I wanted to make a video regarding these situation um as of a couple weeks ago
some of you might be wondering why I took so long to make this response
that's mainly because I wanted a good but belated route response I've got a
list of things here that I want to talk about so I didn't I didn't want to rush
it basically I didn't want a terrible crying you know early apology
so after weeks slazo has finally come back and responded to the allegations
that his ex-girlfriend cheymade and I'm not sure if it really proved his
innocent but that's exactly what we're gonna discuss in this video what is up
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alright so anyways yeah slazo just released his video and i'm gonna discuss
it please stay tuned to this whole video we're going to be talking about a few
different angles of it there are some things that he cleared up there's some
questions that are still there right but just to give you a quick recap of what
happened so suazo is a youtuber right he's blown up pretty big in recent years
I think he had 800,000 or a little over 800,000 before these allegations came up
and he started losing massive amounts of subscribers but anyways he does a lot of
videos about like reddit posts and like DIY like life hacks and crafts and a lot
of those things that are popular right now on YouTube anyways he had an
ex-girlfriend named chey came out with a few twit longers about
you know their relationship and how there was abuse how he forced himself on
her and things like that okay and slow so has pretty much been silent ever
since I'm gonna link I think the links are still there I'm gonna link him down
in the description below for these twit longus so real quick real quick - I made
one or two videos on this which I have since then private it after watching
slazo's video just trying to be a responsible commentary channel and
things like that like as stories develop and we get new information I want to
update him and get rid of anything that might further hurt suazo especially
since he came out with some evidence that kind of clear his name but not
entirely alright because originally this looked really bad it looked really
really bad Shay had a bunch of receipts and they're all linked in her to it
longer just a bunch of receipts now what this looks like and this is just
something like I keep trying to tell all of you guys like everybody wants to be
famous everybody wants to be you know a youtuber or a twitch streamer or a
Hollywood star whatever it is like God like these were kids like just doing the
most Awkward cringy sexting that we all did me and you both did it - whoo right
and like now it's just there for everybody to publicly see and that's
gotta be so embarrassing right now so also did apologize for the things that
he said because a lot of us didn't say the things that he said but when when
looking at the conversations between the two of them and this is purely just my
opinion like it felt like they were trying to have some like Kiki awkward
teenager sexting right like oh yeah baby you like that you know just whatever
like now we all get to see it so when he showed like the full context of some of
those conversations I was like alright you know like I get what he meant right
so the only the only message that he didn't really explain but he showed was
this one right here and that one's just a little bit suspect
in my opinion but this is one of the reasons why I hope you know young people
no matter what age you are like you feel empowered to speak up when things happen
and talk to panelists talk to adults like because this happens this this is
something that happens where people are in a relationship
everything's consensual whatever it is but what this looks like from the
outside it looks like there was one occasion were these two had intercourse
where it didn't seem 100 percent six consensual right where they might have
done it a thousand times but if this one time when she said no like that is still
an issue so especially if you're a young person talk to somebody talk to your
parents talk to a teacher talk to a counselor whoever you feel comfortable
with maybe it's like an older sister or
whoever and say like is this okay like we you know because I get that it could
be confusing like when it comes to that aspect like you've done it a bunch of
times together but then there was this one time you didn't want to write so
salsa didn't really explain that like maybe there is a better explanation and
he just didn't think it was that big of a deal I don't know all right but I do
think based on a lot of the information that Schlosser showed a lot of the the
DMS on discord that as far as the text when they met up after the breakup and
you know there was there was the whole hotel room thing and something that he
brings up which which like I get why he did it but these stories get tricky and
the thing is like me you like we we are the court of public opinion we are not
the court of law right like I look at these like when it's such a serious
allegation I'm like what would a judge think what would a jury think about this
right when slazo was bringing up how she live
like this is just this is something that a lot of people do to make somebody look
worse right I guess the thing I'm most confused about in this whole thing is
why why would she lie why would she thought why would she say that she'd
never been in a relationship before never kissed before intended to wait
until 16 and to twist the truth of what happened
in person and make it and make out like she never wanted to do anything and this
wasn't a two-way thing especially at the beginning but from slaw Joe's
perspective like being accused of something so horrible like of course
he's gonna point out like the inconsistencies like saying like you
know she wanted to wait until she was 16 as she was saying that she never had any
exes before like he was pointing out that she lied about those things right
and again when you have serious accusations like that I guess you like
you have to show those things right but I do want to let you know to like
because we've seen public cases in the past where things come up right and and
somebody tries to paint that person as a liar like oh well they lied about this
so they must be lying about everything and just for all of us I think it's
important that we understand why just because someone lies about something
doesn't mean that they lie about everything all right but anyways the
last thing I want to talk about is this this part was not addressed in slaw
Joe's video but there's a part where shade talks about how this was
emotionally damaging her so much that she tried to take her own life and she
ended up going to a mental hospital and they prescribed her antidepressants and
she talked about how small so wanted her to get off of them so something uh you
know something that I just didn't want I just want to touch on real quick is that
it's common it's common for someone's partner to try to get them to get off of
mental health medications because it decreases their libido and by the way
like never let that happen never let your partner talked you out of
taking your mental health medications like and unless your partner is your
doctor which they should it be because that's not ethical like don't let them
ever convince you not to take your mental health medications but slow so
did not address that part of the relationship and as somebody who makes a
lot of videos focusing on mental health like for me that's an issue like I wish
that was discussed you know what I mean but at the end of the day at the end of
the day like this is just this is messy like is this
of you know a vindictive ex-girlfriend is it the story of somebody who was
concerned for other young women like what is it I was just talking to another
creative friend before I sat down to record this video we were talking like
what was her motive right like what was it right and even if her intentions were
good they might have been they I think it's
safe to say that they were really irresponsible because she did blatantly
leave things out so I have my own opinions and theories on that of why she
she did it and framed everything the way she did but I'm not gonna say in this
video I might make a better video on that at another time but anyways if if
you have any thoughts or opinions on this let me know down in the description
or in the comments below because this is tricky this is really tricky because
I'll tell you this as a guy like since I was young I was always afraid of being
accused of something horrendous like this like for most of my life like even
in my drinking and drug using and party days like I had a rule that I would not
hook up with a drunk girl alright just because like I have always been deathly
afraid of these types of accusations right like consent is of the utmost
importance of like this is something that we need to discuss so I'm glad that
slaw so came out and like explained his side of things like I feel that he is
not the monster that he was painted out to be I think that he was young horny
Quinn G stupid right all these things that he apologized for but you know like
I used to be a teenager I know a bunch of teenagers when I was in high school
and things like that so I look at it I'm like okay yeah I couldn't kind of see
that but in my opinion aside from that one message that that I mentioned
earlier I don't think I don't think that you know he did everything he kind of
explained the rest of it away anyways that's all I got for this video if you
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