- I have a question, though. - OK.
Like, if y'all do decide to take it further,
and y'all get real close, what about the in-home?
I've been feeling like his kids and him need someone planted,
not you living over here, and I'm living over here.
So yeah, I'm not opposed to that.
We talk about this. - That's a good question.
- You know what I mean? - Yeah.
Yeah.
Like he needs someone planted.
So I'm not opposed to that.
Not ASAP, but, you know, eventually.
- We talked about this. - OK.
He actually had to meet my ex, and this
was a question that came up.
Yeah.
He met her ex?
Yeah.
His name's David, too.
Oh, wow, I got to hear that, but go ahead.
Yeah. Yeah.
So we talked about--
So if y'all was to-- how did y'all--
I was like, look, I'm ready for that.
OK. See?
That's what my uncle needs.
Joe was like, we could take that-- look, listen, Linda.
[LAUGHTER]
I'm moving in tomorrow.
I'm ready.
I got my own home now, but I ain't opposed to--
Trust me, I know.
They living over here, you living over here.
I see you when I see you. - Listen, baby.
Yeah, that's it.
OK.
So have you been honest enough with Joe to like--
because I know sometimes he could be a little corny.
I was just--
He got so much going for him, but you got to take that
and say, hey, he is who he is.
He likes fishing. He's not your average--
I think that's what I like. It's different.
Yeah.
Like, major-- like, that's a turn on.
But is there any turn--
not one turn off?
[INTERPOSING VOICES]
Well, the only-- like, his communication.
We did have miscommunication. - OK.
Oh, man.
Joel is not like-- so I'm a phone person.
My phone be-- - Mhm.
If I tell you I missed a call or a text--
if I ain't just busy to where I can't get to my phone,
I literally just ignored you,
Right.
I would text Joel, and for hours--
I would text message and look like I'm talking
to myself sometimes, because he won't respond,
but he will call.
It don't mean no harm, you dig?
He would just call.
His texting-- it ain't really there.
- My text game ain't there. - Yeah, it's not.
At all.
But his communication-- we done had
our pow wows, baby, already.
And I'll be like, look, you got to communicate
a little better than that.
I don't read-- I can't read your mind just because--
like, if plans don't go through how they supposed to,
you need to communicate that with me.
Don't expect me to know that.
Right.
You know, because on my end, if it ain't what it is, I'm
a communicate that with you.
Uncle, how you feel about that?
How I feel about it?
Well, when I came into this process,
I knew I going to be working on some stuff
that I needed to work on. - OK.
And one was communication.
I think she's right, what she said.
But also, if we agree on something,
we need to stand on that too.
That's where I'm at with that. - OK.
Because that's also a part of communication.
Us not knowing each other that well, I think that's something
that could be honed if we get serious further down the line,
because when we had our snag, it was all entirely
related to communication. - OK.
But you got to look at it all the way through too, though.
You see what I'm saying?
So we got over it.
We might revisit it one day some other day.
I'm probably due [INAUDIBLE] because you
definitely got communication--
I ain't big on texting, you know that.
I will FaceTime you to death. - Yeah.
Yeah. - But texting, man.
But how you know how that girl look?
She might not want even want to look at the moment.
I will call you 6:00 in the morning, look,
pop and your ma and everything.
Look, answer the phone.
I be like, Joel-- it's like, he can see me at my worst.
I be like on FaceTime-- well, you got to like me,
child, cause--
OK.
Soon as you--
[INTERPOSING VOICES]
She be answering, you dig?
My concern is making sure you have his best interests.
Of course.
And being that he went through what he went through,
it's gonna be times that I have seen my brother like, far off.
Yeah.
And give him a chance to grieve his ex-wife and know
what happened without it being a jealousy, any kind of problem,
you know what I mean?
And that's what I was looking for immediately
when I'm-- you know, hey, let me see what she's talking about.
Let me see what's going on.
No. I get it.
I get it.
I can usually read people pretty quick.
Yeah.
You know, and I'm a little hard on people too, so--
Very.
Hey, nothing wrong with it.
Yeah.