Hello, my wonderful friend!
Let's talk about what to text a girl you like.
I have some specific magical texts that all girls love.
And you can literally take these examples and use them right away.
Have you ever wanted to make that gorgeous gal smile and give her butterflies and
make her heart beat faster when her phone goes off and she sees your name?
These texts make it incredibly easy to do just that.
I have 7 of these magical texts, so make sure you stay with me
until the end of the video.
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With that, now that you've subscribed, let's talk about the
first text to text a girl you like.
This one is maybe my favorite, and it is just, "Hello, beautiful!"
That's never going to get old, okay?
Every woman wants to feel beautiful.
Just like it would, like, make you soar if she said, "Hey, handsome,"
or something like that, it just makes her feel important, it makes her feel
attractive, and it makes her want to be with you more because she feels
so good when she hears from you.
So never, ever, ever underestimate the power of, "Hello, beautiful!"
What to text a girl you like number two is, "You make me smile!"
Okay, everyone wants to feel important, right?
Everyone wants to feel like there's something about them that
makes someone else feel good.
And if you've been here with me for a while, you've heard me say this.
If you are in my Academy, which I know many of you are, you've heard me say this.
People like people who make them feel good.
It's really- attraction is as simple as that.
We want to be around people who make us feel good.
So when she hears something simple like, "You make me smile," it makes her feel
really good, and it makes her smile.
It's a subtle way, an appropriate way, to let her know that she means something to
you without coming out and saying that, if you don't wanna be too bold at this point.
And it helps her feel close to you.
I'm just gonna say it one more time.
Say it with me.
People like people who make them feel good.
This leads us right into our next magical text.
This text is, "I was just thinking about you!"
Okay, that's cute, right?
Wouldn't it make you feel wonderful if a girl just said,
"Yeah, I was thinking about you"?
That helps us know that we are important to someone, and it's
really adorable, especially if someone's willing to be vulnerable
enough to actually acknowledge it.
Now, there are a couple of ways you can do this.
Let's say she texts you and you say, "Oh, hey, how you doing?
I was just thinking about you."
Or maybe you have something that you know she would enjoy, a meme, a picture, a link
to a YouTube video, whatever it is, and you say, "Hey, I was thinking about you
and I thought of this," or whatever it is.
"This made me think about you."
That's a really simple way to make her just go, "Aww, he was thinking
about me~" and then she's gonna have to, like, go tell all of her
friends and it's going to give her butterflies and make her feel amazing.
So it's powerful.
I wanna share a little secret with you that most people don't know.
Do you wanna know what it is?
The way you make her feel is what makes her fall in love with you.
Just like a woman who makes you feel amazing when you're around her is the
kind of woman that you fall in love with.
Far too many people right now are using cheap strategies, attracting
cheap women, and then they wonder why they have a cheap relationship.
All those mind games and tricks and silliness is not what leads
to that love that lasts forever.
That's why so many people are frustrated that they can't find love that
lasts, an authentic love that lasts.
In reality, creating that fire, creating that desire for a
relationship is very, very simple.
That's why as a coach, I teach my clients how to make her feel certain ways so
that she falls in love with you forever.
And it has nothing to do with pretending to be someone you're not or
bending over backwards or being fake.
It's all incredibly authentic because love is authentic.
So let me ask you a question.
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Up next for what to text a girl you like is to ask her questions.
Now, I know that's not a specific text, but this is your ultimate hack.
This is one of the things in my Academy when I'm teaching you how to connect
with her, how to flirt with her, and how to become a boss at making her
feel comfortable with you and small talk, this is, like, my favorite tool.
And that is to just ask her questions.
As you do this, it makes her feel connected to you, it helps her feel like,
"Wow, this guy's really fun to talk to.
He's actually interested in me!"
And it also helps her feel safe because she knows the answers to questions.
As humans, that's just how it works.
So rather than having those text situations where it all of a sudden
just gets really awkward and you're like, "Um, I don't know what to
say," Start asking her questions.
