Jake Paul and his family and his friends and everybody around him and everything
I can't do this anymore what is this I
think we all owe Shane Dawson an apology there's also some really good lessons we
can learn about this whole situation
this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but
focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about
trying to help you with your mental and emotional well-being so what I've been
doing is pulling different mental health topics from the shane dawson jake paul
series and using that to teach you how to improve your mental health so that
kind of stuff makes you subscribe and ring that notification bell so first i
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as well as my beautiful girlfriend Tristan and one of my friends who's a
fellow youtuber in the description to the livestream was lit so this is
interesting this video is actually something that I had planned but like I
really wanted to make it even more so after watching this so like my overall
reaction to the finale I was clapping I was like like Shane proved everybody
wrong Shana proved everyone wrong and it's
interesting too because for the final the finale came out
earlier today Shane actually commented on my video was talking about how Elissa
violet is manipulating Shane Dawson and Shane Dawson commented this haha I'm
definitely not being manipulated I'm letting people say what they feel is
their truth but I'm not trying to fight them on it because that's not what I do
except when it comes to Jake because he's the main subject of the series hope
you like the finale so I actually shared this over on my Instagram and read
people that's why I love doing these videos cuz I read people right and Shane
is just like a really legitimately good guy like I can't tell you how Shane has
like restored my faith in youtubers like last year I reached out to people just
to say hi or chat and they blow me off blow me off I'm talking like way smaller
like way smaller than Shane Dawson and Shane Dawson actually takes the time to
comment on this stuff like Shane's a good dude Shane is a good good dude but
anyways so I'm gonna be completely honest with you and my girlfriend but
not like that I'm telling you this but I saw Shane commented okay cool I get
self-conscious I'm like oh my god like I'm a shame I actually shot him an email
just like hey dude you know make sure I kind of knew that he didn't think I was
being malicious or you know you know try to word things very carefully I try to
say you know these are assumptions this is what's going on
so Thank You Shane for reaching out amazing guy anyways I think that's a
good topic to like you know when you get self-conscious especially if you're like
a people pleaser we don't like making people mad at us you know it's just
interesting it's just like I never want and that's one of the reasons why I made
my follow up Alissa violet video I don't I don't want people to get the
wrong idea of me sometimes I can't change that
in some instances I can't change that right so like with the Elissa violet
follow-up video I wanted to make sure you had a more well-rounded view anyways
shane like I don't like going I think shane has a lot of skills to be a
therapist and here's why so some of you know I worked in drug and alcohol
treatment and basically what we're what we're seeing from throughout the series
is that Shane Dawson sat down this is something that we were wondering like a
Shane trying to fix people is he gonna call them out on their stuff like shame
for all of the other episodes was just sitting down with Elissa violet you know
he was just sitting down too many people share their truth that was it he was
just keeping his mouth shut but like we saw clips in this video like
Shane was losing his mind right but in this finale video just on it on it every
single time he called Jake out every single time and like Shane said in that
comment that he left like the main focus of this series which I think we all
forgot over these last few weeks the main focus of this series was Jake it
wasn't it was it was the mind of Jake par so she took all this they did an
amazing job editing amazing job editing like there's like I can't like I have
even more respect for them not knowing like respected their two-man team but
the way they edited this and like the amount of footage they put in but the
reason why they edited so well they would show video evidence of Jake Paul
contradicting himself there would show video evidence of Elissa violent
contradicting herself and by the way Zack and I have like a
million notes so I have a lot of videos planned there was so much to take from
this almost to our video okay zach is going to be overworked but it'll
be worth it Zach I promise but we were wondering like a shame being manipulated
is Shane not seeing this Shane saw all of it Shane ain't no fool
Shane saw it but like the reason I was saying like Shane could be a therapist
is like Shane had the same look on his face like I deal with people with drug
addictions and alcohol addictions and they're they're big BSO's right and I
get that same look the same days it's just like haha uh-huh just feed me your
books but like I get that same look like yeah just feed it to me just keep giving
it to me right and you're done I'm gonna call you out on it and that's exactly
what Shane did the other thing is I was originally gonna make this video just
