(Questioner): I just want to know, like,
this yoga is making me very delicate
and it is actually making me
(Sadhguru): So you're one of the ardent followers, is it?
Give the microphone to the students
Okay, finish the question.
(Questioner): I just want to know, like, in this world which is
lot of people if our love is boundless, some people are manipulative.
So like should we restrict it or should we be
should we not expect anything?
How to handle it?
(Sadhguru): What is this question?
Yoga is making you delicate, what is that?
(Questioner): Like, it's making my love boundless.
It's not making me to choose people.
In work place, in personal life, I'm meaning to say,
there are lot of back stabbers around.
(Sadhguru): Oh, oh! You're beginning to fall in love with your neighbors also. (Laughter)
Now,
please understand this --
the yoga that you're practicing
is about enhancing the interiority of who you are.
The outside has to be conducted as it needs to be conducted.
When you do not know how to conduct the outside,
you think it's because of your love -- it's not so,
it's just because of your stupidity
that you cannot conduct the situation the way you want it, isn't it?
So if you're driving on the street and you see a buffalo
and
if you go give it a kiss and say, 'Please, I love you, please move away,'
buffalo is not the problem, isn't it?
You are the problem, yes or no?
Is buffalo the problem?
Buffalo is behaving according to its nature;
you are not behaving according to your nature,
that's the problem with you.
So that is not because of love,
that is because of confusion and whatever,
and that definitely yoga has not done that to you.
Yoga brings clarity to you, not confusion. (Laughs)
So our ability to handle situations,
if they're impaired because of some fanciful idea
of love or whatever nonsense you have,
then that's not love,
that's just
you're silly and soft in your head, isn't it?
Should love empower you? Okay, even if you're loving,
should love empower you or impair you?
It should empower you, isn't it?
If it's impairing you, it's not love.
You have some convoluted idea about love.
If you love somebody, will you do pretty things to them always or
will you do what's needed? Hmm?
You'll do what's needed, isn't it?
If you have a child and you love this child,
if you have to feed him you feed him,
if you have to hug him you hug him, if you have to whack him you whack him,
you do what's needed, isn't it?
So love does not make you lose your discretion.
If love, if you're losing your discretion,
it is because you're becoming a Dhritarashtra.
You know a Dhritarashtra problem?
Nation is right now gripped with a Dhritarashtra problem.
You don't know what that is?
You don't know what Dhritarashtra is?
Dhritarashtra, you've heard of the man? Ah! That guy.
He's the biggest influence right now on the country. (Laughs)