You might be unknowingly repelling women away because of your specific behaviors, so we're
going to go through each one of those right now, and wait to the last one because the last one is
going to be hurting you the most. The first one is your constant indecisiveness, and I know that
sounds crazy but that is a habit. We are in the habit, a lot of us guys, of just being indecisive.
We don't know what to pick, what to choose, and we take our time. Not only is this hurting you with
women because women want a decisive man, but it's also hurting you in your life because if you are
not decisive and you take too much time making a decision then that's opportunity cost. You always
need to weigh the options, but it's better to get in the habit of making a decision and going
with it and then dealing with the consequences afterwards. That way you can take more action and
get more done in your life, and women want to be with that kind of guy. Next, the habit of talking
about yourself and not engage aging her. You might have no idea that you're doing this, but this
happens to a lot of guys who are super nervous. On a date you're talking a lot about yourself,
you're explaining all the little details about your life, and she's responding to you, but she's
not offering anything about herself so you just keep going. You need to make sure that there is
a balance in conversation so she is equally there as much as you are. She wants to know that you're
showing interest in her. If it's all about you, she's not going to be able to get engaged. Next,
on your phone a lot. Yeah that's a big habit. In fact, I'm guilty of this. We tend to have our
phones right in our pockets, we're looking at it all the time, it's not on do not disturb so you're
constantly checking every single vibration. If you're doing this a lot, whether you're on a date,
whether you've been dating a girl for a while, or maybe even married, whatever it is, the fact
that you're on your phone all the time makes you less engaged with the present moment, and there's
nothing attractive about a person who can't be present. This one's a little bit more obvious,
but it has to be said because as much as I'm going to say it now, I know there's a lot of guys who
aren't doing this. I know people personally who are not doing this enough, and it's the habit of
not taking care of your mouth, brushing, flossing, even going to the whole length of tongue scraping,
making sure you have the best hygiene. You should be doing this every single day. Your
mouth is a big factor of what's going to make you look the most attractive, with white teeth,
with good breath, and making sure that your smile is as best as it could be. When you're not doing
that, women will get repelled, so take care of that. As we start to mature and get out of our
younger years, we tend to have some habits that stick with us, one being that maybe some of the
areas of your life are a little bit messy and a little bit dirty. Because who cares, it's just
you and you get a little lazy so your car gets dirty outside and inside, your place gets messy,
you leave dishes in the sink, whatever it is. The areas of your life are dirty and messy
because it's always been that way so it's a habit. First of all, this is something that you should be
fixing way before you start meeting women, that way you do not slip up. You want a woman to come
into your life and see how organized and clean it could be, because when it starts to get messy when
she sees that that is a big turn off and she will find it disgusting. Next, one of the worst habits
of all not paying attention to your health, eating like crap, which is going to make you feel like
crap. Never going to the gym, not paying attention to your weight, and not paying attention to your
strength. That is one of the most important things - you know the saying, if you don't have your
health what do you have? So whatever you need to do to get into the gym, whatever you need to do
to start eating foods that are going to make you feel better and look better, that is going to be
crucial to when you're dating and when you're trying to build attraction with a woman. Next,
and I can't stress this enough, your constant negativity. Yep, it's a habit, you being negative,
you being a Debbie Downer, you being pessimistic. Some guys get caught in this trap, they end up
saying something negative to a recommendation or a suggestion, they put things down constantly,
they mention when someone says how are you doing something negative, something bad that's going on.
And I get it, it's easy to talk about that stuff. That stuff is more emotional, that stuff is easier
to connect with people on because we're all going through days where everything's not going perfect,
but if you get into the habit of constantly being negative and constantly complaining, first of all,
your life is going to be shit because you're always going to be thinking about the negative
and second of all, women are not going to be attracted to that kind of energy. They're going
to be turned off so fast. People want to be around positive people whether it's friends or whether
it's a girl. There's other mistakes that you might be making and a lot of these happen on
the first date. There's a video right here in the screen, click that so you can learn the common
worst mistakes that you're making on a first date and how to fix it. If you want to continue the
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