- So you like him,
or might even have feelings for him,
but you are unsure on how to show it in a high value way
so he doesn't freak out or run away,
or actually disappears on you
because he thinks that you are not that interested.
Well in this video, ladies,
I will share with you three ways
to show him you like him in a high value way.
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Ladies, just before I start with this video,
please keep it in mind
that I'm giving you a general template.
Some bits and pieces can be edited
depending on the guy and the situation.
This is why it's really good to consult with a coach
before actually applying these steps
because your situation might be a bit different.
Anyway, we'll take it into steps
and the step number one is before the date.
Let's say after a while talking online
or maybe meeting you,
you realize there is a spark.
You click, you bond, you like him.
Now, this is how ladies behave in a low value way
that makes men lose interest for them
before dating even begins.
We pursue.
So we text, call, initiate sexy text messages,
send them sexy pics,
or pursue guys to go on the second date with them.
And even if a guy cancels,
so we still pursue him asking him when he is available next.
So why does it not work to behave like this?
Because you are chasing him.
You are trying to charm him.
You're trying to seduce him.
You're trying to impress him.
Ladies, it is not your job to do that.
It's his job.
And by acting so masculine and so keen,
you are turning him off so fast
when even the first date may not happen.
Or instead of it being a date,
it might end up something similar
to a last minute booty call
as you're showing way too much interest
and behaving disrespectful towards yourself.
But if you're asking me a question
of how you should behave instead
and show him that you do like him,
the answer is be receptive.
He calls you, you pick up, he texts you, you respond.
He asks you on a date.
If it's in advance and he confirms it,
if he picks you up and goes out of his way to meet you,
because you're the lady, right?
I mean, if it's a date,
rather than just him throwing you a bone
at the last minute and expecting you to jump,
well, then go out with him, that's it, as simple as that.
If he treats you right,
if the date is acceptable,
well, then you go out with him.
Ladies, think about it.
If you would not like him,
would you pick up his phone calls?
Would you be talking to him?
Would you respond to those text messages?
Would you go out on the date with him?
Of course you would not.
Your behavior speaks louder than words and he can see that.
That's why it's enough.
Second step would be during the date.
How women show a man they like him
in a low value way on the date.
Well, first we flirt extensively.
By extensively I mean, you know the hair flips,
and some even twerk in front of a guy
to get their attention,
thinking that it's crazy, seductive, and hot,
and that it is the best technique to get the ring.
Making sexual jokes, giving sexual signals,
complimenting men extensively,
showing in every single way that you are into him.
Now, why does it not work?
The answer is not everything that you see
in music videos work.
And if his original goal was to get you to like him
or to get you into bed,
seeing you twerk to get his attention
will be a signal for him that the goal is already achieved
and from that second the tables will turn around
as now you will be putting yourself as a pursuer
because you were pursuing him with twerking,
which is masculine energy,
and he will become the receiver, which is feminine energy
as he'll just be enjoying the show and doing nothing.
Overall, ladies, it is a turnoff.
It's too easy.
It comes across as cheap and it shows zero self respect.
He will go for you if he wants fun, but not a relationship.
So what is the high value way
to show him that you are interested on a date?
Well, enjoy the moment.
If he makes you happy, smile, if he makes you laugh, laugh.
That's pretty much it, it's that simple.
Don't make it complicated.
Stay simple, modest,
and let him take the lead.
And ladies, please, please, please do not cancel the date
to play hard to get either.
It is a way too arrogant.
It's a way top risky.
And a lot of men won't ask you out again
if you do do that.
Number three is for the ladies
that are in relationship already
or later stages of dating.
Ladies, keep the balance
when you are already in a relationship.
I see a lot of women getting this wrong.
When we practice to behave with self-respect and the value,
sometimes we over push it.
Instead of showing self-respect,
we show a lot of arrogance and selfishness.
And this is exactly when things can go south.
In response to this, men start to pull away
or even ghost a woman for some time.
Now, I'm not saying that every single time he pulls away
or ghosts you is because you've been arrogant.
I'm just saying it can be one of the reasons also.
I think the key in harmonious relationships
is to keep the balance right.
Instead of putting yourself first,
think what is the right thing to do?
So, in other words,
don't put yourself first,
but, "love thy neighbor as you love yourself,"
as the Bible says.
And as a result,
this way things will just flow naturally in a healthy way.
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