- I am not a mom.
- Not a mom.
- I'm not a mom.
(dramatic music)
- What do you guys do for work?
- I have two jobs.
So I'm working anywhere
from on the low-end
60 to 80 hours a week.
I'm a business-
(everyone groaning)
- Wait, what did you say you do?
- I'm a business manager,
and then also a head chef.
- [Avery] That's cool.
You're in your grind era.
I like that. - What do you do for a living?
- I'm a video editor.
- Oh, nice!
- I work at CVS right now.
- I am an interior designer.
I've been doing it about three years.
I'm still in school,
but I'm working for a firm
in Costa Mesa.
- I work for a non-profit in STEM.
So, science, tech.
I do science videos on the side,
the Asian Bill Nye, kind of.
(everyone cheering)
- So I was a nursing major for a while
but realized I hated it.
So left school,
tried to figure out
what I really wanted to do.
So for the meantime,
I am a bartender and server.
- Nice.
- Sharon, she said she was a bartender part-time.
I figured that would be a typical side gig.
Part-time mom,
part-time bartender.
- I work at Starbucks part-time,
but then I'm a full-time student as well, so.
- What are you studying?
- I'm studying health science.
It's healthy lifestyles coach
and fitness science.
- What's your favorite kids show?
(everyone speaking)
- "Arthur" is great.
I was a "Teletubbies" girl.
- They're making a comeback.
- Oh!
- Yeah.
- The new purple wiggle.
- Oh, stop it.
- It's a black girl.
- The purple one?
- Yeah.
- That's why-
Like, she's cool,
but then there's another one
where it's the guy,
and then they're remaking "Blue's Clues"
with a new Steve.
- [Chanice] As a girl or-?
- No, it's the guy.
But it's like, the updated Steve.
So cool.
- So I was a little suspicious of Jade and Susan
because they were saying shows that are recent
and like the changes of the shows
that were happening.
So it was kind of just like,
you guys are watching kids shows,
you might have kids.
- Do you guys have kids?
- I was gonna try that!
(everyone laughing) Oh my God, that's so funny.
- I have a lot of plants.
- Do you guys have dogs? - I have two dogs.
- I have two dogs, too. Yes.
- I have four.
I have two snakes, as well.
- You have snakes?
I want snakes.
- I want a dog
but my apartment won't let me have it.
- How does anyone feel about kids,
in general?
- They're so cool.
- After school, for sure.
- I like to give them back to their moms.
(background chatter)
(bell ringing)
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Now let's figure out who the mole is.
(upbeat music)
- The outfit that Sharon was wearing
seemed kind of mom-ish.
- She radiated badass mom energy.
I was just like, damn.
(buzzer)
- Bye, (indistinct).
- I think they were suspecting me
based off of the comment I made
about the kids shows with "Blue's Clues"
and "The Wiggles,"
'cause I was like, "Oh, dang it."
I just saw that on TikTok type of thing.
- That was intense.
(everyone laughing)
- The pressure.
- Can you guys show me how to change a diaper?
- I mean, I've had experience.
- Oh, okay.
- It's the assertiveness of Jade.
I was like, "Oh, the fact that she came up
with that so quickly,
maybe she's a mom herself."
- Like, let's imagine the baby's like,
on the floor, I guess.
Or not the floor.
- I just know you lift up the legs and-
I think I was making myself worse at it
because I was like,
I'm not gonna show you guys
that I know how to change a diaper
and make it seem as though I'm a mom.
Even though it's not just an act
that is centered for moms.
Like, family members know how to do that.
- I thought that was gonna be a great idea,
and it turns out
I got nothing from that question.
No knowledge at all.
Except for that it was a bad question.
- Do you guys want kids?
- I don't think so right now.
I just feel like there's so much life
that I still wanna live.
I'm definitely okay with waiting.
- I'm 26.
I do not want kids right now.
My mom actually had me and my sisters young.
I was able to just see that secondhand
on the struggle.
I wanna travel more.
I'm married.
Me and my husband-
(chatter)
Thanks. Thank you.
- My mom had my brother and I pretty late,
and I think once she
really figured out her life
and did everything she wanted to do
was the perfect time.
And she didn't wanna have kids
until my grandma,
'cause she's from Malaysia.
