So you've tried everything.
You're trying all the practical techniques,
you're trying all the practical strategies,
but for some reason,
you feel like your coaching career is nowhere close
to what you would want it to be right now.
You're trying to visualize
and manifest your dream career,
but for whatever reason it hasn't come true.
I have helped many coaches visualize
and manifest the exact career that they wanted to have.
And I wanna show you exactly how you too
after this video will be able to manifest your dream career.
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Step number one to manifest your dream coaching career is
to visualize your dream coaching career.
Now, you might go,
"Listen, I know this.
I know visualization works,
I know I should visualize my career."
But here is what happens with visualization very often
and this is after conversation with many,
many different coaches, is we all know theoretically,
we should visualize.
But if I ask you practically,
how often do you visit this visualization?
How often do you dream
about this dream career that you wanna have?
And most individuals would say,
"Well, not very often."
Most individuals would go,
"Well, I do once in a while.
I have a practice every week
or I will practice every month
or I have a practice every year."
See, the key to manifesting the reality
in your life is to visualize it frequently.
Here is how visualization works.
See, when the first time a vision is bestowed upon you
which may be become a life coach or become a business coach
or become a health coach or become a manifesting coach,
whatever that vision was bestowed upon you
was the one instance that you got really clear
and motivated, right?
But what happens is a vision
once being bestowed upon you, needs to be refined.
And to refine that vision,
you need to visit it again and again and again.
You see,
every single time you visualize the vision that you have,
there will be a little detail that will get added to it.
Let me give you an example.
So I have the vision of speaking to a thousand people
at the same time.
And while I had this vision of speaking to a thousand people
at the same time,
the first vision that was bestowed upon me
was you were speaking at a large stage
and people are in awe of what you're speaking about
and people appreciate what you're speaking about.
So that was the initial placement,
it was bestow.
I was clear, I'm meant to be speaking on stage
and I'm meant to be speaking on a large stage.
But as I visualize it, again,
I realized, Oh, it's not just any stage.
It is a stage where there are 500 to 1000 people
in the room.
Oh, it's not just any stage.
It is a stage where I have a speaking opportunity
of like an hour.
It's not just any stage.
It's a stage where I'm receiving a standing ovation
because of the value that I've added to the audience
that is in the room.
It's not just any stage.
It is a stage where I am just being myself.
It's not just any stage.
It's a stage where I had integrated
not only my life coaching skills
but my meditation, my spiritual practices.
And as I visualized every single time,
it was further refinement
that was added to my vision
because it became clearer and clearer.
That's kinda what you're doing
when you are revisiting the visualization every single day,
every single night.
I have a tendency that before I go to bed,
the last 10 minutes of as I'm falling off asleep,
I would visualize the exact vision
that I'm manifesting right now,
the exact vision that I want to come through right now.
And when you do that,
what happens is your dreams start to align
with those visions.
You wake up with an excitement,
with a sense of purpose and meaning
because you know where you are going
because your dreams seem to have aligned to the vision
that you wanted to create in that next day.
And so the more often I visualize where I'm going,
the easier it is for me to put my conscious self
in the direction,
my conscious self in that path to actually take action
towards that vision.
Because when you're visualizing it again,
your conscious self starts also creating a plan
and an action step that will be aligned to that vision
that you've been visualizing again and again.
Now the second step to manifest your visualization
or second step to manifest a dream career,
the dream reality that you want is
to start focusing on the skills and not the outcomes.
When we have a strong pull, when we have a strong dream,
a clear dream, a clear visualization of where we're going,
often we want it to get realized yesterday, right?
You feel so called to it
that we want it to happen so, so, so fast.
When we associate ourselves mostly throughout
on a day-to-day level, we feel like it's not coming true.
It feels like all the effort
that we are making is going into waste.
And so we start giving up on those dreams
and we start to wonder if these dreams
are meant for us or not,
which is why you wanna refocus yourself
into skills and not outcomes.
You wanna refocus to go,
"Okay, what are the skills that I require
for this visualization to come true?"
If I want to speak in front of a thousand plus people,
I have to get comfortable with certain skills.
I firstly have to have the skill of speaking,
of being able to hold that audience,
to be able to communicate an idea in a powerful way.
I need to have the skill of being comfortable
reaching out to other people who may hold such stages
who are putting up these events.
I must get comfortable with the scale of networking
with such individuals who are on these stages
and our people who are bringing people
as other speakers to come on this stage.
And that brings me to the third step.
The third step is to make a plan from what you know.
See, when you're pursuing this dream of yours,
you would find that you don't know all the stops,
and that's a good thing.
See, when we have challenges,
there's a different part of our DNA that gets activated.
When we have a situation,
when we don't know perfectly what needs to do,
our mind works very interestingly,
it wants to solve that problem and gets active.
It finds new passion, new courage,
new purpose, new direction, new fire.
And that's exactly what you want
when you're creating a dream life,
a life that you could only imagine right now,
that you have never lived before probably
and that part of you, you want to activate.
So the third part is to create a plan from what you know
and lean the scope of what you don't know.
And it's perfectly okay.
You don't need to know the plan
on how to get to your dream life,
but you need a plan to get started
to get to your dream life.
It's very important to know the distinction
between these two is you want to have that uncertainty.
You want that challenge.
Just to remind you of an instance
that you may have experienced this, right?
If you were ever into sports or video games,
you may recognize yourself
as somebody who was running towards the goal,
and because it was difficult, it was more fun.
The game was more fun because getting to the goal
was a little hard,
or getting to that next level in a video game
was a little bit more difficult.
And because of that purposes, you enjoyed the game lot more.
