- Hi guys!
I'm Valerie Mesa.
I'm an astrologer and back again to answer
some of your questions.
Now, this is 100% possible.
I think it's just a matter of both
of these people, the people in the relationship,
realizing that one of them, Leo,
Leo's the sun and the other, Cancer, is the moon.
So it's really a matter of meeting each other half way.
Learning how to compromise.
Knowing each other's love languages.
Because at the end of the day, you're dealing
with a water sign and a fire sign.
However, at the end of the day, I genuinely believe
that both of these zodiac archetypes,
what they desire most in this world, is love, is affection.
Cancer wants love and affection
in a more emotional way, as a water sign.
As opposed to Leo, who wants it in a more physical
and expressive way.
So, I think it's totally possible,
it's just a matter of meeting eye to eye
and seeing how they can make it work.
- Of course, Gemini and Capricorn are a good match.
However, as a general rule, air signs and Earth signs
don't really mix too well.
However, you've got a whole entire birth chart
that describes who you are.
And you're so much more than just a Gemini or a Capricorn.
And there are a lot of other placements
that probably make you guys compatible.
- Oof, it's hot in here.
And I'm not saying that to be sarcastic or cute.
That is one of the most,
the steamiest relationships out there.
We're talking about two water signs.
Scorpio wants someone to dig deep and discover them.
Their water is fixed, so it's very hard for them
to really budge or to let anyone in.
And Cancer wants to nurture.
Cancer wants to swim through the depths of Scorpio.
So, we're dealing with a super, super steamy combo.
I think the only challenge here is,
Scorpio can be really, really fixed in their ways
in the sense that they will keep everything to themselves
until they feel completely and 100% secure.
And Cancer will do the same, so I think
that there may be a little back and forth
with who's gonna put their guard down first.
But when all is said and done,
this is a home-run relationship,
however you wanna look at it.
- No, they aren't.
However, there is a reason they have this nasty reputation
for being two-faced.
They can see all sides of a story
and they can understand every perspective.
They're the quintessential devil's advocate.
And I think that kind of scares people sometimes.
In a world where we are expected to have
a definitive opinion on something,
Gemini can change their mind,
because they understand that every situation is nuanced
and there's a whole spectrum of possibilities.
So, Geminis aren't two-faced.
They're really just open-minded.
- Okay, Pisces.
Taurus.
Taurus loves to be loved, but in a physical way.
So, how can you love a Taurus, and when they're loved back,
not to be materialistic, but that is the way to their heart.
Something that is delicious, or beautiful, or smells divine.
They wanna indulge in their five senses.
But more than anything, Pisces,
you can't be so wishy-washy with Taurus.
Taurus wants the real deal.
Taurus wants you to be there for them.
Taurus wants consistency.
Someone they can depend on.
And you, you're just floating in the universal realm.
So, it's really important that you decide whether
or not you want to commit.
Because that's what Taurus wants.
- You poor, sweet Pisces.
No, we're not unlucky in love.
No zodiac sign is unlucky in love.
Actually, you are one of the most romantic,
and dreamy, and empathetic zodiac signs of all.
I'd say your biggest problem in love is
that you have a tendency to fall in love with someone
a little too quickly and you have the tendency
to romanticize the person that you're crushing on.
So my advice to you would be
to just really take your time getting to know someone
before you decide that they're the person of your dreams.
- So how is Libra insecure
and how can we work on that, Libra?
So, Libra is an eloquent, charming air sign.
But beyond that, they are children of Venus.
So what happens with this?
Libra is a relator, a communicator.
Libra wants everybody to be happy
and they always wanna keep the peace, right?
So they are just like their planetary ruler, Venus.
The symbol of Venus is a glyph,
which is actually Aphrodite's hand mirror.
Libra is a walking mirror.
It's very easy for them to get lost in the process
and lose themselves.
And I think it's a matter of them really finding
that happy medium, where could always stay centered
while being there for others.
- Heck yes, it does.
In some ways, moon sign compatibility
is even more important than sun sign compatibility
or Venus sign compatibility or any compatibility,
because in astrology, our moon sign
is like our truest, most intrinsic self.
It rules over our subconscious, our emotions,
the side of us that not many people get to see.
So, if your moon sign is compatible
with someone else's moon sign, but your sun signs aren't,
that still means you're pretty damned compatible.
- There's a lot happening with your career.
You have Jupiter in your career sector,
but Jupiter and Capricorn doesn't play,
so he's challenging you to level-up
and he's really making you really get to work
in terms of your soul aspirations,
your goals, your contribution in the world,
what it is that you wanna accomplish in terms of career
and your professional life.
So that's a big one.