My mom told her,
"I'm not having these kids
unless you come to America
and help me take care of them." So she wanted to make sure
she had all the support.
- She just was not being direct
about if she did want kids
or if she didn't want kids at all.
She was just talking about her mom's experience,
so I was just like,
"Think it might be you."
So you kind of just talked about
your mom's perspective.
So are children like in your future,
or is it something that you
would like to have one day or-?
- I literally just had this conversation
with somebody else,
and it's very-
I'm not a hard yes or a hard no.
I think it just really depends
on where I am in my life.
And it also depends on the person
I'm having kids with.
- That's so true.
- What do you guys think of the term "MILF"?
Like what do you vision
when you hear that word?
- Isn't it the most popular category on (beep)?
(chatter)
- An independent woman who's just like,
"I got kids, and?"
- There's an association, I think,
with the term "MILF."
Like, you said
typically they're pretty independent.
- Are they a single mom,
and that's why they're being associated
with MILF?
- All mothers are beautiful.
But I think the MILF,
like biblical MILF,
is probably the mom
who still has her identity.
- That's a great way to put it.
- They still watch Weird Al videos
in their free time.
Or they still do
whatever weird stuff they did
before having a kid.
- What do you guys do in your free time?
- I go to the gym.
- I could tell.
- And I study.
Thank you.
- Creepy.
(chatter)
- Go to the gym.
I have fur babies of my own
and I love to spend time with them.
Honestly, just anything,
just going out, events.
- I'm kind of the opposite.
I'm chronically online.
I don't get out much.
When I do, it's usually for like,
a cool metal concert.
- Trying to get back into entertainment again.
I do some music on the side.
- You said, again,
what stopped you from entertainment?
- Oh, well, you know, just work.
I mean, I wanna do more than
just CVS long term,
so I'm trying to get into real estate, too.
I'm just gonna study that next month.
Yeah, just different things.
That's just kind of
what I'm doing for income currently.
But, yeah.
- Kristen, she was stumbling on her words
and moving around a lot
after I had asked her
about the entertainment industry.
- I really enjoy work.
I know that's kind of taboo,
but I like to make money.
It gives me a lifestyle that is comfortable.
- Same.
My work breeds into my life
and I love my job
'cause it's freelance.
I get to work whenever I want,
wherever I want, so.
(bell ringing)
(suspenseful music)
- I started to get scared
'cause I was like,
it's either Jade
or I can't trust anyone in here.
(suspenseful music continues)
- [Crew] We counted the votes
and we have a three-way tie.
Kristen,
Jade,
and Sharon.
Each one of you
will have 30 seconds
to state your case.
- Here's the thing.
I can barely take care of myself.
I mean, I hate to admit this,
most days I don't wake up
before 11:00 AM
'cause I have such a screwed, weird
sleep schedule
because I stay up all night
and I don't see sun as much as I should.
And also, I am kind of terrified
of passing a human through my body.
There's that.
- I don't really think I'm financially stable
to have a baby right now.
And that's, yeah,
that's pretty much-
I am still saving up for a dog.
Like that's what my goal is right now.
And definitely don't want a child
anytime soon, so.
- I mean, same case.
I'm not in the best financial situation.
Just a couple months ago
I really accepted the fact
that I was just gonna be homeless,
until, I truly believe in miracles,
I ended up living with a roomy.
I mean, exactly what she said,
the thought of passing a baby through me,
because you hear all the horror stories
of birthing someone.
I'm just like, "Do I really wanna go through that?"
But again, going back to the hard yes or hard no,
there're just so many factors that are dependent.
(suspenseful music)
(buzzer)
- Okay.
- I kind of
was just letting everyone speak before.
I think that's why I got voted out.
It's probably just 'cause I was quieter.
- [Crew] If you think the mole
is still in the box,
and you'd like to continue playing the game,
please raise your hand.
Okay.
For every person you vote out
that is not the mole,
the money will be reduced in half.
(everyone laughing)
- Let's just say it.
Why not? - When was your kid born?
- I don't have a kid. But let's be direct.
We think it's either you or you,
and the reason we think it's you,
is because-
I actually think it's you,
but they think it might be you.
- I think it's you.
- [Avery] Yeah, because you weren't sure
about the baby question.
You like, talked about your mom a little bit.
And why I think it's you,
is sleep schedule.
Like, if you have a baby,
you're probably up at weird hours of the night.
