J: All right we have a celebrity advice L: Next
J: Recently Lizzo announced that she was quitting Twitter when she tweeted
J: "Yeah, I can't do this Twitter's shit no more"
J: "Too many trolls and I'll be back when I feel like it"
J: Of course, we've seen plenty of celebs
J: Take breaks from social media and sometimes quit altogether
J: Exactly me last week
J: But for some public figures quitting isn't always an easy
J: Option because it's their main platform for connecting
J: And communicating with fans.
J: So my question is, what's your advice for maintaining
J: A healthy relationship with social media?
J: Especially if social media is a big part of your job
L: Much to think about
J: Yeah... For me, I'm in a really tricky situation cause
J: I've been trending on Naver again. Uhm
J: Yeah for my Instagram, um. L: Congrats? Is it bad?
J: I have no idea cause I was, I was in the plane
L: I thought you were gonna be like I was drunk
J: I was drunk
J: I was in the plane and every- it was bad
L: Did you say something controversial?
J: No, no, I posted up a photo and
J: The fans were, the people were like, oh, she's trying to get attention from that photo
J: I don't know why I came to that
J: I just wanted to bring, uhm a good vibe and I
L: Was it just like a, like a picture of yourself J: Yes
J: Um, I posted up this photo because L: Right
J: First I thought it was a pretty photo, like not just my body L: Right
J: I thought like all the, all the picture and yes
J: Aesthetically I really liked it and
J: Um, I was just talking about like everyone was asking me
J: If I'm stressing out with my diet or or my body
J: But I really don't give a fuck
L: You're like I'm chilling J: Yeah
J: Like, I just love the way I look now
J: I don't care about anything. L: *Claps*
J: So I just wanted to everyone to know like everyone
J: To just know and I was in New York that time
J: And everyone was so beautiful. Just wearing what they wanted. They didn't even care about anything
J: I just wanted to give out that positive vibe to everyone
J: But there were no, um
J: You know, there were no explanations by that photo is just like one word
J: So a lot of people could just misunderstand of why I would post up that photo
J: But it wasn't a good side and the bad side, of course
L: But like here's the thing, even if there wasn't like
L: The meaning behind that picture and you simply just thought you looked good
L: You still can post that picture like that's what Instagram is for
L: You're supposed to- what are you gonna do?
L: Post pictures where you look shitty all the time like
L: Instagram is for posting pictures
L: Where you look good
J: Right, so and then those fans, like it was like different L: Imma fight everyone
L: Send me all of their ads *Laughs*
J: Oh I didn't see it like- L: What do they want from you? They'd be like
L: All the time? I don't know like
J: But I kinda understand the way they saw it as that cause I had some issue with um
J: Like sexual harassment so they thought oh you want to do that again?
J: Like why are you doing it again?
J: If you went to that place and then do it all over again
J: But just to tell you guys like clearly, I'm over that
J: After that situation, I became really strong
J: So whatever they do. It's not bothering me anymore
J: So that's why I'm okay posting all those photos like I wouldn't really care
J: Now, cause it was my first try and I kind of got shocked in my first try
J: But now I'm over with it
J: I'm totally fine
J: It's- it's not important what others think
J: It's really important for what I think L: And it's not your responsibility
L: To make sure everyone else isn't an asshole like you know what I mean J: Right
L: It's their business to take care of if their being a waste
J: So it was trending again, and it was pretty bad
J: From what I heard and my friends don't really usually text me
J: Because I've been like you know coming up with those
J: But all my friends were texting me and
J: Since like the- the minute I came back from New York. My phone was blowing up
J: My DMS were bonus. I was like, oh my god. Did I do something wrong?
L: Yeah J: And it was just like that
J: So I was like oh
J: That was stupid that was like the most stupidest trending ever again
J: But just to let it all you guys know
J: I was not putting up that photo for her like another L: Right right J: Yeah
J: You know, was just I just liked the photo. That's it
L: And that is okay
J: So, um, but I didn't really want to mess it up, um
J: Why I brought this thing was I was gonna stop Instagram also
J: Cause it was making too much drama for
J: What I've been just saying they would bring up like six months
J: Like videos and just put it up
J: Like right now what I felt I was sick, but then they would just post it up
J: Like I was fed up with all those things, but I wasn't really
J: So I was thinking of quitting Instagram and my social medias too
J: That day, but I'm not in a company L: Right
J: Right now and that's the only place that I can tell my friends
J: That I'm going somewhere or what I'm doing L: So you need it
J: Yes, I need it. So it's like in both ways. It's bad for you
J: They're gonna keep making up dramas. But you also need it.
L: Yeah, like for me social media literally is my job J: Right
L: Like it's all, that is yes my job
L: So like I have to have it right now, but I think it's really important if you have social media
L: It's really important to like not get your value from social media like yourself value
L: You know any mean like, you gotta. you gotta J: Have it
J+L: And then
L: Like use social media J: For more
L: Just like yeah, you know what I'm tryna say J: Yes yes
J: I mean we all do right now, right? They're nodding
L: Yeah, like if you're if you're posting on social media for that feeling of validation
L: Don't do that. But if you feel validated and you want to post on social media go for it
L: Like I've posted pictures with my titties out before you know what I mean?
J: WOOOOOO
L: So... *Laughs*
J: But I mean, it's fun
L: Yeah, social media is fun and also it's
L: People take it way too seriously, it's not that big of a deal like
L: This gets me so worked up because let's use your example
L: Which you just explained it like for yourself
L: So I can't, I'm like gonna play devil's advocate
L: What if you wanted attention for that picture who cares like? Okay, she got it
L: Like it's okay, like people post like thirst traps on Instagram all the time
L: Like if you don't like it scroll past, you know what I mean like it doesn't matter
L: No one's intentions matter. Like you can be the worst and pose like some crazy
L: Photo because they want attention and like that's okay
L: Like some people want attention and that's okay
L: But like if it's don't make it something that it's not like don't make it a bigger deal
L: Instagram is literally an app where you can look at pictures, that's it
J: and I think the best part about this social media that brings haters
J: More up is the ---- L: Totally
J: Yeah, I mean if they didn't post that with a very ------- like title
J: No one would actually take it that way
L: And it's like it like makes other people think like oh
L: Maybe she is
J: Because of course you guys know me
J: You guys wouldn't know me that I would have post up with that figure but the pre like
J: The people who watches that like title, they don't know me in person
J: So they would have say that that oh she did that and then she they would just bash
J: I'm like, that's so stupid
J: Like come on like please
J: I remember I told you guys to go outside get air L: Get a life
L: Get a life J: Look at flowers go look at people running L: Go get a cat J: Yes
J: Meow meow. You know
L: You know what I mean
J: So um for all the people who is worried about me. I'm fucking good
L: Right and for all the people who post rude comments we will literally square up
J: And bash you in the head, like WAKE UP
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