Hello there.
The sexual response cycle,
is divided into four distinct phases;
excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution.
There is no distinct beginning or end
to any part of this cycle.
It's more, one continuous cycle of sexual response.
but today, I'm going to be talking to you about orgasm.
They are many ways which we can achieve orgasm.
We can achieve it mentally,
we can achieve it through breathing techniques,
we can achieve it through modalities
that have nothing to do
with sex itself or masturbation.
but most of the orgasming that I'm going to be talking about today,
have to do with sex or masturbation,
because that is where we are,
most of us, in human conciseness, at this point in time.
Orgasm also called sexual climax,
is the sudden release of accumulated sexual energy.
As far as the body is concerned, the orgasm is controlled by
the autonomic nervous system.
The same part of the nervous system, controls your heart rate, breathing,
perspiration and digestion.
When men orgasm,
first the seminal fluid collects in the urethral bulb.
This is when a man may have the sensation
that orgasm and ejaculation is certain.
Next, semen is ejaculated from the penis,
contractions occur in the penis and the pelvic region.
When women orgasm,
the vaginal walls contract rhythmically every eight tenth of a second.
Of course, the number and intensity of the contractions,
vary depending on the individual orgasm.
The muscles of the uterus, also contract.
When both people orgasm,
breathing, pulse rate and blood pressure continue to rise.
Muscle tension and blood vessel engorgement reach a peak.
Sometimes orgasm comes with a grasping type
of muscular reflex of the hands and feet.
The orgasm activates the pleasure center of the brain,
releasing endorphins.
it also causes our minds to temporarily lose control.
In fact, one study from a university in the Netherlands
found that when men and women reach orgasm,
the lateral orbitofrontal cortex
temporarily shuts down.
This is the region of the brain that is responsible for behavior control.
We're essentially in a deep state of surrender to the experience.
During orgasm, our brains are flooded with Oxycontin
which is the powerful brain chemical
that inspires feelings of intimacy,
known as "The Hormone",
oxytocin makes you feel connected to your partner,
it bonds you to each other.
Orgasms, especially the really good ones,
can sometimes consume the entire body.
Not limiting themselves to the pelvic region.
As far as your health is concerned,
orgasms lead to feelings of euphoria and pleasure,
which reduces stress, depression
and anxiety levels.
It boosts the immune system.
For those of you who like the effect that exercise has in the body,
orgasm burns calories,
it promotes relaxation and release of tension,
which helps you sleep better,
it increases circulation in the body
and also the brain,
leading to an increased mental sharpness,
it helps alleviate pain,
it helps cells in the body regenerate,
and it inhibits the ageing process.
All this physiological responses which I've just mentioned,
are of course, just the physical reflection
of something that's taking place
on a more comprehensive energetic level.
On energetic level,
when you're engaging in sex,
and you're reaching the point of orgasm,
the entire body reaches a state of receptivity.
Not only that, the energy within the body
starts flowing faster.
It is as if you were to break open the floodgates
and all the channels of energy running throughout your body,
the meridians and the chakras,
were fully open to the unrestricted flow of source energy
through your body.
alignment is occurring between the vibration of your physical perspective,
and the vibration of your non-physical perspective.
And thus you experience a blending between the physical aspects of you,
and the non-physical aspects of you.
During orgasm, your awareness of your own identity,
or own ego as they call it,
is dissolved.
For this very reason, sex and orgasms,
specifically has been used in spiritual practice,
to attain enlightenment.
It enables you to touch what is infinite.
It enables the physical to access the non-physical.
the best example of this that we have today, of course,
is the practices of Tantra.
Whereby people use sex as a doorway to enlightenment.
There are two main types of orgasm.
The first is explosive, the second is implosive.
Now you can't get experts
to agree on which is more healthy.
Some people say that explosive orgasm is healthy,
because instead of building up pressure it releases pressure.
Other people say that implosive, is restorative and healing
whereas explosive depletes you of energy.
My stance on the subject is,
both explosive and implosive orgasms can be healthy,
and both can be unhealthy,
depending on how you use them.
In an explosive orgasm, the energy moves out of the body
like it does during an explosion.