Venus is gonna retrograde in your area of communication,
siblings and immediate environment now in May.
And it's gonna be in Gemini until July.
This is gonna be a lot of revisiting for you
in terms of the way that you communicate
and perhaps your relationship with your siblings, too.
Everything related to learning and obtaining skills
versus how you could use those skills in the real world.
- Gemini and Virgo.
Now, this is a perfect example of how compatibility
is so nuanced and it can mean so many different things
in astrology.
The answer is rarely either black or white.
So, Gemini and Virgo are both mutable signs.
And if you are both mutable signs, typically
that means you form a square in astrology.
And when two zodiac signs form a square,
that's a difficult aspect.
However, Gemini and Virgo do have something in common
and it's that they are both ruled by Mercury,
planet of communication, cognitive function, logic,
and jokes of course.
So Gemini and Virgo definitely
have something special between them.
Scorpio, if you're experiencing heartbreak,
you are experiencing it so deeply.
And that's not your fault.
You are an incredibly loving, passionate,
and emotional zodiac sign.
And when you decide you love someone,
you love them with your whole heart.
And that's what makes it difficult
for you to get over heartbreak,
because you don't really want to.
You wanna be with that person.
But, therein lies your power.
When you decide something, you make it happen.
So, when you're truly ready, and when you've truly decided
that you wanna move past this heartbreak, you will.
You're the zodiac sign of transformation.
So just give yourself time.
- Cancer, I feel you.
I'm a fellow Cancer, myself.
"It is both a blessing and a curse
"to feel everything so deeply."
Whoever wrote that, wrote that for Cancers.
Cancers are ruled by the moon.
We are ruled by the moon,
so we are constantly receiving and absorbing
the energies, the emotional energies
that are all around us.
When they say that Cancer is the mother
and that Cancer has everything to do
with the home and family, it's because they are capable,
emotionally capable of loving, of protecting,
of nurturing their loved ones.
So, what happens with that?
It comes with a price.
You feel things to another level.
You feel things a lot deeper than a lot of people.
The moon has everything to do with your shadow self
and your emotional world.
The moon changes every two days and so do we.
- I am so sorry to break this to you,
but you are not a cusp baby.
They just don't exist.
The sun can only be in one zodiac sign at a time.
Between the degrees of zero to 29.
And someone at some point made up the idea of a cusp.
I don't know who, but I would like to have a talk with them
because it's not real.
You are only one zodiac sign.
So if you were born on June 21st,
you were either a Gemini or a Cancer.
And if you really wanna find out,
you need to get your birth time
and look up your birth chart.
It will tell you exactly which sign
the sun was in when you were born.
- I will tell you this.
This has not been your typical Taurus season
for many reasons.
Obviously, the current events have definitely
been shaking us all up.
The world is definitely in a flux right now.
But beyond that, having Uranus, the planet of rebellion,
revolution, unexpected change, in your sign,
it's been in your sign for a while now
and it's been there long enough for you to feel
a revolution in terms of your value system.
Notice how we're all looking at "normal"
in a completely different light now.
The word "normal" is not the same
as what it meant maybe a year ago.
The same is happening for you.
Your planetary ruler, Venus, is also
in a state of retrograde on the 13th of May in Gemini.
Now, this is a really big deal
because this is gonna have you reevaluating
your sense of self-worth, your finances,
your spending habits, your unique possessions.
What talents do you possess
that you haven't necessarily tapped into yet?
Those are the types of things
you're gonna be reevaluating during this time, Taurus.
- While Virgo might not typically be thought of
as the most romantic zodiac sign,
I have such a soft spot for the Virgo lover.
While they might not be the first sign
to write you love letters, or put the moves on you,
or know exactly how to charm you,
they're the zodiac sign that will be memorizing
every little thing about you.
They'll remember what your favorite color is.
They'll remember what your favorite movie is.
And I'd say if they had a love language,
it would definitely be acts of service.
They show their love by showing up for you
and always having your back and doing
whatever they possibly can to make your life easier.
I mean, what's better than that?
There are many reasons for this.
A major one is that you haven't experienced
your Saturn return yet.
That occurs around ages 28 to 29
and that's when your birth chart really takes effect.
That's when you really grow into your sun sign.
Another reason is that you have so many other zodiac signs
in your birth chart.
In fact, you have every zodiac sign in your birth chart.
But, you have a moon sign, which says so much
about who you are on the inside and your impulses.
You have a rising sign that says so much
about what your first impression of the world is
and who you are to everyone that you meet.
So, you are a cosmic amalgam of so many things
and you are so much more than your sun sign.
And chances are, you're just getting to know your sun sign.
(bright music)