- How many people have you guys slept with?
- Four.
- High five.
- Four?
You always told me it was just Chris and me.
- And I have one that is a secret one.
- A secret.
- My name's Rosalind.
This is my mom Rosalind, this is my dad Dan.
Today we are talking about how I lost my virginity.
- I knew exactly when you lost your virginity.
You went out with this boy,
and when you came back you changed clothing,
and I went to the dirty clothes,
and I searched for your underwear...
- Oh mamma mia.
- And you had the drops of blood,
and I said like, "She did it."
- Where was this?
- At the next door neighbors apartment.
- I had no idea.
- How old were you?
- 14.
- He know that it was your first time?
- No.
- Did he figure it out later?
- Like, quite a few years later.
- Was it his first time?
- I think so.
What did you think of him?
- I thought he was, seemed like an okay kid,
for his age and everything.
- He was very nice to his parents, and I liked that.
In fact, I talked to the parents,
but without revealing much of anything,
just so that we could respect the situation.
- Like, after the situation, or was it before?
- It was after, but you didn't know.
- Did you talk to them about that?
- Yes.
- Oh okay.
What did they say?
- Well the same as us, you know,
you can have a sweetheart relationship...
But don't get pregnant.
One thing is to have sex,
another things is to bring a child to this world.
- We weren't really in a relationship, you know that,
we were just best friends.
- Yeah, but I didn't know that much,
and I didn't want to know.
- So, did you guys plan it,
set a day for it, and meet just to do it?
- No.
- Or it just happened,
and he happened to have a condom in his wallet or something?
- The condom appeared out of nowhere.
It was...
Kind of awkward, but...
The instincts came.
- Oh yeah, you know.
- Did he hurt you?
- No, it felt good.
- Really?
- Yeah.
- It didn't hurt you?
- No.
- You're lucky.
- Why?
- We're saying your first experience, not mine.
(laughs)
- Oh, okay.
- What was your first time?
- Oh boy.
- I was 18.
I did marry the guy I lost my virginity with,
and it was the biggest mistake of my life.
Cause I did it for that reason.
The first time,
I didn't consume the first time, 'cause it hurt me.
I bleeded, but he didn't penetrate me,
'cause it hurt him to.
So then I lost my virginity like in three times.
- What?
- He couldn't penetrate me.
It was like there was like a wall there.
It was very traumatic, it was hurtful,
there was no pleasure at all.
My first time was horrible.
What was your first time?
- My first time was nice, it was nice.
- How old were you?
- I was like almost 19, yeah.
It was a older girl.
- She was two or three years older.
Hung out with these three sisters, and she was the oldest.
We were getting high and stuff all the time, and drinking.
And we were down in the basement, and the lights were down.
- Did the clothes just magically disappear one by one?
- I don't even know if we got al our clothes off.
Just enough.
- Where were you?
- We were in the basement of a house on Queen Anne,
and there were, like, pillows, and blankets --
- No parents?
- Music.
The mother was upstairs, yeah.
- Where were the two other sisters?
- They were engaged with someone else in the same room.
- [Together] So everybody did it in the same room?
(laughs)
- What?
- We, yeah.
This was the sixties.