What's going on?
As you can see next to me, we have a guest, which is very rare these days.
This is my girlfriend Megan.
Megan, who is not mic'd up right now.
We're going to try to tweak the sound, but only I have a mic.
She won't be talking that much.
But Megan, say hello to the guys.
Hey guys.
They're very seductive.
That's very nice.
Today we're going to be talking about how to touch a girl on a first date.
And I thought, best to demo this and have you understand better to have someone here
to help explain this.
That's what we're going to do.
And if you recognized, she's actually been on a video before.
This is not her first video, but her second.
Because her first video was the day we met.
We did a tutorial on dancing and after that about 10 days later, 7 to 10 days later, we
had our first date.
I want to be clear here what we're talking about.
We're talking about touching on the first date.
First dates a lot of the times, especially these days are dinner dates.
I'm against dinner dates, I don't want you to be doing dinner dates on the first date.
I like to save that for later on so you guys can connect more.
But it's better to have a first date as a drinks date or a coffee date.
And normally in those situations, you're going to be like this.
Almost like at a bar setup, which we're going to demo in a second.
On a first date, if you're doing dinner, or even second date, whatever, any kind of dinner
date, you're across with each other.
So there's not going to be any room for touching.
The only opportunity for touching is going to be after the date if you guys go somewhere
or walk somewhere.
I'm going to be demoing when you can touch them and how you can touch them if you're
in this sort of scenario.
So this can be more than the first date but a lot of first dates can be like this where
you go to a bar and I even recommend it.
Go get coffee, go sit somewhere at a counter where you guys can be closer to each other
and then make it much easier to connect.
First off and this is really cool, you can't see what's going on below here, but because
we're so close to each other, our knees are touching.
When you are on a first date at a counter like this you're gonna be close to each other.
You're going to be close to the person so there's your first bit of touch or your first
physical connection.
Your knee touching hers and you're going to be more like this.
You'll be facing her in conversation, you're not gonna be talking to the bartender like
this.
You'll be like this so right now, her foot is touching my ankle.
There's all this opportunity to be close.
Let that happen.
If your foot or your knee or ankle naturally touches hers, just go with it.
Be cool.
You don't have to swing it back or make sure that it's not awkward.
Just let it there and if it happens, it happens.
And that's good for breaking the touch barrier at first.
Alright, so imagine you're in this position right now.
You're talking to the girl, you guys are talking.
Now here's something you can do and I only want you to do it if it feels natural.
You don't have to, but if it feels natural and only a couple times.
If you overdo it and it's too much, it's gonna be like too touchy feely.
Not natural because no one's gonna be touching so much.
Anyways, the thing I'm saying is, if you're talking to her and you feel like there's a
natural kind of excitement or there's a natural reaction when you guys are talking, this is
an opportune moment to then break the touch barrier again.
Imagine you're talking and then Megan says to me that she just traveled somewhere recently.
Where did you go recently?
Recently I went to Miami.
That's right.
We did.
We went to Miami.
So imagine you telling me that and I go no way.
When did you go to Miami?
See right there.
Very natural.
You could do back your palm or you could do like this.
You went to Miami.
That's awesome.
When did you go?
And you kind of just as you're talking, you're gonna be touching but then releasing.
You're not gonna hold it there for too long.
But then just make the exclamation of whatever you're saying.
And then bring it back.
Oh, no way, you want to Miami.
That's so cool.
Or you can say I've always wanted to go to Miami.
You're leaning in getting a little bit closer and breaking that touch barrier.
That's one way to do it.
Another way to do it is if you're saying something or you're exclaiming something, you can do
this shoulder grab that I really like.
I think it's flirty, I think it's nice.
Let's bring back the Miami thing.
Let's pretend that never happened and she asks me where have you been?
And I go a couple weeks ago I went to Miami.
Have you been there before?
She'll say in this in this experiment?
No.
I'll say oh my God, you haven't been to Miami.
Megan, you have to go to Miami.
It isn't the most fun city in the whole world, or whatever you're going to say.
It's just like that, where you have this opportunity to lightly you're not grabbing.
You're not grabbing it.
You're just placing a cupped hand on it like this.
And you're leaning in and it's nice.
It feels nice.
It feels kind of comforting.
Exactly.
That's what we're going for.
You do it for a second.
You say what you're going to say and then you come back to the original position that
you were in.
I would say if you're doing this that there's only so many places that you're going to be
touching her on a first date.
I would say that right here, the arm, the shoulder, is probably all you're going to
do.
Yeah, your knees might be touching things like that, but you're obviously not gonna
be touching her chest.
You're not gonna be touching the outer arm over here because that's a weird reach.
You're not gonna be touching her face.
That's pretty much your opportune moment.
If you want to break the touch barrier.
Definitely your knees, ankles over here.
And of course, if you're sitting across from each other, it's just not going to happen.
That's more for if you're dating someone for a very long time or in a relationship, maybe
you'll be touching, but not on a first date.
And this is what I want to say to you for any person who's had a good first date.
Absolutely you should be going for a kiss at the end of it.
We're going to demo that right now.
All right, imagine you're at this point and either you're saying goodnight to her, or
like I said before, you have a moment where it makes sense.
The best way to do this is you want to be as close to them as possible without it being
too awkward and you don't be too far away cause that's too much of a reach.
Imagine let's put you over here.
Imagine you're too far away and you're saying goodnight or saying goodbye.
To step in and do it kind of strange.
You already want to be there.
Imagine I'm saying goodnight to you, we're already close, I'm like this, I can be in
a normal distance.
It's not too close, but then you're gonna move in a little bit, continue talking, wait
for a silence and then go for it.
It's much more natural when you're already close to her there's not much distance.
If you have to go in too far it's weird.
Also, you'll be able to get an idea if she's going to want to reciprocate the kiss, depending
on if you're getting close to her and then she kind of exactly, backs off a little bit.
If you notice, you're getting close, but she's backing off a little bit naturally, that's
her saying I don't really want to be kissing you right now.
Have you ever done that before to a guy?
Sure.
So you've been there, except with me.
That's how I want you to do it.
Megan thank you so much for being the guest of honor on today's video.
Say thank you to Megan in the comments.
Let's see a lot of thank you Megans, spell her name right M-E-G-A-N.
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Very good.
All right.
Thanks guys.
Thanks for watching, and we'll see you on the next video.