Hey there, James Michael Sama with sexyconfidence.com, where we help the 21st century woman create
a love life that she absolutely loves.
In this week's video, we're going to talk about signs that he's just not that into you,
so stay tuned.
Sometimes it's just as important to know when someone is not into as when they are into
you.
This can save you time, energy, and heartbreak.
So here are 10 signs that he's just not that into you.
Number one, he doesn't show real interest in you.
Any guy can compliment you or take you out for drinks, but I'm talking about real interest.
What is your family like?
What are you passions?
What are your goals in life?
If a man isn't showing real, genuine interest in you as a person, then he's just not that
into you.
Number two, he doesn't plan in advance.
Could the next time you're seeing him be the last time that you see him?
Do you never know when you're going to be getting together again next?
If a man is really into you, he'll be looking forward to the next time he gets to see you,
like it's a privilege.
He'll generally plan ahead and talk about next steps.
If he seems to always be playing these things by ear, he probably is, because he doesn't
know who he's going to be going out with next.
Number three, there's no PDA.
PDA, public display of affection.
Now, not all guys are the affectionate type, and that's fine.
But there's a difference between not being affectionate and trying to look single.
If a guy's out with you and you feel more like a sister than his date, then he's just
not that into you.
Men show their affection through physical gestures, so pay attention to this.
Number four, you don't meet his friends or family.
A man who's serious about you will want you to meet the people who are important to him.
He'll want to show you off.
He's going to be proud to be with you.
If a man is keeping you from his friends or family or making excuses why you're not meeting
them, then he's just not that into you.
Number five, consistency.
I hear this from women a lot.
Men being hot and cold, and hot and cold.
If a man is hot and cold, it probably means he's exploring other options, other women,
and he's not sold on committing to you.
Consistency is key because that is the foundation of trust, which is important to any relationship.
If you never know what you're going to get with him, then he's just not that interested.
Number six, he's always busy.
We all lead busy lives.
Work or the gym, or family or friends.
Time is short, but men make time for their priorities.
If a man really wants to see you, he will make time for you.
No excuses, no lies, and no broken promises.
Number seven, he treats everyone how he treats you.
Now, yes, it's important for a man to be kind and flirty towards you, of course, but what
if he's kind and flirty towards everyone else?
Like the waitress or the bartender or the barista.
You should be special and unique in his life and he should treat you that way.
Number eight, he refuses to talk about your relationship status.
A man who's really into you will not be terrified of committing to you.
Assuming that you've been dating for more than a few months, then it's totally fair
to expect a committed relationship.
Number nine, he mistreats you in any way.
Now, this is very important and I wanted to add this in here for a reason.
Any man who consistently hurts you emotionally or physically does not love you.
You do not want hurt people that you love.
You do not constantly betray people that you love.
You do not lie to people you love just to save your own ass.
Have the courage to remove people from your life who are toxic and harmful.
You deserve more.
So now that you've got these signs that somebody's just not that into you, comment below and
let me know which ones you've experienced before.
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