In 2013, Whitney, myself, and our oldest
moved in with her mom.
One day Whitney ran errands, and I got that impulse again.
I wanted to go to the computer and look at porn.
I grabbed my laptop and went to the bathroom.
I was touching myself when Whitney's mom opened the door.
At first I thought, oh God, I'm busted.
Instead of Wendy turning around and leaving,
she stayed there and watched.
She was there for two minutes, until I was done.
It happened a few weeks later, when she picked
me up from work, and she was fine with watching
and driving at the same time.
All together, I've exposed myself ten times
in front of my mother in law.
And one time Wendy actually touched me back.
I didn't do it because I thought she was hot.
It was more about the adrenalin, and the rush
of doing it in front of her.
I haven't exposed myself to Wendy in the last
two and a half years, and I don't have the urge to.
That's definitely the weirdest thing that I've done.
(dramatic music)
What do you say about that?
I say it's a lie.
I wouldn't be here if I'd been involved
in something like that.
It's a lie.
So, what happened?
I was in the bathroom looking at pornography.
While I was in the bathroom, the door opened.
While the door was opened she leaned in and
started making comments.
And she stood there until I was done.
Well I'm gonna read what you've said here.
You wanna know this, right?
Oh, absolutely. Absolutely.
You've said, the next time I was in the bathroom
doing this with the door unlocked, she walked in
and made comments about it again.
She continued to compliment me, and I listened.
I enjoyed the compliments.
You said she left to go in the kitchen,
I pulled my basketball shorts up and followed her,
I pulled my pants down, and I said,
since you got this far, you might as well finish.
And she did.
To me, that's not...
That's just sick.
It's sick. It is beyond sick.
(audience murmurs)
Dr. Phil, may I say something?
Yeah, I think it would be a good time.
(audience laughs)
If I was that in need, there is a military base
within 50 miles, one way,
(audience laughs) and 50 miles the other way.
And I could have an 18 year old I like,
not my daughter's husband.
Did I read that correctly? Yes, sir.
Is that what happened?
Yes, sir.
Whitney's heard her make comments before.
She has, and I wondered at the time, how would she know?
Well I walked in on him changing clothes.
Okay, now, you've made some serious errors in judgment.
This young woman deserves the truth.
I agree. (audience applauds)
And, Adam says Wendy complimented his genitals.
Right.
Adam says Wendy touched his privates.
Right.
And, she deserves the truth.
I agree.
So, did that happen?
No, sir.
I was disgusted.
But you didn't come to me and tell me.
Well, I'm having a hard time understanding
what he has to gain from saying this.
Thank you, that's what I...
Thank you. And I have a hard time
understanding how you would accidentally, inadvertently
be a party to this.
You said, it's more than ten times,
I can't even count 'em.
How the hell does that happen?
He was living in my house.
When she turned her head, he would expose himself.
Like he was trying to get caught, like sneaky.
You're telling me that you never touched him?
No, sir.
I don't wanna touch him.
He's my daughter's husband.
This is a messed up situation.
All the way around.
I can't believe him, I can't believe her.
If she can't come to me and tell me the truth years ago,
who do you believe?