- Five feminine characteristics that are very attractive
to a quality man.
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So, without further ado,
let's start with with tip number one.
And I'm starting with kind of the most obvious one,
which is look after yourself.
And you don't need to look like your best every single day
as that's probably humanly impossible,
but looking after yourself in a form of staying healthy,
staying fit, looking presentable will definitely be helpful
in a relationship with a guy.
Your body is your temple.
So, look after it.
So many women want a fit guy and they aren't fit themselves.
And I'm not saying that you cannot have that,
but most likely, you will encounter issues later on.
For example, when he needs to eat healthy
and is consistently hitting the gym,
while you stay home sitting on a couch,
eating crisps and watching Netflix.
You see the point?
Maybe in the beginning you can make a joke of that,
but long-term, he will just not find that attractive
and will start losing even respect for you.
Number two, have a gentle and kind voice.
Ladies, this is so feminine.
I always see men changing their whole demeanor
as soon as you relax and talk in a gentle,
calm and peaceful way.
It's like, automatically the guy goes into this protector,
charmer, looking after you mode.
It's really, really sexy.
And I think you just kind of end up fitting
really nicely together.
Number three, which is taking me to the next point,
is your body language can be 65 to 97% more important
than the information you are saying.
Meaning that it is all about your presence
and how you deliver the information
that comes from your lips.
If you are delivering in a relaxed,
chilled, smiley, not like...
But smiling with your eyes kind of way,
he will feel calm in your presence
and will feel more confident to approach you.
On top of that, if you will think before you speak
and will deliver the message wisely and calmly,
not only he will pay attention to what you say
but also will mostly do as you wish.
Which takes me to the next point, number four, self-respect.
If you start to feel
that because of your soft and gentle nature,
he is looking for ways to use you,
well, that's when the boundary sets in.
In order for it to be effective,
it doesn't need to be brutal.
It can be solved and said in a gentle tone,
which can even be more effective and more powerful
as it shows complete emotional control.
And then, it needs to be followed by the action.
Boundaries only work when they are followed by the action.
In some cases, you don't even need to word it.
You just set a boundary with your action.
Now, how is this attractive?
Well, it is attractive to a quality man
who is looking for a relationship or marriage
as it shows wisdom and that you respect yourself.
Therefore, other people, including him,
won't be able to look at you as silly.
Number five, wisdom.
A wise woman is very, very, very attractive
to a quality man that is looking for something more serious
than just physical stuff.
And I talk a lot about it actually
in my high value women course,
which you can get on my website.
I'll drop a link in my video description box below.
As the physical stuff doesn't last forever
and you need a person to enjoy spending time with,
to have interesting conversations with.
And this is where things in common
or perhaps the interest in new things come in.
The bottom line is wisdom.
And a wise woman is very attractive to a man,
especially if he is thinking of having a family someday.
I am sure that he would be looking for a woman
who is responsible, has self-respect, is kind and gentle,
and also knows how to raise his children.
All of this, ladies, require wisdom.
I definitely do not mean
that you have to show off now how smart you are,
or have debates with him to show off that you know better.
That's not wise, that's idiotic.
And as they say, only fool show that we know everything.
Do you see my point?
Therefore, be feminine and wise,
and this will not only be attractive to a quality man.
This way, you will also be able
to keep the clowns with their crowns away from you.
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