That really helps her feel connected to you and comfortable, and makes her
get super excited when she sees that you're the one who just texted her.
Okay, this leads me to the next secret tip, which, this
is another one of my favorites.
It's simply something like, "Hey, do you wanna go out?"
or, "Hey, you wanna do something sometime?"
Basically, making a move asking her out.
Let me ask you this.
Are you texting her because you want to just be texting buddies and that's it?
Because if that's all you want, then never ask her out.
But if you want this to go somewhere, if you want to take her out, get to
know her better, it's very important that you ask her out early on.
Otherwise, she gets really confused and thinks you just wanna be friends.
And then it's really hard to be upset with her if she puts you in the friend zone.
So instead, you need to set what this relationship is.
Is this a friend relationship or is this a hopefully more relationship?
And when a woman sees that you're pursuing her, it's ridiculously hot, okay?
It just gives her those butterflies and helps her see you as her
hero, as a strong, masculine man.
So as you're texting her, getting to know her better, whatever it is, make
sure that you are asking her out.
And this is true even if you've already been on dates with her.
If you just kind of stop asking her out, stop pursuing her, then she figures
you're just not interested anymore.
So never underestimate the power of pursuing her!
Okay, before we get to the other texts that I can't wait to share
with you, I have a question.
I haven't done a video on texting for quite a while.
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Okay, next up on what to text a girl you like is to give
her some kind of a compliment.
And yes, it can be something like, "you're so beautiful," or, "you're so pretty."
It can also be, "wow, you're really smart," or, "Hey, I really admire
when you did this," or whatever it is.
Those little compliments are never little to the other person, right?
When someone compliments you, doesn't it just, like, make your whole day?
Well, the same is true for her.
This is especially true when it's someone we're really attracted to
and that we're really interested in.
So giving her a compliment, slipping those compliments into the conversation is key.
Now, I obviously cannot give you a specific compliment because
it has to be tailored to her.
There are only so many cut and paste lines you can actually use.
You need to make sure you're being sincere.
So pay attention to what it is about her that really strikes you, that
really catches your attention, that you really respect and admire, and
then compliment her on those things.
It's going to rock her world, and those are things she will remember forever.
Okay, next up for what to text a girl you like is to not be afraid
to send her pictures sometimes.
Now, this is, again, something that has to be tailored to her.
I can't tell you exactly what to do.
It has to be the things that you've been talking about and stuff.
I hope I don't have to say this, but just in case, nothing inappropriate, okay?
You wanna get a cheap woman?
Send inappropriate pictures, okay?
Because a high quality woman is gonna say, "wow, that's not the man I want
to be the father of my children."
Just keeping it real, okay?
So only send her pictures of appropriate things.
And obviously only date a girl who would do the same.
But it can be something like, "Oh hey, there's this sunset.
It made me think of you."
That's a two for one, which is awesome!
It can also be something you're doing that you've talked
about, or it can be your dog.
But the more you fit your face in it, the better.
I'm just being perfectly honest.
But sending those pictures is really a fun way to connect.
It helps her see that you're creative and you're original rather than just
kind of boring or uninteresting.
And it can help her feel that closeness to you really fast.
And let me just say, there's nothing more fun than getting a picture of
a cute guy that you're texting, and then maybe saving it to your phone
and showing all of your friends.
It's really, really a cute thing to do.
And a bonus is, there's a really good chance that she'll start taking pictures
of what she's eating and what she's doing stuff, and sending those to you as well.
So it's really a win-win situation.
Now, since we were just talking about attracting cheap women,
let me just ask you, are you sick of attracting cheap women?
Are you tired of attracting the wrong kinds of women and ready to attract
that feminine, tender, loving, gentle, stunning woman that you wanna wake up
next to for the rest of your life and know her heart belongs to you forever?
Is that what you're looking for?
If it is, there are 5 secrets you need to know.
They're simple, but ridiculously powerful!
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In that free training, I will give you all the details and give you
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There's a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment.
