Hey there, it's Clay with Modernlove.life and this is Relationship Inner Game.
Now we have been going for the past couple of videos on the topic of things that people
think are very important when it comes to getting back together with their acts that
actually have zero importance what so ever.
And we're also talking about what is absolutely critically important in getting back together
with your ex.
So today we're going to talk about the whole concept of your ex moving on.
People often ask me about this.
People often write in and say, Hey, here's some list of things that happened.
Do you think my ex was moving on?
How do I stop my extra moving on?
What are some signs that my ex was moving on?
And my response to that is that you should actually want your ex to move on if you want
to get back together again, you want your ex to move on.
Now why is this?
Because if your ex didn't move on, they would still be reeling in all of the emotional turmoil
and drama and confusion and all of that stuff that comes from heartbreak and if they were
to get back together with you, they would not be emotionally available.
They would not be able to have a healthy relationship dynamic with you and the two of you would
probably just break up a couple of weeks later on down the road.
Sorry.
That's Kinda how it goes, and so what you actually want is for your ex to move on from
the breakup.
You want them to emotionally move on so that they can actually have a real substantial
emotional connection with you.
You want them to actually be emotionally available to open up, to share, to connect, to love,
to bonds, to want a connection and a relationship and a commitment with you.
That's why it is absolutely vital that you really want your ex to Milan and that you
should actually help them move on.
Okay?
What I really want you to takeaway from this is not to worry whether or not your ex and
moving on, because again, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter actually, you want your
ex to move on, it does matter and that you want to move on but in addition to that, what
you want to do is you want to actually form a high quality emotional connection with your
ex and you, you can't really form a high quality emotional connection with your ex if they're
not moved on, you know, it might seem like a high quality emotional connection, but really
you're connecting with the idea of what the two of you used to be or the idea of the past
or the idea of the relationship that you had and what you need to in order to have a successful
longterm relationship with your ex is to connect with what's happening right now in the present
moment.
Connect with what's real.
Connect with having a relationship that is new, that is not the same broken relationship
that ended in a breakup before.
Okay?
So you want your ex to move on.
You want to be able to have a great real, organic, substantial, meaningful connection
with them that they're able to have after they move on emotionally and so that you can
actually bring yourself to them and actually have a real substantial, genuine, authentic
bond with them that will, that they will know, they will know that it's not the same relationship
that they ended in the first place.
They are not walking back into the same dynamic that they left in the first place, and that
is why it is critical to have high quality interactions and that's why it is critical
to let go of the pain and suffering of the breakup.
Now, if you'd like to get a little bit of help doing all of that, first of all, if you
are on our website, modernlove.life, then head down below and click.
There'll be something below this video that will take you to another page that will tell
you more about how you can go ahead and heal from the breakup.
Let go of the pain of the breakup, and also form meaningful high quality emotional connections
with your ex.
That'll bring the two of you closer together.
Again, if you're watching this video over on Youtube, then just click the link down
in the description and you will actually be taken to a different website called relationship
inner game.
All you have to do here is just fill out a couple of quick questions.
Basically telling me what is going on with you and your breakup in your ex and all of
that stuff.
It'll just take like 30 seconds.
It's totally painless and then what's going to happen is I'll send you some tips, advice,
and strategies that will help you really make that meaningful connection with your ex, help
you understand where things are right now with your ex and help you to connect with
them in a big way.
All right, so again, whether you're on modern web.life or on Youtube, just head on down
below.
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Anyway, this has been with modernlove.life.
This has been Relationship Inner Game and I will see you in our next video.
Please take care.