Do you even understand how kids are made? Hi everyone is Hannah and welcome to Chore With me the
channel where we declutter our homes and hearts now usually I'm doing a home
declutter and that means I'm cleaning something so if you'd like to see one of
those videos click right up there but today I'm actually gonna be doing
something a little bit different I'm gonna be doing the heart declutter and
that just means I'm gonna talk about something that I've been thinking about
so my husband and I have been married for 10 years and we do not have kids and
I find this as something people get very curious about they have a lot of
questions and comments about the fact that we don't have kids so in this
video I'm going to talk about the top 10 comments or questions that we get with
regards to why we don't have kids. Maybe this is something that you've been
curious about and that you wanted to ask someone that doesn't have kids so I'm
gonna do my best to answer some of those questions if you enjoyed this video
please give it a thumbs up then consider subscribing to my channel these are all
things that adults have said to me keep that in mind when you hear number 5 so
in no particular order here we go number 1 you are selfish now I think we all
have our moments of being selfish like when I sneak the last piece of
pumpkin pie under the fridge before my husband can get to it or when he
pretends he's still asleep on a Sunday morning so I have to go feed the cats
because they won't stop crying I don't really consider the act of not having
kids as being selfish there are times in life or seasons in life when people just
don't feel it's the right time to have kids or maybe they just don't want kids
if people choose not to have kids there's usually some very specific
circumstances as to why they're not having kids and they're not always
comfortable in just letting people know they're also seems to be a stigma about
not having kids because it's the thing that you do you find someone to spend
the rest of your life like and you have kids it's just normal to do that
so when people choose to go a different direction that's a little bit hard
sometimes to understand I don't think having kids because everyone else is
doing it is a reason to have kids but that's just my opinion the second thing
people say to me when they find out I don't have kids is you will never
understand unconditional love and it's true to some point because I will never
understand unconditional love between a parent and
a child but I do have people in my life that I love unconditionally maybe it's
just a different type of unconditional love and I'm okay
with that number three and this is probably one that I hear the most people
say to me who is going to take care of you when you're old and here's my answer
the same person that takes care of me now me no I'm kind of just kidding
because I know people need who's going to take care of you when you're too old
to climb the stairs or when you leave a stove on after cooking or when you just
don't want to cook anymore there are definitely families out there
that can take care of their loved ones but I know a lot of senior citizens who
don't live anywhere near their children and so they're left on their own and
when senior citizens don't have anyone around to help take care of them they
usually have to depend on the community their friends or places like assisted
living facilities now recently I visited an assisted living facility that's
actually really hard to say anyway I visited one and you know what I know
they're not all made equally but they're not terrible they had a baby grand piano
four-course meals a bus that took you shopping you live with all your friends
I mean it's not all bad and if one day I find myself in a facility like that and
I don't enjoy it it's my fault because I didn't have kids right I think we're on
number 4 now so that brings us to aren't you lonely no I'm an introvert I enjoy a
long time very much I love spending time with friends and family too but I find
life is really busy so my alone time I really cherish it
number 5 do you even understand how kids are made?? number six
you must get so much sleep yeah that's probably true
I probably get a lot more sleep than average parent sorry number seven you
are missing out on a lot of fun I feel like I have so much fun in my life it's
been such an adventure and I don't really have anything to compare it to
because I've never had kids so maybe I'm missing out and I don't
even know it that brings us to number eight people quote Psalms 127
specifically verses three to five to us if you're curious about what that says
you'll just have to go look it up number nine you are so lucky you don't
have kids sometimes I just want peace and quiet to which I answer yeah I get a
lot of peace and quiet a number ten this is probably the second most common
question that we get as to why we don't have kids people say why why don't you
have kids and that would make an excellent next video if you're
interested to know why we don't have kids
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