and your
ex fuel, good.
We've talked about in other videos and in the program.
Um, eventually it'll come to a point where things just tip in your favor.
And suddenly it's like, yeah, you know, looking back, we were dating this whole time.
We've been dating ever since.
Whatever date you went on your first date together with.
And um, it's really not something you need to be concerned about.
The whole friend zone thing for the reasons I just explained to, you know, number one,
they are still attracted to you.
It's just that attraction is being blocked by the history between the two of you just
got to clear that out.
The attraction will take care of itself.
Number two, if they are calling you a friend, if you know they're saying, oh yeah, we're
just friends, or something like that.
It's not something you need to be concerned about because that's just the label they need
to give you and them for the time being in order for it to be okay for them to hang out
with you, you know, especially if they're not going to rebound relationship or something
like that where, uh, you know, people go like, Hey, I thought you were in a relationship
so and so will you do in dating this guy?
And they're like, oh, well we're just friends because nobody wants to think of themselves
as like the person that goes out and it was like the two timer or like cheating on someone
else or anything like that.
Nobody wants to think of themselves like that.
So oftentimes in order to justify hanging out with you, either for themselves or to
other people or whatever, they just have to say that the two of you are friends.
It doesn't mean that they don't feel attraction for you.
It just means that right now they don't know where things are going.
They, they're just kind of exploring things right now and they still absolutely do feel
attraction for you.
It's just being blocked right now.
But right now, in order to hang out with you, they just have to call what the two of you
are friends.
Okay.
And later on retroactively there'll be able to look back and be like, yeah, we were dating
that whole time.
Okay.
So don't worry about the whole friend thing.
It doesn't matter to you right now.
As somebody who has gone through a breakup who's trying to get back together with their
ex, again, friend zone is absolutely real in dating context, but is not something you
have to worry about right now.
If this is somebody you have been in a romantic relationship with previously.
So again, I hope this helps you out and if you'd like to get more help getting together
with the person that you love, head over to relationship, inner game.com and sign up there
so we can help you get back together with your ex today.
Thank you.