Привіт! Greetings from Kyiv the capital of Ukraine I'm here on Khreshchatyk which is a main
thoroughfare through the city center and normally all around here would be thronged with people but
today is around day 150 of Russia's invasion of Ukraine and there are less people and almost no
international tourists here in Ukraine and there are almost no guys doing something that is called
day game and that would basically involve them pursuing the lovely ladies of Kyiv as they walk
along here along this street also on this more pedestrian part to my right and they would in effect
pester them to be blunt about it so that is something that we are spared in the summer of
2022 in spite of the horrific consequences of this war for Ukraine so if you are a guy who is doing
day game or street pickup in the summer of 2022 as a way to meet women you are a bit of a loser
and in this video I'm going to explain why and what you can do instead to meet women
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- If there's a king of instagram I think that anyone who's ever been on the site long enough will be
able to tell you it's Dan Bilzerian from being the inspiration for literally half of all the
guys on the internet to being the person with the highest hot women to guy ratio on the site
it seems as though everyone's a little intimidated by the guy - So as you're watching this video I want
you to think about whether Dan Bilzerian would walk around the streets of Kyiv or
LA or anywhere else looking to meet women now I know Dan Bilzerian is going to get a big reaction
not everybody loves him but he does illustrate a point with his very high level social circle
he's out networking with other high-level guys also surrounded by very beautiful women and all
that is going on his instagram which is a great way to procure new contacts so love it or hate
it social media has become a massive phenomenon in the last 10 years and that includes how you just
demonstrate value whether you're a guy or a girl and in fact it has also become really important
in terms of dating now I'm not saying that possibly Dan Bilzerian when he was dramatically
lower value in the past than he is today that he might not walked around some city aiming to meet
girls and stopping him doing day game but really do you think that's what he focuses on when he has
his social circle and his social media cued in I doubt it as well
We're actually in a shopping
mall right now so there should be a lot of opportunities to meet girls and I'm super pumped
to see how we get on James - Yeah you seem excited about anything else let's see how we get on
- The girl with the laptop can you see here - Okay let's go!
Now if you're not new to my channel you might know that about three years ago I shot a video
on day game in Saint Petersburg in Russia with James Tusk and we went around and basically I did
five approaches in English and five approaches in Russian and actually I was pretty positive
about the experience because I don't you know an hour of my time I made one good contact and
yeah I thought that's probably not a bad way to go if you arrive in a new city and you want
a few extra options it's one hour investment of your time but a very strange thing happened
after I did the video and I'll link it up above in the card down below in description
a month went by three months went by six months went by and I never did day game again
So why was that if it wasn't such a negative experience in doing it? Well I just didn't need to
do it I realized I was never in a situation where I didn't have other options and there's a myriad
of different options that you can use I mean some of them are of course night game they're going
out clubbing bar and socializing hang out in the right social circle for example of course we got
all the dating apps and you know I can strike up a conversation in the cafe and when I say day
game I mean purposely going out for hours on end and stopping girls using all these canned lines
in order to strike up conversations and develop some sort of rapport now I'm not saying you should
never ever talk to anyone in public that's not what I'm referring to I mean as an actual strategy
investment of your time and the reality is that it's not a very high value behavior
if that's what you end up doing for several hours of the day and before I
circle back into what you can do as an alternative give you an overview of those let me say just one
thing in favor of day game I remember when I was back in Ireland my home country there was
an item on the local radio it was this guy was helping people overcome their shyness and what
he did is he was working with both men and women he got them to go up and say hi to 10 strangers
and what happened is that after they had done it a good few times they got over their shyness
they realized no one's gonna bite them most people actually just smile and are polite so there's no
need to be scared and I think for a lot of people who need or invest in day game it's actually
because yeah they lack those kind of basic confidence level skills but the idea of going out
for six hours and walk around the shopping mall stopping girl after girl hundreds of girls
in order to get a phone number and the reason I'm using air quotes is a lot of the time girls are
gonna give them a phone number it's not real or their instagram to get an extra plus one