And that's really why you want your manifestations,
you want your dream career, your dream path,
you dream business,
your dream reality to have some levels
that need to unlock because it definitely create excitement
for what you're creating
but actually it unlocks a new capability within you.
And you want that because that's what gives you joy
in the journey and not just the joy at the destination.
Because if you've ever achieved destination before dream,
like dream for years before your in life,
you realize the destination is fun
and we must celebrate it, but it's short lived.
The journey though is much longer.
And so it's more exciting to have a journey
that constantly questions you and unlocks more parts of you.
Which brings me to the fourth key idea
and that is understanding capacity versus capability.
This is going to change your world once you understand it.
See, you as a person have infinite capabilities.
Heck, ya I said it,
I don't even know you.
I've never met you most likely
but I do think you have infinite capability.
You can do everything that you want.
You can do all the dreams that you want.
You can coach wherever you want,
create whatever amount of wealth you want.
You can have massive impact if you want.
Capability wise, you have everything.
Capacity wise, unfortunately, we live in a physical world.
In a physical world, there are a number of hours in the day.
You've got 24 hours out of which you need to sleep,
you need to eat, you need to work out,
you need to be with your family,
you may have a job
so you need to fulfill the duties of a job.
You may have a part-time job,
you need to fulfill the duties of the part-time job
which effectively means
that there's only X number of hours every single day
that you have that actually is your capacity, right?
Your capacity is determined
by the number of hours that you can actively work
on your dream and manifestation of your dream.
And also it is defined
by the energy level that you have
when working on that dream.
Let me expand on this idea using an example.
So say you imagine yourself
as a coach who has say a full-time job
and you're transitioning into this new career.
So your capacity on a day-to-day basis,
maybe you are sleeping for about eight hours,
you need to rest and to rejuvenate
for another two there because of the evening,
and you know you wanna relax a bit, whatever,
You need to eat, let's put an hour towards it.
Let's say you work for about six hours
or let's say eight hours
just to give it even more realistic numbers.
So we had a 10, 13 + 8, that gives us 21 hours.
Typically now you have three hours.
That's your remaining capacity, right?
Three hours are remaining capacity on a day-to-day basis.
And these three hours may or may not
be at your highest capacity level, right?
If let's say these three hours happen right after work,
right?
So you've exerted energy out for eight hours
and now you want to exert energy right into your passion,
your purpose, your meaning, your dream life, right?
You have three hours,
but these three hours
are not the most productive three hours, right?
Because you just finished eight hours of excruciating work
that you may or may not enjoy, right?
So these three hours,
first need an hour of refueling your energy levels,
and so your active capacity is only two hours, right?
Once you understand that, what happens is,
okay, so I only effectively have two hours
and these two hours need to be hyperactivity hours, right?
So it breaks your focus towards your day-to-day energy,
day-to-day focus,
and it tells you how many hours of work do you actually have
or how many hours do you have to invest in your dream life,
which takes away that frustration
that you may have at the end of the day most of the days
where you go,
"I didn't work on my dream,"
but you only had two hours.
And some days,
you might find the capacity is not even two hours.
Because if you make that flow of your day and you go,
"Crap.
I have zero hours today to invest in my passion,
in my purpose, in my dream life."
And so maybe you only work on Saturdays
and then you may have four hours on Saturdays or Sundays
where you actually work on your dream, right?
And if it's only four hours, you know that there is
certain sense of grace that you can give
if you're only working four hours a week
on your dream to yourself.
Actually, that is very important for when you're manifesting
because you're not beating down on your vision,
you are understanding that my vision is priority
but I also have a life.
And so I must fulfill the duties of this life
as I am creating this dream life that I want to have.
The understanding of the difference between capacity
and capability gives you the force of understanding
that things can take time.
That you working on your dream career doesn't mean
that you're working on it all the time,
because capacity wise,
that might not be available to you right now.
Capability wise, it is all available to you.
It is not about
that you're not capable to create your dream life.
You will not have the capacity to build your dream life
as quickly as you desire.
This gives you a sense of freedom.
It gives you a sense of relaxation to say,
"Ah, okay,
so I can ease into this new career.
I don't have to force and beat myself up and get frustrated.
I can lean into this new career.
I can consider that if it takes a little bit more time,
it takes a little bit more time
because I don't have the capacity to create my dream today
or tomorrow."
So it creates a different kind of energy and frequency
for you as you're manifesting this dream career.
And that brings me to the final point.
When we have a dream that we wanna achieve a lot of times
because of how much of a pull it has for us,
it makes us take actions
that may not be congruent with our life.
It gets us frustrated sometimes and gets us pissy sometimes,
but universe acts in its own unique way.
Sometimes,
it has to give you a chance to overcome certain hurdles.
It has to give you some challenges so you can find new pace.
And because of that, you must surrender.
You must surrender the time that you may have associated
with this dream to come true.
You must surrender the expectations
of how this manifestation will come true.
It is all coming true.
There are signs all around you.
If you start looking,
there are signs all around you that are telling you
that all your manifestations are coming true.
It's showing expectations of how they should manifest
or where they should manifest
or what will make it manifest is what may be blocking you.
Maybe create the resistance that may feel like resistance
but is actually something that is helping you
create a version of you
that would help you achieve that dream life.
So suspend the timeline, suspend the expectations,
and surrender to the experience of creation.
Surrender to the experience of manifestation
because it is all coming true.
Now, as you lean into your manifestation,
like you saw in step two,
you will have to be building a lot of skills.
And skills can be built by building great habits.
So in the next video,
I'll show you exactly how to build some great habits
for your life
so you can manifest the dream life that you always wanted.