PASTOR CALVIN ROBERSON: What's going on, man?
How you doing, Pastor?
I'm good.
How you doing, buddy?
I've been better.
PASTOR CALVIN ROBERSON: Of course.
We've all been better.
TRISTAN THOMPSON: Yeah.
I've come to Dallas to meet with Mia and Tristan.
They haven't seen each other since their argument.
And so I'm meeting them in a neutral place.
Because the future of their marriage
is really on the line right now.
OK.
Go ahead.
So Tristan, I feel like I was discarded very easily.
And I feel like things escalated and got way out
of hand for what that argument was about.
I feel now scared and confused because if you
can kick me out now, then is that
going to happen in Houston.
You had said that you were discouraged about Houston.
And I said, if you don't want to go,
if you want to stay in Dallas, you could just tell me.
And a lot of what I was doing was
a response to what you said.
MIA BALLY: But to me, it felt like you'd kicked me out.
And I personally don't believe that I
should have been kicked out.
I don't think that's OK at all.
I wanted to sleep.
I wanted to stay.
And the last thing I wanted to do
was have my stuff be thrown out.
You know, I was told that this was a long-term commitment
for both of us, but by those actions
it didn't reflect the words that have been being said.
And I'm really sad because I feel
like I wasn't really worth much when
you kicked me out, so yeah.
Tristan talk to me.
Maybe I'm not Superman.
Maybe I'm not that rock you said I was, or you thought I was.
And right now I feel I'm not what's best for you.
So I need to take a minute.
PASTOR CALVIN ROBERSON: Tristan.
I can't handle this anymore.
I feel like my marriage is a failure.
And that it's all my fault. I'm done.
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I know that Dr. Jessica told me not to say that I'm done.
But right now I'm feeling hurt and tired because Mia
feels like I am a bad husband.
And that is making me, in turn, feel
like I'm a bad husband, even though I didn't
think that I was being that.
But if that's the way she feels, I don't know what to do.
Hey man.
I'm going to get Tristan.
Because it's fine if he wants to end his marriage,
but this is not the way to do it.
Walking out is no way to face your problems.
And it's no way to be in a marriage.
And we need to get to the heart of the matter
and figure out whether Tristan and Mia still want to try.
Do they still want to be married?
Do you care about her?
Yes.
- Do you still love this woman. - Yes.
Do you care about him?
Yes.
This can work.
It honestly can.
And I think you guys see where it can.
I want you to tell her how you feel.
You know how competitive I am.
I want to be the world's best husband for you.
I'm still learning you.
So sometimes I have to take a step.
I may say I'm done talking or I may have to take a step out
to regroup.
But that's because I had a passion for you.
And it's overwhelming.
I can't really explain it.
It's so deep, and it's scary because I've
never let myself love.
And I apologize, because I wanted to be better.
Hearing Tristan say that he loves
me and wants to stay committed makes me feel really good.
I love you.
Like we're in this together.
We both said that we wanted this long term.
And I really do think that both of us mean it,
and that we just need to get past this hump together.
All I care about is that we talk about it,
like how we're doing right now.
And that we don't shut down.
And we listen with a open heart.
And then we just come up with a solution
to move forward, and not repeat some of the stuff
that we've done in the past.
And that's all I want.
Be the kind of people you want to be to each other.
All right.
Just respect, love, and go on with life, man.
Life's too short.
Amen on that one.
What are we going to do about living arrangements?
I want to go to bed next to you.
OK, well good.
Come here. Ah.
Come closer.
How close you want me to get?
We're in front of Pastor.
Oh, my God.