like sorry Shane like sorry because I empathize with you because throughout
this series throughout this series Shane has been getting backlash just left and
right left and right from the whole sigmet izing mental illness to the
better health thing to the katie morn stuff to being nice to jake paul and his
family and just shade has been getting hit from all directions right and I feel
so bad for him okay and then aside from that aside from the millions of people
just freaking out right then Shane's also putting up with dealing with these
kids and like you saw Shane like throughout this episode have these like
little miniature mental breakdowns they're all lying to each other and
lying to themselves we think Jake is bad he did this Erica's a fooi
she's banshee it's just all poop about Shana's a 30
year old man and he's talking to these kids and Shane is mature and learn these
things honest with you I love playing Fortman with my son and I
can play with him for a while but like sometimes he'll like invite a friend to
play with us to at the play maybe one or two games right so like I can empathize
with shame in that regard and I think you know that's the overall lesson I
want to teach in this video is empathy empathy empathy empathy like you know I
talked about it a little bit like when Shane was sick people like but look what
Shane's doing to put out this content and the stress he might be under like
I'm working on my own little film projects right now like very tiny and
what she is doing at this scale is just bananas and just there's a there's a lot
of entitlement and lack of empathy right so the last subject I want to talk about
which i think is the biggest lesson everybody needs to learn from this is
like we judge things way too quickly we make these snap judgments this was an
eight part series and people were freaking out
episode 2 right we didn't have this whole well-rounded picture I'm guilty of
it too you know what I mean like we didn't have this whole picture and you
know when I saw this when I saw Shane being who we wanted him to be calling
Jake out being brutally honest giving him tough love and all these things I'm
like dang we were assuming all these things of Shane but like here's where
the empathy comes in so it's interesting because I have a perfect example this
actually happened to me today on Instagram from the post from the post
where I posted that Shane Dawson's comment on my Instagram I posted it I
mentioned something about my video about Alyssa violet playing the victim and
somebody in the comments on there blue my comment section up
they blew my comic section up so I replied to the first comment and I said
judging by this comment I don't think you watched my video then she made
another comment and I'm like ok now I know you didn't watch my
then she put her opinion 10 more times based on like a small Instagram post
when I have a laundry list of videos right so if I don't want people judging
me for a very small part of who I am or my content how is it fair of me or how
is it fair of you to judge someone like Shane for two videos in an 8 part series
and like yeah we're all entitled to our own opinions and judgments but I just
want you to check in with yourself like that because this is something that I
deal with as a youtuber I did I get pastor box all the time like a lot of
you are subscribed to my channel and you have the notification bells turn on and
but there's a lot of passerby there's some people who just the algorithm
recommends one of my videos to me to them they see one of my videos you guys
I have over 500 videos on my channel they see one video of my one ten minute
video of mine and they think they have this well-rounded picture of me and they
don't so I have to think I don't like when people do that to me how is it fair
that I do that to other people so just think about that you know it
seems like that cliche old saying like you know Street others the way that you
would want to be treated but it's the real stuff like we need to treat others
the way that we want to be treated no matter if they're a youtuber or whoever
it is like I empathize with people and I think a lot of people deserve another
chance I think a lot of people deserve forgiveness
why because I screwed up a lot in my life and I want forgiveness one thing
I'll touch on lightly real quick is you know Shane Dawson we're talking with
Jake Paul about the Martinez twins and you know some borderline like racial
things right like Shane Dawson could empathize because he went through that
so who would Shane Dawson be to go it hard on Jake Paul for that when Shane
Dawson has been accused of that kind of stuff in the past you see what I mean
but anyways anyways I think we all own Shane Dawson and apology so here's what
we're did to do if you're on Twitter if you're on Twitter let's all tweet it
Shane hashtag sorry Shane all right
Tagg sorry shit anyways I want to hear from you guys down in the comments below
do you feel that you you have these snap judgments do you judge people way too
quickly before you really get to know him
let's talk down in the comments below my girlfriend said something in the
washroom she said a lot of this boils down to black and white thinking and
it's so true so let's talk down in the comments alright anyways that's all I
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