So did you know that giving flowers to
girls in Eastern Europe whether that's Russia
Ukraine and Belarus is massive business there are literally
flowers everywhere lining the streets in the major cities
not just here in Odessa Ukraine but all over the
former Soviet Union but does it help local and foreign guys actually get the
girl at the end of the day that is the question I'm going to be
answering in today's Tip Thursday with me Conor Clyne
so guys giving girls flowers and these girls that they're interested in
is a long-standing courting tradition not just here in Eastern Europe but also in
Western Europe and it has fallen out of favor in the
West but it remains pretty strong if here in
Eastern Europe especially when you see the amount of girls walking around with
flowers posting them on their instagram amazing bouquets but does that mean that
you should buy flowers for a girl and how often should
you buy them if you are here
what does giving flowers to a girl actually do well
for sure I haven't spoken to many Eastern European women
and dated many and spoken to my clients and seeing what happened when they gave
flowers when they didn't give flowers as basically flowers create a
ephemeral emotional spike for the girl it's pleasing to
receive the flowers it's a little bit it's a present and then inevitably there
you go when they post it on instagram
and it is a status indicator for a lot of girls and
social media and instagram particularly at the moment allows them to just
turbocharge that status indicator to other girls
I have seen what my clients do and many of my clients have insisted on
buying flowers for girls and in general our conclusion is when a
Western guy buys flowers for a girl that in general
it doesn't help you could have created this short term
emotional spike in many ways that's what I go into in my
premium training on my bootcamps is exactly how to create those
emotional spikes whether positive and negative so it's not the only way you
can do it of course it can work and what we've noticed is because you put the
girl on a pedestal actually you lower your own value to a
certain extent in the eyes of the girls which is kind of ironic and paradoxical
because you've gone and given her a gift but that's the problem you've given it
too cheaply you put her on the pedestal boom
your value relative in her eyes remember it's only
perception of value it's not actually your real value of course
you just went and gave a nice gift as a gesture but
that's what we've seen
So I don't want to say that you should never buy damn flowers for girls in Eastern
Europe that would be ridiculous there are special occasions like the 8th
of March if you are interested you must buy your flowers it is a tradition here
so that is something to be very aware of when you come in of course you're dating
a girl over a long period it's a serious
relationship the courting process here is that girls have the expectation to
receive flowers occasionally depends on the
girl that you're dating how frequently she wants them
so what do you think if you want to get the girl here
in Eastern Europe should you be buying her flowers or in fact is that going to
be counterproductive to your chances of seducing your slavic beauty let me know
in the comments section below this video about your experiences with dating here
in Eastern Europe and in particular if you were buying flowers or not
the genesis to today's video was in fact my slavic seduction secrets boot camp
which finished up maybe about five or six weeks ago
because many of the guys participating in that they had that exact
question Conor should I be buying flowers
for a date here in Eastern Europe in particular for Ukraine because a lot of
them were planning to travel to Odessa even here on the shores of the
Black Sea which is absolutely scorching today over 30 degrees again at the end
of August and we dived deep into that particular
issue in a very relevant module which was
about how to create the perfect date the other modules we went into
things about how to interact with the girls how to increase your chances of
meeting girls are gonna be right fit for you the sincere
beautiful girls not the dodgy girls and actually we even have a module about
testing for gold diggers if you want to avoid the gold diggers of course if
you're open to gold diggers then always good to know who you're dating
how to design the optimal travel itinerary for the region
and lastly how to test the girl to make sure
that she is a good fit for you over the long
term so you don't go wasting years of your life
just tons of emotional energy and of course
money invested into dating the wrong woman here
the wrong Slavic beauty so you're probably thinking Conor
that's great but you finished up your boot camp can I still get to see well
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and now I'm going to go and get out of this
absolutely scorching sun because it is crazy hot here