You know what I mean?
Even though I am, too.
- My antidepressants make me sleep
like 12 hours a day,
so that's a big part of it.
- Do you guys have any meaningful tattoos
that you guys are comfortable showing right now?
- This is my dad.
He died last year.
This is his signature.
It's my only one, though.
- I just got this tattoo on the back of my leg.
It says, "All is well,
well is all."
- I love that.
- I only have one.
It's a "G."
It's my best friend's first name.
Gabby.
- Your best friend?
- I know.
- Really?
I love my best friend. I don't have her tattooed on me.
Look, I love my best friend,
don't have her name tattooed on me.
So I was like, "That's a child."
You have a child's name tattooed on you.
- So I was gonna say,
I have my grandmother,
the day she was born to the day she passed away
with an infinity sign in her name.
And then,
Metallica's one of my favorite bands-
- No, it's not.
- It is.
- Are you serious?
- Yeah.
- What? That's so rad.
- And I have a Metallica-inspired tattoo on my inner arm.
- That is such a cool surprise.
- I have this
'cause I just saw it on the internet
and I thought it was cute.
I got this with my best friend.
- See?
She has a best friend tattoo.
- But is it your best friend's initial?
- No, it's mine.
- Oh, that's cute.
- What's your relationship
with your baby's father?
What's it like?
You guys talk a lot or-?
- I don't have one.
- See? I'm really bad at this.
- You said you're married,
but do you guys live alone
or do you live with other people?
- Do you have a partner?
- It's a complicated situation right now.
- [Avery] Aren't they always?
- [Chanice] We're figuring it out.
- Don't we love that?
- I live by myself, though.
- Okay.
I'm living with family
and I recently broke up with my boyfriend.
- He didn't deserve you.
- [Avery] Period.
- I live with a roommate,
and my cat.
- Also a roommate,
but two dogs
and then her dog, too. - I just live with my husband
and then our two dogs.
- All right, all right.
(bell ringing)
(suspenseful music)
- Just 'cause she was also giving
a very loving, comforting energy
where she's like, "All right!"
It's almost giving,
"Come on, kids,
let's get together
and let's talk about this some more."
- Once the first round passed,
I only was paying attention to her.
(buzzer)
- I was shook.
I really didn't think
I gave any kind of mom energy.
- [Crew] If you think the mole
is still in the box
and you'd like to continue playing the game,
please raise your hand.
- Don't play me, y'all.
I really trusted y'all.
- [Avery] I'm so scared.
- [Crew] If the lights turn green,
that means you have voted the mole out,
and you all win.
If the light turns red,
that means the mole is still in the box,
and you lose.
(suspenseful music)
- Period.
- You're not a mom.
- No, neither are you.
I'm so sorry.
That's a very cute idea, by the way.
I would love to get my friends tattooed on me.
That's very sweet.
- [Crew] On my count,
the mole will step forward
and reveal themselves.
3,
2,
1.
(everyone cheering)
- I actually have a 19 year old
and a 14 year old.
I was a teen mom.
- You're an inspiration.
That's super rad.
- My daughters are.
I do get called a MILF.
I take it as a compliment.
It depends on who it comes from.
If it's coming from another mom,
another female,
then I'm like,
"Okay, real recognizes real."
But then if it comes from a male,
I'm like,
"Okay, somebody's been
on the little orange and black block site,"
and then I kind of try to stay away.
Was it the tat-
You were the only one.
It's funny 'cause I voted this way,
and then you were-
- I feel so bad.
I just wanna apologize.
I was dead on you every round.
- But it's a compliment, honestly.
It's like, you're sweet and maternal.
- You know, I do take that as a compliment
'cause I feel like
I have zero maternal instincts,
and maybe I do
because like I have two fur babies,
so I'm like, "My babies!"
- Motherhood which is within womanhood
comes in so many different forms.
- I just picture a hot mom
driving her Range Rover
with her kids in the back.
It's just a boss lady.
- I think that at the end of the day,
taking the word back, like,
"Hell yeah, I'm a MILF!"
And you know,
you don't have to worry
about what the weird,
kind of pervy people say.
Like, it's a word of empowerment.
(upbeat music)
Is that how you do it?
Oh, I'm sorry.
Is that how you do it?
Hope you brought an umbrella.