Real fast, let's recap the magical texts you just learned.
Number one is, "Hello, beautiful!"
I don't care how cliche it sounds, it will never get old.
Number two, "You make me smile!"
Everyone wants to feel important and like they matter and like
they make somebody else smile.
Number three, "I was just thinking about you!"
She's feeling those butterflies.
Number four is to ask her questions.
This is a great way to keep the conversation going and make her
see you as a really interesting, fun person to chat with.
Number five is, "Want to do something?"
or, "Wanna go out sometime?"
or, "Wanna go out Friday?"
Basically, just pursuing her, asking her out, showing interest.
This is key if you want to avoid the friend zone.
Number six is to compliment her.
An honest, sincere compliment melts hearts.
It just does!
And number seven is to not be afraid to send her some
pictures of what you're doing.
And it's a bonus if you include your face in those pictures as well.
So maybe brush up a little bit on your selfie game.
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[blooper beep] I'm just gonna go for it.
Just gonna dive right in.
[humming] Mm mm mm~!
That's not actually a song, but.
Okay, deal.
Let's make a deal right here, right now, okay?
Can we do that?
Let's just pretend my hair looks awesome today, okay?
It was one of those days where it was like...
yeah, one of those days.
And so a hat is what I decided to go with.
So let's just pretend it looks amazing.
Good? Can we agree with that?
Okay.
Got rid of that pressure.
Let's go!
Let's talk about what to text a girl you like.
Let's get started with number- number one, cuz that would make logical sense.
[laughter] Okay.
This leads us right into the next thing to text a girl you like...
Oh yeah.
I was like, "what is it?
I don't know."
I literally just looked at it.
I can't get over the fact that I'm wearing a hat.
I don't know why that's weirding me out.
I don't really wear hats very often.
You wanna know why?
I have a really small head.
Like, I do.
Like I, for a while there I had to buy children's hats because my head
is just so small, which is kind of embarrassing to be, you know, admitting
on YouTube for the whole world to know.
But I do.
And so I just kind of just never got used to wearing hats.
And this one I have to turn around backwards cuz that
is the only way it will fit.
Now you know one of my deepest, darkest secrets.
Be very careful what you do with without knowledge.
[laughter] I'm just kidding.
I don't know.
Okay.
[laughter] The good news is when I get stressed, we have the
best bloopers, so that's good.
Y'all, I'm trying so hard not to be stressed.
My life is so unique right now, so out of out of control right now, but that's okay.
We're getting things taken care of.
So thank you for your prayers.
I wish I could just hug you.
It means so much to me, so thank you!
Okay, up next for what to text a girl you like...
What?
And number seven is to not be afraid to send her pictures of what's going
on or things you're doing and make sure- The cat just jumped- jumped
on the stool that the camera's on.
I'm scared.
Get down.
Noir, get down.
Noir.
Okay, we're good.
Crisis averted.
Yay!
Averted?
Avoided?
No longer a problem.
[chuckle] Okay.
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Thanks for joining me in another video.
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Hope you never forget that.
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I think I am done.
That's my Jerry The Gourd voice from Veggie Tales.
If you grew up on Veggie Tales like I did, you know where it's at.
[laughter] And yes, I have a Jerry The Gourd voice.
Why?
I don't really know.
It just entertains me.
[chuckle] I just thought I'd share that with you since I'm already sharing all
kinds of embarrassing things today.
You know, why not just go all the way?
[laughter] I should not get in front of a camera when I'm tired.
Or I should get in front of a camera a whole lot more when I'm tired.
You know, it all depends on your point of view.
Life lesson right there.
"It all depends on your point of view."
See?
I can teach things in the bloopers as well.
You know, I'm just that good.
[laughter] Okay, I'm- I'm leaving now.
I'm leaving now.
Goodbye.
I'll see you next week.
We can have more fun in the bloopers next week, okay?
Sound good?
Good.
I'm up for that too.
[laughter] Okay, bye.