last night I was sitting there thinking and I was thinking about tati Westbrook
and I was wondering did she ever think in a million years when she posted her
video about James charles did she ever think that this story would blow up to
this magnitude and James Charles would be getting the hate that he's currently
getting what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we
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notification bow so yeah like I mentioned in the intro of this video I
was wondering like the tachi Westbrook ever think this was gonna happen ever in
a million years like freaking PewDiePie the largest creator on the platform made
a video talking about this James Charles is breaking records for losing the most
subscribers and I don't think she she was like tossing Westbrook seems like a
sweet sweet sweet woman and like I mentioned in like my first video on this
situation I believe she just did this because she just felt like she needed to
get away from James for her own mental and emotional well-being and she felt
like this was the best way to do it but yesterday she actually was vocal about
this and she sent this tweet out there won't be a video tomorrow my heart is
still too heavy I feel like I need to remind you that we can hold truth and
inspire change without grabbing on to hate honor your blessings don't abuse
them celebrating pain will only bring it to your door love you guys see you soon
and yeah preach girl preach I'm not into that you know I'm not subscribed to like
makeup channels but like what uh what an awesome woman alright like does she
handle this in the best way I personally don't think so like again like this blew
up way way way out of proportion but I'm glad that she's speaking up and trying
to get people to chill out like the magnitude of this thing is
absolutely crazy but the most serious conversation going on and it might be
because of the way that tati Westbrook worded it about James charles is this
predatory behavior so I want to do this for this video okay
like I just wants you to just for a minute
just just play along with me and try to put yourself in James Charles shoes and
just try to understand what he's going through
so imagine that you're a 19 year old gay man you're famous and you're richer than
you could have ever imagined all right now something that comes along with this
Fame and being rich is that anybody that you're attracted to who shows you some
attention you have to wonder somewhere in your mind you have to wonder is this
person actually attracted to me or are they trying to come at my fame and my
money so you're this 19 year old rich gay man who has a lot of Fame and you
flirt with a waiter at a restaurant all right he ends up messaging you he
approaches you and through a conversation you find out that this kid
is also bicurious and he wants to hang out he comes over to your hotel room and
you to make out for an hour all right this kid leaves you have
feelings for him and he ends up messaging you back and saying you know
what never mind I'm straight so then you also have this attractive Instagram
model who is also talking to you and he identifies it straight but he also tells
you that he's bicurious you guys flirt with each other you mess around a little
bit you bring this kid out to Coachella even though he says he's still on the
fence and not really sure then at Coachella this kid is showing you more
affection you guys cuddle you guys kiss and everything like that and then after
this whole situation he tells you that he also just realized that he identifies
his strengths no
this is to separatists instances where people approached you and you hung out
with them they consented to the the hooking up the making out whatever it
was they consented to this then they told you that they were straight alright
now I really want you to think about this for a second just really think
about this for a second I don't know how old you are watching this video but just
imagine just imagine every hookup or breakup that you've ever had being
blasted on the internet to millions of people the DMS people coming out saying
that you're a bad kisser right let's think about that for just a second like
I I was trying to think about this and the embarrassment that I would go
through in that situation and it's and if you and every if every hookup or
relationship you've ever had has just been the cleanest thing ever then you go
girl you go but just put yourself in James
Charles shoes for just a minute alright now don't get me wrong with James
Charles a dick to talk to Westbrook yes but is James Charles a predator I don't
think there's enough evidence out there to say so alright
the two men who have come forward have shared their stories about how all of
this was consensual and James Charles was hurt by this situation like I was
just watching a video the other day from another big youtuber about their breakup
you know what I mean and like this is this is what I I'm trying to get out
there is like a lot of people want this fame and fortune they want to be a rich
you know big youtuber and everything like that but just like put yourself in
these people's shoes for just a second and now James Charles is being targeted
by canceled culture like and not and my canceled culture is much worse than
those two words can even summarize all right because Totti Westbrook was making
a video about how she tried mentor James and he's kind of a selfish
dick right and now people are calling him a predator they're accusing him of
things that are so terrible and awful they can put somebody in jail because
that is what canceled culture does they take something small and then it
explodes and people want to ruin they want to ruin somebody's entire life an
entire career like do you guys remember do you guys remember when Shane Dawson
was accused of being a pedophile like so many people came out and had that man's
back you know why because getting labeled as a pedophile is something that
does not go away all right that is something that was was there was a
possibility that that label could have stuck to Shane Dawson for the rest of
his life because of the allegations and now people are doing the exact same
thing to James Charles now what I want you to think about as well is that James
Charles his mentor was Jeffrey star one of his mentor's was Jeffrey star I don't
know if you've ever met Jeffrey stars boyfriend Nate but Nate was a man who
identified as straight until Jeffrey star came along all right is it possible
is it possible that James Charles seeing Jeffree star's relationship with Nate
gave him a little bit of hope that maybe he could be attracted to straight men
and something would come from it is that a possibility all right like one of the
reasons I'm bringing this up is because a very close friend of mine is a gay man
he is a gay man who is married now the man that he is married to was previously
married to a woman and they had children together until that man realized that he
was gay now these two are married and like it's just something that can
happen and this I'm a twelve I try to see the glass is half-full and in this
situation I'm glad that a conversation is being had about sexual orientation
and sexual preferences and all of that but like people are looking at this in
such a black and white situation and it's not like the two people the two
credible stories that have actually come out of the men who are bicurious and
like if you can't understand why James Charles was hurt by that I I don't know
what to tell you but my final opinion on that aspect of the whole situation is
like many of us I just think James Charles is a kid who had a broken picker
or has a broken picker he keeps going after the wrong type of men now is it
possible that he'll find a straight man that was like kind of on the down-low
and realizes that he's gay and they get married and it's happily ever after
possibly but in the coming years James Charles might also realize that he needs
to just start finding other gay men all right but anyways anyways I hope this
brought another perspective to you to think about this situation and to think
about the these strong words that people are using against James Charles during
all this mess like tati Westbrook said I don't celebrate the hate that's going
around for this kid alright but anyways that's all I got for this video if you
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