Hello my wonderful friend! Let's talk about signs you are attractive and a high value
man. This is how to attract women fast. Do you want a happy lifelong relationship? Do you want
that special someone who gives you butterflies and who's your biggest cheerleader and who you know
you can always count on? It's frustrating when you can't find that kind of person, right? I'm going
to let you in on a huge secret right here right now. The key to attracting a high quality woman is
to be a high quality man. So let's talk about what that means and the signs that you are attractive
and a high quality man. The last sign may really surprise you so make sure you watch to the end.
Before we dive in make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a
dating coach for Christian men. This is the number one place to learn how to find, attract, and keep
the girl of your dreams without mind games or tricks. So make sure you hit subscribe. Now maybe
you already know a high quality woman that you are hoping to attract. Or maybe you are trying to meet
high quality women. If you're struggling with that make sure you watch this video. I will put a link
in the description below. Either way, whether you already know someone or you're hoping to
meet someone remember that the key to attracting a high value, high quality woman is to be a high
value man. As we go through these signs that you are attractive and that you are a high value man
you are going to find some things that you're doing right. I want you to celebrate that. I want
you to pat yourself on the back. You're also going to probably find some things that you're like, "Aw
man, maybe I could improve in that area." That is fabulous. You now understand
something you can work on to make attracting classy women very very fast and very very easy.
So allow yourself to also celebrate the things you find that maybe you can improve on. With that,
let's get to our first sign you are attractive and are a high value man. That sign is that you make
self-care a priority. Self-care is something that a lot of women are encouraged to do,
and they should be, obviously. That's a good thing. But what so many men don't realize is
self-care is something you should be doing as well. A high-value man knows his own worth and he
owns that. And that confidence, that self-respect, shows through to other people and it's incredibly
attractive to women. Like incredibly attractive. It shows her that you are a confident man,
it shows her that you are a respectful man, and it shows her that you will also support her in her
self-care efforts. It also shows her that you will be a good partner because you have your priorities
right. Something I teach my clients in my program How To Get A Girlfriend is that if you don't treat
yourself like you matter you won't feel like you matter. And you deserve to feel like you matter.
One of the ways you do this is through self-care. So what does self-care look like? What does that
even mean? Honestly it means several things. It means you make sure you educate yourself on
how to use style to make yourself look even more attractive and even more confident. It also means
that you make sure you're well groomed, your hair looks nice and masculine and modern, your facial
hair is trimmed and very very nice looking. It means that you set appropriate boundaries.
Appropriate boundaries is one of the most attractive things to a woman ever. If you haven't
seen this video yet make sure you watch that one as well. Self-care also means that you learn how
to increase your confidence and you apply those habits so that you are a confident person. That's
one of the best ways to take care of yourself, is to increase your feelings of self-worth and
confidence. Now it also means just taking time for you. When was the last time you did something for
you just because you deserved it? For some people this means getting massage a couple times a month.
For some people it means taking time to play your favorite video game. It could be
watching a funny video or reading a fun book or it could mean going on vacation. Whatever it is
make sure that you are taking time for you. By now you see that self-care covers a lot of different
areas that really just mean taking care of who you are. Now I teach about each of these things
in depth in my program How To Get A Girlfriend. When you are ready to just fast track it
and know how to attract that classy, high quality woman quickly my program is the place for you
to go. To learn more about that watch my free master class at coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
I will put a link to that in the description below and a link in the pinned comment.
My program is for men who just want to fast track it, you just want the answers up front so you can
get the love of your life. So make sure you watch that free masterclass and learn more now. Okay,
our next sign that you are attractive and a high value man is that you make healthy
habits a priority. Taking care of your body and your health shows you are a high value man
because you respect yourself. And as we just talked about respecting yourself
is huge. Taking care of your health also shows that you will be a good partner because
you want to be around for your wife and children and you want to make sure you always look nice
for her. And classy women are trying to do the same things themselves and so they respect that
in you. I honestly can't stress this enough. Some of the main signs of a high-value man is
self-respect and confidence. And what that does is it makes her feel more safe when she's around you
and she feels more attracted to you. The culture we live in tends to emphasize fads and trends.
And the truth is if we're being perfectly honest there are a lot of people making a lot of money
off of these trends. When in reality usually what's most healthy, obviously consult your
doctor, but for the most part what's most healthy is just balance. A balanced amount of exercise,
eating a balanced diet, making sure you balance your stress and how you handle
stress. At the end of the day don't stress out about living a healthy lifestyle. Focus more
on balance. That's how you stay consistent and how you can achieve good health. Okay, our next
sign that you are an attractive person and a high value man is that you are a positive thinker. Want
to know what shows you are high quality? Want to be absolutely irresistible to your dream girl? Be
a positive thinker. Something I teach my clients when I'm teaching this in my program is that happy
people are irresistible, like irresistible. And here are a few reasons why. Happy people,
positive people, are fun to be around. They aren't super stressed out and so we feel more relaxed
when we are around them. And if she feels more relaxed when she's around you she is certainly
attracted to you. Positive people also give energy instead of draining energy. Have you ever been
around a really negative person? It's exhausting, right? But instead, when you're around somebody
who's very encouraging and building and positive you get that boost and you just feel amazing
when you're around them, right? Also if you are a positive thinker you help her dream,
you help her believe in herself, you help her believe in the impossible.