followers but they're not actually interested they're trying to get rid of the guys a lot
of the time I think they are being polite about it but anyways the rate of success especially
in terms of the quality of women that you're going to meet doing that is extremely low and the final
proof of that is a lot of these guys who've been selling the idea of
day game or street pickup you know I started over 10 years ago
when you look at who they settled down with and married very few of them were what we would
describe as highly desirable women and if you're doing this as a profession and you're not dating
basically very top drawer women at the end of the day then you got a question whether these are high
value men using high value tactics - Let's post up a picture of my girl with these other girls
which one stands out as not being like the others it's like fucking Sesame Street for five-year-olds
okay if you if you still are in doubt which I'm sure a lot of you are and you think that
these other busted trash girls have perfect 10 personalities and you need to check yourself into
a psychologist - Let's get into what you can do as an alternative just run you through them briefly
and how not to be a loser this summer in 2022 in Europe
So many guys are traveling like now I'm in Kyiv in Ukraine not expecting too many guys
to be traveling here this summer with the war but most of them the first place they will start
is online dating they're going to dating app obviously the most famous is Tinder and they
will go on there and they will start swiping and see what leads they can get and that is pretty low
investment you just have to set up your profile and then swipe away you can obviously pay for the
premium services to improve your chances there now what's very interesting about Tinder is
men tend to according to the research swipe right and saying that they want to match we had about 60
percent of the profiles women on their hand are a lot more selective and they will swipe
left most of the time in fact they'll only swipe right affirmatively on you see lots of figures
like top 20% or even top four percent somewhere in between there probably is reality but as you
can see women are only going to swipe really on the top guys an aggregate that they perceive as
having the highest value so that sucks for the guys who are not in that top at least 20 percent
it could even be outside the top five percent and for those guys who are in that well they have
tons of options so one of the things you'll often hear from these people selling you the idea of
doing day game is oh online dating sucks dating apps suck it means that they are not in that top
whatever it is five to twenty percent profiles therefore they don't get those kind of matches
those are options from that particular approach now the solution to that is
even if you're not particularly photogenic just make sure that you're in that top five to 20%
of profiles that's what of course I help my clients with when they were coming here to Eastern
Europe in particular we would work on their both their tinder profiles and their tinder approach strategy
and as a corollary their instagram as instagram is another way to meet women that's a little
bit similar so we'll say it's a variation but definitely you need it in order to demonstrate
value so what most of these day gamers are saying when they talk about online dating sucking is the
fact that they suck on tinder or on instagram because they're not able to demonstrate value
and quite often because they don't start off with very much value in the first place I did say that
you could get overcome your shyness if you're a shy guy and learn to improve your communicative
skills very important and that will help you in all these situations where you actually
really meet people in general not just women so the other ways to kind of generate leads or improve
your chances of meeting women in particular higher value women is well you do what's the
old trusted and tested in my home country of Ireland which is going somewhere
at night and socializing actually my own parents met in a pub very typical Irish story
and you go out and you do what is called I guess let me run across the street here
night game or you just go out and socialize at night you don't have to drink alcohol and I never encourage
people to get absolutely wasted drunk never gonna be making the best decisions
if you're under the influence of a heavy amount of alcohol and there you know I
used to do that a lot with my clients on the tsar experience when they came here we just have
absolutely amazing weekend we'd go out and party and have a great time and of course meet loads of
beautiful women while we were doing that but the main focus there was actually in having a great
time and the women were more or less complementing that many of those day gamers they will refer
to gutter game yes really this is what they do they don't actually go to the club and socialize
take a table of the club be the center of the party and the energy and the positivity no
they hang around they loiter around creepily outside the club waiting for girls to leave
we're basically inebriated and then well to be quite frank try to take advantage of them
to a certain extent so that is how think about how low value that is as behavior you are not the guy
who's making the party who's as you should be you know the guy being the center of the energy
