I've noticed that a lot of guys can get frustrated when it comes to meeting women and dating.
They give up a lot of times and I get it.
Dating is hard.
Socializing is tough and takes a lot to step outside of your comfort zone.
The problem is that men let their emotions and feelings get the best of them.
It's hard to go through the process of dealing with your feelings.
I totally understand that.
But if you know how to do it, you can literally conquer anything.
I always say that when you can stop getting in the way of “YOU,” the world is your
oyster.
The first one that guys tell me about their frustrations with rejection.
All I have to say is that you can't succeed in anything without rejection.
It's part of the game.
No matter who you are, or what you do, you'll never get 100% of the girls that you meet.
It's not possible.
The trick is to know this.
You have to understand that rejection will occur.
It's how you deal with it that makes all the difference.
Don't be afraid of it, embrace it, laugh at it, make a joke of it.
It's one thing if a girl breaks up with you, but if she rejects you after knowing you for
five minutes, then it's meaningless.
A lot of guys also get frustrated by being a virgin, or from going on a dry streak, and
not having sex.
This hits a little deeper than rejection.
It feels lonely when you're not getting physical with a woman.
Trust me, I get it.
The only way to get over this though is to focus on the goal at hand.
If your goal is purely sex, it's going to be harder to get that.
If you're just focusing on sex, it's the wrong thing.
Women can smell this type of desperation a mile away.
Instead you have to focus on giving value to the women that you interact with.
Don't be in it just for you, but see how you can make the interaction fun and interesting
for her.
It's like if a salesman goes to your door and is asking for money instead of telling
you about the product, or what it can do for you, you think that guy is going to make sales?
Not a chance.
There's flaking when a woman agrees to meet a guy out on a date, then she cancels last
minute.
It's hard to respect someone after flaking, especially if they do it on a second chance.
What can you do if a woman flakes?
You don't even get angry.
You want to politely tell her that it's not cool.
You can give her one more shot if you feel like it, but you don't have to.
If she's not a girl that you're interested in, then forget about it.
You'll know if a girl is truly sorry or likes you if she offers up another time to go out.
If she doesn't offer up another time after she flakes, she's not worth your time.
A lot of guys also asked me, this is the biggest question, what to do when they're lost and
not sure what to say to a girl?
They get so frustrated with talking to girls.
The problem here is that most men overthink it, sometimes just walking up to a girl and
saying hi with a smile is the best thing that you can do.
She wants to meet you.
It's not about what you say to a girl, rather, how you say it.
You can say the same sentence in about three different ways, which will mean three completely
different things.
Come in with a confident tone and be relaxed.
That's the key to talking to girls.
Treat her as if you're talking to one of your closest friends.
Finally, I hear this one a lot.
Nothing is working and I feel like giving up.
That's really sad when I hear that because there's some people out there that give up
way too fast.
I almost gave up on learning how to get better with girls too, plenty of times, but I never
did.
I knew that this was going to be a challenge.
I knew it was going to be hard.
I stuck with it.
The trick is this.
If you feel like nothing is working, then you have to change something, even if it's
really small.
If you start to tweak the way that you meet women, you can have a greater opportunity
of seeing results.
Start with something small.
Like I said, it could be the way you approach.
It could be what you say to her.
You can change up style.
You got to tweak and tweak until you start to see better results.