And those are the kinds of people we want to spend our life with. Those are the kinds of people
we want to build a life with. Now when it comes to positive thinking I want you to remember two
things. First, positive thinking does not mean that you don't acknowledge negative things, okay?
It's not like you go through the world with rose-colored glasses on and, "Nope,
nope. No bad happens." That's not what a positive person does at all. A positive person sees reality
and chooses to instead focus on the positive. It's like I tell my clients. Positive thinking is just
faith in action. That's all it is. If you're focusing on faith, if you're focusing on how it's
going to be okay, that's how you become a positive thinker. Second thing I want you to remember about
being a positive thinker is that it does not mean that you talk super super negative and then throw
in something positive at the end. A lot of people think they're positive thinkers when in reality
they're super negative. So they tell you about all these super negative things that happen and going
on in the world and all these things happen, but it's all gonna be okay. And that's how they end it
so they're a positive thinker. That's not positive thinking. Yes, positive thinkers will occasionally
need to have a conversation like that, but make sure you're actually thinking positive instead of
pretending to be positive at the end. Remember, positive thinking is faith in action. It means
you look for and focus on the good. Quick question before we get to our next sign you're attractive.
Are you enjoying this video? Would you like more videos on signs you're attractive and how to be
a high value man? If you would, please let me know in the comments by commenting "signs you're
attractive." Thank you for your comments they help me so so much. So again, if you want more videos
like this one, comment "signs you're attractive" to let me know. Okay, our next sign is that you
learn and apply good social skills and manners. A little bit of real talk, guys. Something as small
as understanding how to talk to her, understanding how to make her feel comfortable when she's around
you, opening the door, these little little tiny manners and social skills quite literally have
the power to make her fall in love with you. This is why I love teaching these skills to
my clients. They are so powerful. Now on the flip side, guys, if you don't have those skills you're
not going to turn her head. Or even if you do turn her head you're going to lose her attention
very quickly. Because those things are some of the most important traits a woman looks for in a man.
A high value man has learned and understands how to act socially, including with women. This is one
of the things that makes him so attractive and why he can attract women fast. Now as you learned in
this video it is very very possible and happens all the time where someone will be incredibly
competent in every other social setting, and be painfully awkward with women. As a matter of fact,
don't overlook this because this is one of the main problems I see when men come to me for help.
Far too many assume it's not their problem when it really is. So make sure you watch this video.
I will put a link in the description below. Okay, our next sign you are attractive and a high value
man is that you are a good man. Do you want to know what screams low value? A man who only thinks
about himself. A man who needs to be dominant instead of respectful. And a man who only cares
about what she can give him,, or what she can give him for one night even. Do you want to know what
shows high quality? A man who is respectful and a man who is caring. A man who looks out for others
and helps others even if it's just in small ways. That is a real leader. A high value man is a man
who keeps himself morally clean and who the only woman he wants to be with is his wife. That is
a good man. That is an attractive man. That is a high value man. I teach my clients that good women
want good men. There are so many voices out there telling you that girls like the bad boy. The truth
is you could be a bad boy, or you could be a real man. Real men have morals. When you are ready to
sidestep the lies and just know exactly step by step how to get the high value high quality woman
you are wanting my program is where you need to go. To learn more about that watch my free
masterclass at coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I'll put a link in the description below
and a link in the pinned comment. Now by now, at this point in the video, you may be thinking one
of two things.Either one, "Wow, I don't know how to do any of that. I'm feeling a little
overwhelmed." Is that maybe you? Or two, you're thinking, "II already do those things, Melannie.
Then why don't I have my dream girl?" And the truth is you are missing something in one of
these areas. You are missing something that can't be taught in a YouTube video. In my program How To
Get A Girlfriend I walk you through all of this so it's not overwhelming, it's not confusing,
and so that you don't miss any of the pieces. So you can have the big picture and finally
just have the success you want and the success you deserve and finally hold that adorable dream girl.
To learn more about that make sure you watch that free masterclass at coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
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and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] I have this fear of filming an entire episode
and realizing I didn't hit record. [laughter] For some people it means taking time to play
your favorite video game. For other people it means... Um... Something else. [laughter] I
had three things pop in my head at the same time and I couldn't decide which one to use.