you're having a great time really enjoying yourself and then passing on that positivity
you're actually just kind of a creep hanging outside looking for kind of I guess wounded
animals or something yeah so basically it's night life that is the other way to meet people but you
know on the tsar experience we did that in the positive sense obviously going out partying and
yeah meeting tons and tons of beautiful women that way as well many of my clients even
got married to women that they met clubbing with me yes in spite of all those limiting beliefs
a lot of people have a right there are no good girls in clubs listen that just means you don't
meet good girls in clubs and that's something that you need to work on to correct because it's also a
skill set so next up very often when you're living your life right so I had a business and a lot of
my clients have businesses where basically they were able to be location independent they're doing
the work they have a laptop they can operate and control their business and their revenue streams
from everywhere in the world and while they are going about their daily business working with
a laptop picking strategic locations where there are more likely women that they're interested in
the cafe the gym the beach club yes also can work from beach clubs and just basically
integrating the ability to meet women higher value women while they're going around their day
so they're not actually spending six hours walking around a shopping mall just happen to
be in the right places at the right time and then you know you have to have the confidence
and the communicative skills to be able to introduce yourself to women and create the right
dynamics in order create some sort of rapport yeah that you can do without being a complete weirdo
and creep or a low value male walking around the shopping mall all day so that is another way
that you can do it I think that's a very strong alternative to the day game approach but yeah you
have to be a guy of high value and actually going around your business of focusing on developing
yourself let me finish up with what is after you know over 10 years hanging out in Eastern Europe
having clients that I coached in person who actually then moved to Eastern Europe
guys who are very high value billionaires guys who have dated top models here top models in the West
guys who are looking to just take shortcuts in terms of not having to spend so much time
in order to get to the results they wanted hence why they were hiring me to help them with that
not guys who are low value and wanting to figure out some I don't know it's a bit like a get rich
quick scheme right you just have to learn big game and woo top super models be falling over
here no they won't because none of the day game coaches have that reality in the first place
they meet women the best way to meet the highest level women is
drum roll through social circle yes social circle that's because guys like that learn to hang out
in high value circles and as a result the level of trust is very high in such a social circle
and women actually want to be part of that social circle as well and if you play a role
in that ia you provide value within that social circle that's what obviously I was helping guys
with a lot here in Kyiv for example or Odesa when they moved here over the last two or three years
they set up their social circle and that is actually the way that they meet the most beautiful
women the highest level women the top models and they're really I would say better educated more
interesting as well as beautiful women that is actually how you do it but that of course takes
a certain amount of application and the ability and determination to actually be high
value yourself that is the best way to communicate about high value is actually behind value and know
how to then communicate it so I would say that after all my years of coaching helping guys
seeing what works and hanging out in the right social circles myself I realized that actually
really the best way is social circle of course that's not easy if you just come on a weekend trip
to say Kyiv or to Saint Petersburg or to Paris or wherever you happen to be traveling Brazil to
São Paulo you know it's not so easy to plug into a high level social circle
that is something that if you are interested in developing of course I have my consulting link
down below and we can jump in a consulting call and figure out a plan for you if you don't want to
wait any longer and you are determined to develop your social circle and yeah not be a loser in 2022
in the summer of 2022 by relying on something as cheesy and as low value as day game street pickup
so that is my video probably going to upset a few fragile egos on the internet but that's
just kind of how I feel at the moment I've been watching a lot of content over the last few weeks and when
I look back a lot of these guys especially when they get exposed to what the real level is who are
selling this I think they were just very good at selling to guys who are probably struggling even
to say hello to a girl and yeah basically borderline incels we have the bells here
at Saint Michael's Gold Domed Cathedral here Monastery not cathedral in Kyiv further
down the street was the Sofia cathedral so I'll leave it at that До побачення! До свидания from Kyiv Ukraine!