In an implosive orgasm, the energy moves inwards,
so that it is retained within the body.
An explosive orgasm is the best kind of orgasm to use for manifestation.
It also creates the greatest release,
and therefore decreases stress levels the best.
but it can cause you to feel depleted,
and is also a shallower form of orgasm.
The explosive orgasm is the one most natural to men.
An implosive orgasm is the best is the best kind of orgasm to use
for healing or unity work.
It pulls the partner's energy into you.
It is restorative because it nourishes the body and soul
and increases your energy levels.
Instead of exploding outwards from you,
it expands you from within.
The implosive orgasm is the one most natural to women.
But it can boost energy levels to an uncomfortable degree
and allows people who are contained
and who fear extending themselves towards others
in any way, to stay that way.
Of course the ideal scenario,
is to be able to decide or choose
when you will have one orgasm,
or when you have the other orgasm,
so that you can choose the orgasm which most corresponds
to your current desires or needs.
Everybody is like a unique instrument.
The time it takes and the stimulation it takes
to achieve orgasm, is going to vary from person to person.
And the only way to learn to play an instrument with no manual,
is to experiment.
I could do a video, just on the subject, of why some people,
most especially women, cannot achieve orgasm.
But for the sake of this video,
I will tell you that is has very little to do
with the orgasm itself,
and more to do with the fact
the people have such a difficult relationship with their bodies,
And such a difficult relationship with intimacy itself.
It is true that for many
of us our craving for orgasm
is the craving for relief.
Relief in the form of release.
This craving for release and for relief,
is what is behind the addiction to pornography.
But ultimately, on a higher level,
the progression towards orgasm,
and the craving for orgasm,
is the progression towards, and craving for oneness.
Just like love is the movement towards oneness,
to love someone is to include them as you.
To orgasm with someone as a byproduct of love,
is to become conscious of the experience of being one.
It is to move beyond the physical world,
which separates us from one another.
So you see, orgasim, in and of itself,
units us with our infinite multidimensional soul.
We find alignment between the physical and non physical self.
And orgasm with a partner we feel love for,
unites us, not only with our own non physical self,
but also with them.
It is therefore an amplified experience of oneness.
Love that is added to sex,
is no longer sex.
Instead it is a bridge to the great beyond.
When you experience orgaism as a result of a divine union
with someone else,
you will experience infinity,
you will experience unity,
you will experience oneness.
Which is why this particular video
has to come with a warning.
Until you learn how to give and receive love
on a ongoing basis in your day to day life,
something will occur or after sex,
which is highly unwanted.
What will happen is you will settle back into the experience
of being completely separate.
You will never feel more alone
than you do after the act of sex.
You have experienced touching source energy,
and being in a state of oneness,
only to e thrust back
in the state of singularity,
of loneliness, of separation.
And so a great depression, a great let down,
a great anxiety might occur.
Orgasm involves the total self
(mind, body and soul) all together.
You're no longer in control.
Existence of self has taken possession of you
and you do not know who you are.
This is momentary enlightenment.
It is a mini death, so that you can experience being fully alive.
Human life on earth,
is ultimately the bi-product of orgasm.
Orgasm and conception, go hand in hand.
The question question is: "What are you conceiving?"
For those of you who practice manifestation,
the act of orgasm
can be one of the most amazing tools for manifestation.
Nothing matters more,
than what you are focusing on
and feeling the experience of,
in the moment of orgasm.
What you focus on, especially on a feeling based level,
is what you will conceive in your reality.
Here's what I mean;
if I'm having sex with my partner,
and focusing at him with my eyes,
and am getting close to orgasming,
while simultaneously thinking or feeling
the sensation of being insecure about my body,
then I will begin to hyper manifest scenarios in my reality,
where I'm caused to feel insecurity about my body.
Another example is,
if I'm orgasming and thinking about bondage type fantasies
where I'm being dominated,
I will begin to hyper manifest scenarios in my reality,
where I'm being dominated.
And whereas I might have an emotional attachment
or some kind of a psychological attachment
to the sexuality of being dominated
when I am engaged in a sexual action,
in my day to day life,
being dominated, might not feel so good.
This is a crucial realisation,
because we live in an era where our sexual practices
are becoming increasingly deviant.
