you know what I'm probably wrong onision completely understands what abuse is
what's up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talked about
the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel what I
try to do take different topics from the YouTube community and try to see what
lessons we can learn from them so if you're into that stuff make sure you
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over on instagram and twitter at the rewired soul so before I get started I'm
gonna jump into a few topics and I'll explain why but anyways I have to
address this so when I started on YouTube you know primarily doing you
know one type of content and I transitioned into blending you know
YouTube topics and commentary with other topics and everything and since I
started doing that I've had so many requests to do videos on oniisan so 10
months ago I released this video I'll link it down in the description up in
the info card but it was titled like why I don't talk about an easy on long story
short if you don't want to check that video out basically
onision is an attention seeker as much as he's been claiming videos lately he
loves when people talk about him and I don't want to feed into that alright so
I just stayed away from all the topics regarding on easy on so I've changed my
policy on that as many of you watching this are well aware there has been a lot
of new updates and everything and I've debated over the last year or so I'm
like do I need to chime in on there's plenty of people are chiming in on this
like do I really need to talk about it but I changed my policy a bit because I
I see like I watched that awesome video that rep seon did I'm gonna link his
video down below to like it's an hour long
or is it an hour and a half I don't know it's long but it has a lot of
information so go check it out please share it but anyways I just want to talk
about a little bit more from a different angle from like psychology and
neuroscience that I don't see people talking about
and I just feel it's important that we discuss it because in my opinion it's a
very dangerous thing that's going on and I feel that it might influence others
alright so before I jump into this I am NOT a psychologist alright I am just a
nerd who reads a ton of books on psychology and neuroscience and
philosophy all right so let's talk about this so the biggest recent accusation of
oniisan is you know grooming this young woman and yeah we need to talk about
this for a few reasons okay so the first question I want to ask
you is do you know do you know why there are laws around different ages such as
the age of consent such as drinking age and everything like that like aside from
the obvious like the obvious that is just like a bad thing to do like a lot
of this is actually rooted in science okay like we need to understand that the
the main part of the brain that separates us from other animals is the
prefrontal cortex that is the last part of the brain to fully develop all right
and this part of the brain is responsible for things like logical
decision making and emotional regulation and fear modulation what fear modulation
is it's a part of our brain that tells us what we should be afraid of this is
why young people participate in much riskier behavior for example I go to a
lot of concerts right I used to go to a lot more and when I was younger I was
like in the front I was in the mosh pit and everything like that as that gotten
older and my brain has developed and my fear modulation is better I've scooted
back at concerts I'm one of those guys now but anyways children are not as
afraid as they should be of different situations but another issue and many of
you have watched like the nerd city video about Jay Paul marketing to kids
and everything like that another issue is that children have a hard time
separating like you know fiction from reality alright
this is quite common with YouTube as well because you have people who portray
characters and personas and everything like that and this is one of the the
topics of conversation that comes up when you have youtubers who have a lot
of authority or you know that power right talking to younger fans okay and
when you have children who look up to these people it creates an issue okay so
it's not just like oh that's bad like there are actually reasons rooted in
science as to why these things are bad so here's the thing about oniisan
onision has his own kind of philosophy about life alright and something that
you know I find fascinating is that psychology which is now being more
rooted in science branched off from philosophy alright but the problem with
somebody like Onishi on his is that it's 2019 and although you you can have your
own kind of philosophies I believe it's also important to integrate science
right so you know nice Ian's mind what he's doing is okay like if you watch the
rep see on video and you see like that weird what was it called something that
some website he had I was like kind of cult ish and things like that
like oniisan has his own philosophy and hundreds of years ago that wouldn't have
really been a huge deal but now that we know you know the effect that you know
certain situations can have on people especially people who are younger and
the vulnerable like it's an issue because now we have more scientific
evidence around psychology so what I want to talk about now is taking
advantage of people in a vulnerable state all right like this is the part of
the story that that really bothers me like everything bothers me about the
story but here's what really bothers me so the young woman who oniisan
and Kyle move in with them like when you hear how
it happened this young woman was having troubles all right
internally as well as externally she was having her own emotional issues I'm like
we said you know part of you know being a child is poor emotional regulation she
was also having problems with her family I don't know all of the details around
that I don't know if it was abuse are just fighting or whatever but how many
of us you know fought with our families but here's the part that's really
troublesome oniisan and KY took this young woman in
in that vulnerable state and that is so wrong all right like this is something
that many predators do they look for the weak and vulnerable all right like when
you look at abusers and some of you can relate to this if any of you have ever
been in an abusive relationship like look back and see why you you know why
you got into a relationship with them because typically what happens and I
used to do this back in the day when we are more vulnerable we drop our
standards and our bar right and there are certain people who prey on that okay
but aside from just abusive relationships taking advantage of
somebody who's in a vulnerable position this is something that you know like I'm
also fascinated with the psychology of like you know cults and things like that
and something that you see is very common is they take advantage of
vulnerable populations like did you watch that documentary on Netflix what
was a wild wild country with osho and stuff like that that shows in there like
what they started to do is take a lot of people who are homeless and everything
like that and bring them in it's a lot easier to manipulate people who are
extremely vulnerable they don't really have anywhere else to go they you know
they're they're teetering on hopelessness and everything like that
because you appear as their Savior so there are so many things psychologically
wrong with this story and like I said the reason I want to talk
about it is because I get concerned that there are fans of oniisan watching this
and thinking like hmm I guess that makes sense I guess it
makes sense why he did that you know what I mean but here's the thing
oniisan like I feel and this is just my opinion I feel that he purposely stays
ignorant like it's a lot easier to sit there and root your own beliefs in like
this kind of philosophy that you've created because if you if you watch what
oniisan says it's it's never rooted in any kind of studies or books or anything
like that he's like well I thought it this is my logic so this is okay we need
to understand that throughout the years there have been thousands upon thousands
upon thousands of studies see what human behavior is actually like in different
situations how the brain responds in different situations and to wrap this
video up I do want to apologize because I'm gonna link a tweet down below that
actually made me want to make this video and it's an old video clip of oniisan
talking about abuse and if you put yourself in that situation it's your
fault and everything like that and this circles back to omnis yawns philosophy
of personal responsibility and accountability I was going to show the
clip and this but from what I've seen oh nice yawns claiming literally everything
so I thought this would might keep me a little bit safer by anyways like I said
go check out reps yawns video I'm gonna link all that stuff down in the
description below but yeah I do I do think I will do one more video just
about something else but anyways stay tuned alright anyways
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