Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com.
When do you have sex with a girl?
Here's the very short answer.
The answer is, if you're getting enthusiastic consent, she's interested in having sex with
you, she's interested in you, then as soon as possible.
I'll explain why and how this all works.
Here's the big idea, is that you want to avoid the friend zone.
I'm sure that you are a person who's experienced this before.
If not, let me tell you, it's a bad place to be because it's very confusing.
You end up liking this girl, but you have not been intimate or sexual with her.
You have not crossed the touch barrier.
You guys haven't even kissed.
She's showing you signs of interest where you think she's interested in you, but she's
really not.
That is the friend zone.
What happens is, if you don't get intimate with the woman, you can either get rejected
or be in the friend zone.
The big idea behind you getting together with a woman, and being in a sexual relationship,
the difference is you guys being intimate and having sex.
The only difference between you and a woman being intimate, and you and a friend is sex.
You want to start that process.
Some guys might think, Tripp, I'm doing other things.
There's foreplay involved.
There is a kissing involved.
I'm not in the friend zone.
Do I still have to have sex with her?
You can do whatever you want.
I'm assuming that you probably want to have sex with her.
That's normal.
You want to have sex, you're human.
Women want to have sex, too.
That's something that we desire.
That's something that we want to do.
I want to tell you that it's okay to want that and it's okay to do that.
It's okay to do it fast.
You don't have to wait.
If she wants to wait and she's not interested, don't worry, just go at her pace.
If you don't want to go to slow pace, you don't have to continue seeing her.
You can do whatever you want.
It's up to the pace of her and you.
If your pace is fast, hers is slow, you'll go along with her pace.
If she's ready to do it and so are you, do it.
Besides the fact that you guys are going to be now out of the friendship zone, another
benefit of this is, this is how you get a woman more invested in you.
This is how you get her invested in you into the relationship because sex is something
that bonds two people together.
If you're looking to create a bond with a woman, sex is the way to do that.
I'm not saying that you need to rush to do it as fast as possible if she's not interested.
You obviously get consent, you're going at the pace that she does, but it's no harm if
you are trying to take it to that level.
A lot of guys will be scared to do this because they're scared of rejection.
It's okay.
If she rejects you, doesn't mean it's not going to happen.
She's just not ready at that moment.
You do have to learn how to get a woman arouse an interest in having sex because she may
not want to do it off the bat.
You got to make sure that you're not being judgmental, making her feel comfortable, getting
her attracted to you.
I go over all of those things in my program called Hooked which you can check out at GetHerHooked.com.
There's a whole module in there called first dates that lead to sex so you can understand
how to move a first date or any date to a sexual level.
One of the reasons why I think that this is important for guys to learn is because a lot
of guys end up in the friend zone.
They don't get to the point where they get intimate with a woman.
I think that most guys who are watching this video are at the point where they're scared
of rejection and end up in that friend zone.
We don't want you to do that.
We want you to comfortably escalate with a woman and bring it to that level.
That's going to be the difference between you being friends with her.
That is sexual intimacy.
Understand that women, they want to have sex with you.
It’s just more of a risk for them to have sex fast.
A lot of people are slut shaming women, calling them slots, whores, terrible names, just because
they might have sex with more than a couple of guys, or doing it very fast.
The double standard here.
I don't think that we should be judging them for that.
Let's make them feel comfortable for having sex as much as you want to have sex.
Understand that women wanted it.
It just more of an investment for them, especially because they have more of a risk, they can
get pregnant.
There's a lot of more risks associated for a woman touring sex than there is for a man.
Understand that it takes a little bit of making her feel comfortable.
Again, I teach all that in my program.
You can get it at GetHerHooked.com where you can do this in a very natural, non sleazy,
very comfortable way.
Check it out.
You can learn more about that at that website, that online course.
Just understand that you want to do it sooner than later because you don't end up in the
friend zone.
You want to take it to that next level.
Good luck.
Of course, as always, make sure that you're getting enthusiastic consent.
You're doing it at a pace that's going to be comfortable for her.
Don't pressure her, but you can always escalate it to that point where you give her the option
to say yes or no.