Four reasons why you must never go back to an ex! In this video discover the four
reasons why you must never take an ex back of any kind! Welcome to The SCG Show! This video
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I'm about to reveal three different emails from three different subscribers, who all went back to
an ex of theirs after a breakup. Here's what they had to say = "I stupidly took back my ex after they
cheated on me! I'm such an idiot. They'd convinced me they'd change and it would be different this
time around. Nothing improved or changed at all, in fact they ended up cheating more and more
Why on Earth did I go back?" "My ex was so rude and entitled I had to walk away from them
But they decided to beg for me back and try and convince me how much they had changed and how
they were going to treat me much better. How dumb was I! Progressively and eventually they got even
more entitled and even ruder and I wasted my life taking back somebody who was just not right for me!"
"I have genuinely lost count how many times me and my ex have broken up and gotten back together.
It's mainly myself who walks away initially and then I take them back,
and the cycle of abuse and problems rear their ugly heads. What the hell is going on?
Why do I act so stupidly in thinking they have changed and take them back?"
I have first-hand experience in going back to an EX and my story is very similar to subscriber
number two situation. I was dating a narcissistic woman for years, initially I walked away, I assumed
I was the problem and that things were nowhere near as bad as I first assumed. I stupidly took her
back after she hoovered me back in and then went on to waste more years of my precious life in a
miserable and toxic relationship and it scarred me for life. That's why I encourage viewers if
they have broken up for whatever reason possible to never go back or take back an ex of any kind
Here are four important reasons why that's the case! Guys please share your thoughts!
Feel free to share your experiences and opinions in the comments section below!
If your relationship ended before due to unresolved issues and conflicts it's likely those
problems will resurface if you get back together again... leading to more heartache and disappointment
You'll never be good enough for the wrong person! Chances are your ex for whatever reason is and
was the wrong person for you ...that's how I felt in regard to my ex. I never truly warmed to her,
I always clash with her, argued, I always disagreed, she adopted an entitled, rude, spoiled, toxic mindset
about all things in life... that went pretty much against everything that I believed in
After being pushed too far I walked away... had enough, I wanted to be free of the toxic
relationship once for all... but what was going to be resolved in the months we were apart?
Nothing, What was going to be improved? Nothing. What was going to change for the better?
Nothing. When she contacted me, she told me everything I wanted to hear, about how she
understood or what went wrong and how she was going to make drastic big changes for the better.
Like an idiot I took her back, like a fool I gave her a chance, like a moron I slept walked back into
that relationship... guess what happened? Nothing changed..... nothing improved... in no little time we
still had the same old arguments, we still had the same old disagreements, we still had the same old
glaring problems that we were just not right for each other, due to unresolved issues. She'd
do something wrong, not take responsibility for it, not understand it, blame it on me and so on and so
forth. Therefore the problems would snowball out of control and things will just get worse over time
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Sometimes breaking up with someone allows you to grow and develop as a person, but going back to an
EX might hinder your personal growth and prevent you from discovering new opportunities. Sam used
to date a woman who was a party animal, she loved going out a lot, loved to drink a lot, always had to
do something and could never just take it easy. Sam had a problem with alcohol, he'd drink too much and
too often, which would cause an adverse effect on his work and lifestyle and eventually his health
"Stay off the booze Sam" his doctor warned him but his girlfriend said "Ignore the doctor let's keep
drinking" Sam was not his best self when he dated this woman, he procrastinated with work, was more
irritable and angry destructive with his choices, impulsive in a bad way and mentally unstable
Sam walked away from his party animal girlfriend to pursue a life of sobriety
and better health choices and it worked for him! He had far more energy, was in a much
better place mentally, he'd progressed further in his career very quickly...
However on one fateful night out where he bumped into his ex at a party... he eventually slipped back
into his old habits, he drank a beer that night, which turned into several beers... he got very very
drunk very quickly and he decided to take his ex home... and then in no time they were seeing each
other again, undoing all his personal growth and transformation, he'd done up to that very point.
That is truthfully how dangerous and unproductive it can and will be going back to the EX... this
guy became sober and clean and healthy and happy and then all it took was one beer, one night of
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If you and your ex had a pattern of breaking up and getting back together, it's possible
that this cycle is going to continue, causing emotional turmoil and instability in your life.
Susie and Brian were like this... repeating their patterns constantly. Susie would storm
off say "That's it I'm leaving you" a week later they're back together
Brian would get upset and say the same thing... a week later they're back together
They foolishly got engaged and spent a year breaking up and getting back together
Then as their wedding day approached, nobody thought they'd get through the day, because they
were fighting like cat and dog... but they actually did so and then they kept separating, getting
back together, it was draining for the family and friends around and nobody believed they were going
to go through with actually permanently splitting... but then they got a divorce! However, then they
started living together again and dating again and the cycle continued... the patterns continued
If you and your ex had a pattern as unhealthy and toxic and crazy as Susan and Brian, well I can
assure you that is what is going to happen if you take them back and go back... it's the same old thing,
the same old song and dance, the same old routine. I'm telling you firsthand... it's not worth it
Sometimes you're just not meant to be with someone else, especially an ex... it just didn't
work out and no amount of work, sacrifice, change or even prayer will ever fix that...
especially if the other person cannot and will not take personal responsibility for their
actions and behaviors, and have no self-awareness whatsoever. The patterns will repeat if you go back
make no mistake about that.. it will be like groundhog day... it will carry on and on forever
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is in the description down below! If you decide to go back to an EX and it doesn't work out, you
may regret not using that time instead to heal and actually move on with your life.
Take me for example... initially I was out and completely free from walking away of a toxic
relationship. I could have moved on, could have changed my life, I could have been really happy...
Instead I went back and wasted more time energy money and life with ultimately a very toxic person!
I regret going back to my ex. Anna took back her cheating and lying boyfriend
because she's a very forgiving good nice person... she assumed "he'd change" and treat her better
Instead actually in the end he denied cheating and proceeded to waste even
more time... a total of 10 years going nowhere as a couple. She regrets going back to her ex
I've personally never in my life heard the happily ever after of the person who went
back to the wrong person, an ex of any kind and actually managed to change them, change
their circumstances and change their happiness and future for the better.... it's never happened!