Hey, you feeling a little out of whack? You know or feel like something's broken
in your life and you're wondering, "How do I fix this?" You know, "How do I fix my life?"
Well maybe there's nothing really broken. Maybe it's just fallen out of alignment.
I'm going to show you the 2 steps to getting in alignment.
Hey, it's Kirk and I'm here to talk to you about literally what you keep asking
yourself is like, "How do I fix that this life of mine? How do I figure out where
I'm going?" Right? Sometimes it feels like your life can be broken. Like you don't
know what's wrong with it. And you just feel like something's wrong with your
life. Well, when you feel this way, you're going to notice that your interactions with
people are going to be a little bit more edgy. You know, when you wake up in the
morning, you really don't feel like there's a reason to get going for the
day. And when you have this happen, there's not something wrong with you. You
know, it's like you're not broken but what you may be running into is there
could be some parts about how you, how you're thinking that just are not active.
When we have different parts of our mind that don't have activity, it starts to
shut down. Not like you're dying or anything. But what happens is your if
your mind is not actively engaged on something, well then it doesn't have to
use those calories and so it just shuts down and you actually feel like your
life is closing down around you or things are shutting down around you. And
it's because of brain activity. Like your mind is not really fully engaged on
where you're going. Who are you? You know... And and I'm going to help you right now be
able to activate that and not even not complicate your life but actually
help you feel like you can get your life lined up so you literally have something
to look forward to. So, this is what you got to do. Really, really this way you do.
Number 1 is you go stand in front of the mirror. And when you stand in front
of the mirror, you look at yourself in the mirror and
start talking to yourself about who you are. And what you can
do. Now, if you stand for the mirror and you do the whole, you know, "Oh, here I'm
looking at myself." Well, that explains why your life is having some down effects
right now. It's because you're being down on yourself. Go stand in front of the
mirror, take a look at yourself and give yourself a pep talk. Really just get
there. Get in front that mirror, give yourself a pep talk about who are you
and what is it that you could do in this life.
And if you need to make up the biggest story ever. And it feels totally weird
say to just a big old made up story. Get started talking to yourself in
the mirror. If we can't approach ourselves in the mirror and we
can't talk to ourselves and even give ourselves a pep talk, wow, we're pretty
inactive as a human being. And I know this feeling. I totally know this feeling.
First time I ever had to face myself in the mirror and have this activation
conversation, probably the activation conversation. I looked at myself and I
just didn't even like it. Didn't even like it. But I also knew that no one else
could get to me like I could get to me. Like there's a part of you that
nobody can reach except you. And it's going to take you talking to yourself.
Now, if the mirror is too much then don't stand in front of the mirror. Maybe you
just need to sit there on the couch and or lay there in bed and have your
activation conversation. And this is how you fix your life. You got to start
talking to yourself. Got to start really giving yourselves those pep talks.
Telling yourself you're okay, you're gonna figure it out. "I'm going to make it.
I'm gonna figure this out. I'm going to work through this. I'm going to solve this
problem." But you have to be the one giving yourself the pep talk. And you've
heard this before. I bet you've heard this before. And I'm the 100th person to
tell you, share with you give you this thought of a pep talk. So,
you boost yourself, talk tell yourself. You can get through this, you can work
through this, you can solve this. You can be able to make this through. But you've
got to open up your voice because what happens is when your mind shuts down,
your voice shuts down. And the way you activate your mind so you can fix your
life is you're going to start talking something good about yourself.
Okay, so pep talk, ready to go. Okay, second part. Second part of
activating your mind to make a difference is pick something easy to do
today. Anything. Anything. Go outside and
get the mail. And that's your thing to do. Or you know, you're going to make some
pancakes this morning. Pancakes are good. Make some pancakes
this morning. Or before you go to bed, you know, instead of dropping your dirty
socks on the floor, walk over to the clothes hamper, drop them in the hamper.
Or the basket or wad them up in a ball. You know you can do that just shoot them
across the room so it's closer to where the dirty laundry stack is. But choose
something to do today. There's 2 things. if you can give yourself a pep talk and
you can choose one thing and you did that one thing, you begin to literally
activate that mind. Because there's two important parts about life. Our identity
and our direction. If we can have some identity, just some kind of talk about
ourself... We have some identity and then we have some direction, it gives us 2
points of reference. And with 2 points of reference, we can now aim our life in
a particular direction. And I know it sounds simple and you're going to think, "Oh,
that's not that much is that doesn't really work." But where you're at right
now were you're trying to figure out how to fix your life, it doesn't matter. And
let's say you're a business owner and you're doing a million dollars
a year and you're and you're feeling like you need to fix your life. I'll give
you the same instructions. I give every person who is trying to fix their life.
You need to clarify your identity and clarify your
direction. If you've got identity and you got direction, that creates a connection.
And we begin to connect to our purpose of life. We connect to people around us,
we connect to resources. We connect to solutions and we get going. But the first
2 pieces, when they're out of alignment and they're not lined up, when they're
out and you don't you're not sure about your identity. And you're... Or you're not
sure about your direction, they fall out of alignment. That's why you feel like
your life is broken is because you're not moving. So, if you're to give yourself
a pep talk about who you are. Pick something you're going to do today and
you line up those two activities. You will have your sites lined up and it
will get you moving. Fixing your life is not that difficult when you know exactly
what to look at. And you can do both of those. Give yourself a pep talk, choose
something to do. Count it as good. And then do it again. Give yourself another
little pep talk. And give yourself another thing to do. And it will line up
for you. Okay, take the steps my friends. Super simple, right? Pep talks. You're in
charge of your pep talks. You're in charge of your daily things to do. And
that's going to help line you up. And watch. Within 2 days of doing this, it feels
so much better. Hey, let's stay connected. Click subscribe
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