Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video,
as you can see here, we're talking about the 7 flirtation signals that you
get from girls. I'm going to be going over each of these one by one and
really just pay attention to all this. Don't just skim through and
look in the comments and just get what they are. It's really important you
understand what to look for when you're getting these signals.
Let me give you an idea of what this means. What a flirtation signal
even is. Basically, what this is is a girl being proactive really and showing that
she's interested. This isn't just signs that she's interest in you but
these are signs that she's actively showing that she's interested in you and
trying to get a response from you. That's why people flirt. This is the way
that we show someone that we're interested. This is not her trying to
be subtle and trying to read her mind if she's interested. But her showing
you that she is. Let's go through these one by one. The first one is
smiling. Now again, I just want you to know here it all depends on the
context. Just because a girl's going to be giving you one of these flirtation
signals, it doesn't mean for sure she's flirting but you can guarantee that if
she's giving you at least three to four of the ones I'm mentioning, that means that
she is flirting with you. Smiling, so smiling at you when you guys are talking,
smiling at you across from the bar, smiling at you when you guys first
meet. If she's got an ear-to-ear smile most of the time when you guys are
together, that is her showing you that she's interested and she likes what she
hears and she likes spending time with you. Now again, this could be something
that's subtle, but a lot of girls will do this to show that they're interested and
be again proactive in the way that she's flirting with you. Let's go to the next
one. The next one is touching and this one is usually I'd say eight to nine
times out of ten, a really proactive signal that she's flirting with you,
she's touching you. This can be in any form and again this is not just
something where she's giving you some sort of handshake hello, but she is
taking the time to touch you, she is touching your shoulder your arm, she's
going in to give you a hug, she's playfully slapping your arm.
Any kind of way that she's touching you and if you see it multiple
times, this is a flirtation signal by a girl. You can almost guarantee that if she's
doing this at least a couple times in an interaction without
you starting it first, well this is her way of flirting with you. So look out for
this, pay very close attention to it. Next, is asking you a personal question. This
is probably one of my favorite ones because this shows a lot of interest and
is definitely a flirtation signal because she's trying to get to know you. So she's
asking you a question about you on a personal level, more in depth about
you as a person, what you like to do even what you do for a living. Some sort of
get to know you question. That's what I mean by personal questions you're trying
to get to know you as a person so whatever she asks you, you're responding
in a way that has to do with who you are. If that happens in an interaction, that
means that she is interested in you. Again, showing it. She wants
to show you that she's interested so she's going to be doing something like
that. Next, is body language. What I mean by body language is her getting
close to you, her actually getting her body close to yours. If she's moving
closer towards you, if she's making an excuse to be closer to you, if she is
just in general closer to you, you can really see here that this is her way of
being closer to you and in a way of showing that she's interested and that
she's flirting with you. A girl who's not interested is going to be as
far apart as possible or even just not be there, she'll leave. So check her body
language. Is she facing you, is she shoulder to shoulder with you, is she
being in front of you as much as she can so you guys can have that
connection? I call that the "we bubble" you guys forming this body language
connection where you're shoulder to shoulder, facing each other where it's
you two in conversation, you're not paying attention to anything else that's going
on. That is something to pay attention to, make sure you're looking at her body
language and where she is in the interaction. Next is laughing. A lot of
girls, this is a little bit more subconscious. A girl you know, she's not
saying like oh I'm going to start laughing at his jokes to flirt, but it's
still her way of flirting because if she likes you and you say something, even if
you say something that's not that funny, she is still going to be laughing. A
girl who's laughing, it might mean she's nervous, it might mean that she's
really liking you and so a girl who laughs a lot will be nervous and also
girl laughs a lot means that she's enjoying the conversation. It is her
way of flirting with you and in this kind of subconscious way when she's not
very proactive but in a kind of behind the scenes way showing you that she's
interested even though she doesn't know she's doing it on purpose.
This is one of those where she doesn't know she's doing on purpose, she's just doing
it. But it's definitely still a sign that she's flirting with you. Next is playing
with her hair. This is usually a sign that a girl is nervous, you're going to
see that if you're talking to a girl and she's twisting her hair or she's playing
with the ends of it or you know one hand is twirling it or maybe she's using both
hands to kind of touch the ends of her hair, well that is going to be
her also on a subconscious level flirting with you because she is nervous.
Look out for this. This is a really big one. Next is paying attention
to you. This one is really one of the more simple ones. Is she paying
attention to you or is she looking at her phone? Is she paying attention to you
or is she not making eye contact with you? That's one of the bigger signs
here, more specifically when I say paying attention to you, it means is she looking
at you in the eye? Is she keeping eye contact with you? Eye contact is definitely
a flirtation signal. If a girls giving you good eye contact, that means that she
was flirting with you, that she's interested. Because a girl knows
that if she doesn't give eye contact to a guy, then the guy hopefully will go
away. That's a girl's way of trying not to be with someone, who's not
giving them any eye contact. I'm sure you've done that before too where you see
somebody and you don't want to give them any eye contact because you don't want to
show them that you want to pay attention to them.
So eye contact is huge here. If you are getting flirtation signals from a girl
then you should be getting her number and once you get her number you should
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have a girl's number. Good luck and I will see you on the next video.