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Hi everyone, my name is Ieva Bereisaite,
I am one of Greta's High Value Women coaches.
And today we're gonna be talking
about three ways to make your relationship last.
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The first way to make your relationship last
is to trust each other.
I mentioned this very often in videos
but today I'm really going to break it down for you.
So it might be really hard to trust
in a relationship because of the bad experiences
that we have made in the past.
Sometimes doubts and fears pop up
in the present relationship at hand
and you might start questioning the relationship
if it's actually worthy of so much trust
because of bad experiences made beforehand.
Maybe you have heard of a bad experience
that a really good friend of yours has made.
Maybe she was cheated on by her guy in her relationship.
And maybe that fueled some fear
for you in your current relationship.
It's very important to remember
that there is no relationship when there is no trust.
We also have to remember that an experience
that someone else has made does not mean
that it has to happen to you as well.
And if you have had a bad experience in the past
it does not mean that it has to happen again, right?
Especially in this type of situation, when you work
on yourself and become more and more high value,
the fear of actually of losing trust
or your trust being misused in your relationship shrinks.
If your trust is misused, whether that be by a friend
or by your partner, it is important to leave.
When a woman has nothing going on for herself really
and her guy is the only source of her happiness,
she will definitely in some point get insecure.
And one of the reasons for this is because
there is just too much tension going towards the guy.
She could be so afraid to lose him
that she could potentially sabotage the relationship.
A man 100% needs to feel trusted in the relationship.
And I don't only mean this in accordance to other women.
I literally mean trust in all walks of life.
And this is a big difference, right?
And it is a very, very important one.
Trust your guy that he will get the job done,
trust him that he will solve the problem at hand, trust him
that he's capable of achieving whatever may be a hand
or whatever problem needs to be solved
or whatever obstacle is there.
Trust him that he will overcome it.
Give him that encouragement.
Over time, you get to know your guy more and more
and see what he is like more and more
and perfect case scenario,
the trust will keep building and building upwards.
This type of trust is very important
because it's the foundation
of a relationship and a healthy partnership.
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The second way is to listen to each other.
Another very important factor in a relationship
of course is listening to each other.
I know this might seem very simple at first.
However, it is very often overlooked,
listening means letting the person speak out
and trying to understand where are coming from,
not interrupting the person and actually being interested
in what they're saying and actually paying attention
to them when they are speaking,
is something very important that is very often
just simply neglected
or forgotten in a long term relationship.
Very often I see couples that have been in a relationship
for a long time or married for a long time.
They might not let the other person even speak out.
They might just interrupt them
cut them off, anything like that.
And this disrupts the communication
in the relationship severely.
If your partner says something that actually triggers you,
take a couple of breaths
and give yourself some time to reply.
If you need to, don't be afraid to also set a boundary.
Always let the guy speak for himself, let him take the lead,
listening to a personand actually not interrupting them
and letting them speak out is a very feminine thing to do.
It's a very respectful thing to do
and it comes across extremely well.
And just this simple adjustment in a relationship,
especially if you might notice for yourself
that you tend to maybe interrupt people
or cut people off or not listen to people and you see
that they're frustrated, next time, just let them speak.
And after they've finished voicing their opinion
or telling you the story,
give yourself a little bit of time, like a second or two
and then answer and look at them when you answer them.
It's a huge, huge game changer.
And it shows so much emotional control
and it shows that you have so much respect
for yourself and for the other person at hand.
And this is very, very overlooked, but it's a very,
very important trait to have in a long lasting relationship.
This is a part of having good communication,
letting the person actually speak out
and hearing them and never cutting them off
and not interrupting them when they're speaking,
because this can become a very bad habit
that can have consequences.
The third thing is to respect each other,
respect just like trust,
is a fundamental base in a relationship.
We have to remember that there is a certain thing
to really keep in mind
when it comes down to talking about respect.
And I really want to differentiate two things,
for one, when a guy banters or just teases you, right?
It does not mean that he disrespects you.
He might be simply teasing you to get your attention.
And there's nothing really wrong with that
as long as the teasing, doesn't go over the top.
It's not disrespectful when he's just teasing.
Right, but if it does get out of hand
and if he uses a name that you don't like, or if he is rude,
then that goes into the direction of being,
a little bit disrespectful.
And that is where we set the boundary.
So just because your guy teases you,
feel free to tease back or banter back.
Right, but if you actually do see like, okay,
he has just crossed the line, that's not okay for me.
Then you can just set a boundary by saying,
I don't appreciate that.
Or I don't appreciate you saying that.
You will notice that a guy respects you
when he listens to what you have to say.
He pays attention to you when you're speaking.
And this will be reached when you pay attention
to when he is speaking,
you give your yourself time to answer back.
You don't to answer back straight away
when he's finished his sentence,
you give yourself a little bit of time.
You answer back, it shows intellect.
It shows class, it shows that you're smart
and feminine and that you are emotionally controlled, right?
So having the right speaking manners, again,
really does play a really big role.
And it shows a lot of respect
and respect and love go hand in hand for a man.
So it's only important for women to be respected.
It's very, very, very important
for a man to be respected
and treated like a man by his partner.
The love for a man is shown
through the respect that you have for him.
It shows that you look up to him in a way,
and that you trust him.
And when you respect a guy, it shows
that you are really happy to have him by your side.
Being respectful towards him and also his friends
and his family is very, very important as well,
especially for a long-term relationship
because you want to get along with his family.
And you want him to get along with your family
and your friends as well.
Remember that when you treat yourself with respect,
it sets a standard for the relationship.
Remember that having respect
for yourself is shown through emotional control,
being able to control your emotions
shows just how much you have your own self under control.
Ask yourself, how much respect do I have for myself?
How much respect do I have
for my husband or for my boyfriend?
How do I carry myself?
And what can I do that would show
that I have a lot of respect towards myself and for others?
Would it be to be kinder to yourself, be kinder for others
treat yourself a certain way, speak a certain way,
become that woman
that you already are within yourself, right?
We are all capable of being really high value.
We have it all within us.
Right, think of the traits that you
as a really high value woman would have,
what traits would you have, how important would respect
for yourself and for others be for you
if you would be very high value, it would be very important.
So ask yourself, what traits would I have
as a high value woman
and what traits do I have now and how can I change them?
How can I ingest them?
How can I level up, become that version
of that high value woman that you are within yourself.
Bring that high value version
that potential that you have within yourself outwards.
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We all have it within us
to be the best version of ourselves.
Sometimes we don't know exactly what we should change
or what we should do, or what tools do we need.
And so I hope that this video helped you
in having maybe a couple of aha moments
and seeing how you can adjust your own self
in your own relationship
that you have right now, always remember
that you have the full potential
to become a high value woman.
And I hope that this video brought more light
into your high value journey.
And let me know what you're gonna start changing.
Maybe what you're gonna start implementing
a little bit more of in your relationship
and just how helpful this video was for you.
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