When our sexual and orgasmic practices
become more deviant so does our collective reality.
There's a conny way to visualize what's occurring during an orgasm.
Think back to the old kids movies you used to watch.
The fairy wizard would focus really hard,
repeating an incantation
with the wave of their wand and in a huge energetic release.
The thing they were trying to conjure would manifest before their eyes,
usually in a cloud of sparkling smoke.
In the minute of organism, the accumulated energy that has built up
is released, and you can aim
and lend that powerful burst of energy,
towards what you desire.
Thus manifesting it into reality.
It is best that if you can, during the orgasm,
and also during the build up to the orgasm,
focus this on emotionally and mentally
experiencing the very thing which you wish to manifest,
we can use sex to manifest loving relationships
or deepen the bond with our specific partner,
by focusing emotionally and mentally on the sensation of bonding with them.
And unification and harmony with them.
we can also use sex and masturbation
to manifest things that are entirely unrelated to sex.
For example, some people like to use orgasm
as a tool for a career advancement.
When it comes to sex, we are habitual creatures.
That means, that when you do something
which turns you on enough to climax,
you now forever build a neural circuit in your brain,
which tells you that that is going to be your motist operadie
for achieving climax.
For this reason, until you develop your sexual abilities more,
you might choose to use the excitement and the plateau phase
of the sexual response cycle,
to focus on what already turns you on,
and then, when orgasm feels eminent,
switch your focus to whatever it is that you wish to manifest.
For example, a man may have a difficult time
with the idea of getting sexually aroused
by the idea of promotion.
But job promotion is what he most wants to manifest in his life.
But he does know that what turns him on
is watching a man and a woman have sex.
So, in his mind, he creates a scenario
where he is observing a man and a woman having sex,
and he feels himself becoming sexually excited.
He reaches the excitement and the plateau phase
of the sexual response cycle.
Then, when he feels as if ejaculation or orgasm is eminent,
he switches his focus to the experience of the job promotion.
He allows the feeling of the climax,
to amplify the sensations of achievement, and glory,
and relief, and pride of promotion.
He allows the feeling of the climax to enhance and focus
the image of his mind, of the people that are there,
and the way the room looks and smells...
He will use his orgasm to make the scenario as real as possible
on all levels,
as if he is living it, at that very moment.
And he will hold onto it,
as his mental and emotional focus,
as long as he possibly can.
Completely through the resolution phase.
And if he drifts off to sleep,
he has then added the state of allowing
to the art of manifestation,
and thus, amplified it further.
Another example is,
a woman might be acutely aware of her extreme desire
for a long term committed relationship,
with a man who wants her completely.
If she is having sex with somebody,
and she doesn't know if that particular man
is going to feel that way about her,
she focuses on the feeling of his energy
coming all the way into her body,
reaching into her heart area.
Now instead of focusing on things like, the ceiling fan,
or weather she left the gas on the stove on,
or whether her legs are shaved,
she puts herself completely in a space,
of visualizing, what it would feel like on an emotion level,
what it would look like,
for her to be in that committed long term relationship,
with someone who wanted her completely.
Maybe she's imagining herself getting married.
She is doing whatever she needs to do, to reach climax.
But most especially, during climax,
she is putting herself completely in the experience
of that thing she wants to manifest.
She sinks into the feeling of security,
of having his energy fully unconditionally invested in her.
Maybe she loses herself
in the feeling of the complete connection
with the man she is actually with.
Maybe she imagines scenario of getting married, in detail,
or walking hand and hand with somebody in the beach, in detail.
The most important thing is that in the moment or orgasm
she emotionally experiences the feeling
of emotional security, and love and being wanted,
that she wants to manifest.
She maintains that focus throughout the duration of the orgasm
and resolution phase.
Either, the man she is currently sleeping with
becomes this committed partner,
or the universe draws him away,
to make space for the man who's actually
a vibrational match to that level of commitment
that she has been asking for.
So go ahead and try this technique.
We are all energy.
We can use this energy that is in and of us,
to give shape, form and dimension
to our desires.
because of this, all is left to say is:
be conscious of what you're wishing for.
Have a good week