What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
I know you probably think you know the answer to this question.
Maybe you do, maybe you don't. I think we should dive deeper into this topic. Are women
only looking for tall, handsome and rich men? The short answer to this question is 100%
yes they are. But hang on, don't go anywhere yet. We need to discuss this and we need to discuss
especially how this affects you. You got to think about it this way. When you say tall, handsome,
rich guy. What we're talking about is the ultimate 10 to a woman. The ultimate 10. It's almost like
me saying to you, would you want to date or sleep with or be with a Victoria's Secret supermodel
who is also down to earth? Who also loves the same music as you? Who gets along with your friends?
Who's never crazy or jealous? You'd say yes. Are you going to find a Victoria's Secret supermodel
who is all those things? Probably not, first of all. And if you do, you're not going to end up
getting them. I won't end up getting them. Most people are not with those kinds of women. Because
what we're talking about here is the very top tier of women. Of course you want those women.
But will you still date another woman who is not a Victoria's Secret model? Who is... I don't know,
not some of the other things that I mentioned? Maybe there's some give and take with some of
those things? Of course you will. You will date those other women. It's the same idea here.
I know a lot of guys on the internet and I'm sure all the comments down below are gonna say the same
things they always say. It's like "yes and that's all you have to be and there's no
other chance of you getting any quality women". First to even go into this simply, think about
your friends. Or think about the people that you know. They are dating women who are not
at the caliber that I described earlier. How about some of your girlfriends or girls you know?
Are they dating only tall, handsome rich men? Are those the only guys that they're going for? No.
Ultimately, would they want that? Yeah, most women would want that. Just like you would want that
Victoria's Secret model. But the idea here that I'm trying to get to you is you don't have to be
tall, handsome, and rich to still attract a quality woman. Maybe you're not going to get to
.001% top tier, but you're still going to get an amazing woman. You're still going to have a dating
life that you're going to enjoy. Even if you're not tall, even if you're not the particularly
typical handsome guy, or you don't have a lot of money, this is still very possible for you.
There's a lot of men out there who are not tall, who are not handsome, who are not rich, who are
still meeting women. How is this happening? At the very least, one of the biggest things that has the
biggest effect on attraction with women is your personality. There are plenty of guys, by the way,
who are tall, handsome, and rich and they are guys who still don't have any game,
or do not know how to talk to a woman, who are not confident or charismatic. In fact, I know this for
a fact because I work with some of those guys. I coach some of those guys. Why aren't they getting
women? What's the deal? They're tall, handsome, and rich. I don't understand. It's because your
behavior goes a longer way because your behavior and your personality are harder to fake. That is
such a bigger effect. Here's what I'm telling you today on this video. Here's what you need to do,
and I've said this on other videos too. And by the way, if you feel you need help with this, like
I just mentioned coaching, you can get coaching with me. It is available one on one. I also have a
group mastermind program. Check down below in the comments to apply today at www.coachedbytripp.com.
We're talking about how do you become the most attractive version of yourself, because that's
what you need to focus on. If you want to go MGTOW and you want to be like, "no, women are only going
for the top tier of men and you're screwed." That's fine, you can go that way and then you're
not going to have a dating life and you don't have to focus on this. Or you can take the method that
I've been preaching that works over and over again. And other people are talking about this
too. It's the idea of optimizing what you have in your looks. We optimize our looks and then
we're always hardcore focusing on your behavior. Being able to trigger attraction by the way you
make a girl feel when you are in the presence of her when she's experiencing your personality.
So again, we're talking about optimizing your looks and looking the best that you can
because that's all you can do. It's like, if you're however height that you are,
or whatever you look like, there's only so much you can do. But there are things you can do to
make yourself look more attractive. There's your fashion and style, there's grooming,
going to a good stylist, getting a good haircut that matches the shape of your face,
and the grooming your hair and your beard and all those things. We do this simply. I'll give you
a few tips right now. Make sure you're wearing clothes that fit. Make sure if you are balding,
that you're keeping your hair very tight and close to your head. Make sure that you're wearing really
good cologne. One that I recommend is Creed Aventus. It is a very good cologne. Most women
like it and you're gonna like it too. Doing a few of those things, making yourself look good. You
can go on Pinterest and look at style and fashion and pick out a few things there. And then... you
did the most that you can do, you're continuously optimizing. Hopefully you're going to the gym
and making sure that you're cutting down on your weight. Or making sure that you're trying to bulk
up like I'm always trying to do. So making sure that you're working on that constantly. You're
always constantly optimizing. And now we go to your personality. We work on the TED formula that
I always talk about here on the channel; tension, entertainment and dominance. The way that you're
going to give her piercing eye contact when you're talking to her. Showing that you're comfortable in
front of her. Showing that she doesn't intimidate you. So even if you're a 5'5 guy, and you want to
go over to a tall, beautiful girl. Going over and showing her that you're not intimidated and
showing that you're a fun, interesting, cool guy. That could be enough to get her attracted to you.
Even if you're not your typical tall, handsome rich guy. I should also mention...
when we talk about wealth, I understand that it takes a long time to build wealth. If
you're 21 right now and you're broke and you're a college students, it makes sense. You're young,
so was I. But over time, you will build wealth. If you put in the best principles to make sure
that you're making more money, maybe you're starting a side hustle, maybe you're even
starting a business. I believe in the optimization factor of trying to look your best and work on
some of those outer qualities, it is good to try to be as wealthy as you can and try to always get
raises and promotions at work. Because the more money you have, the more opportunities you have
in life because money can get you the things that you need. I don't mean like buying things
and going into some sort of shopping addiction. Obviously that doesn't work. But money does buy
happiness because it gets you access to higher quality things like foods and doctors and better
gyms or maybe trainers or a dating coach like myself. That does help to keep on working on that.
That's more of a long term play along with some of the optimization of your looks like going
to the gym and things like that. But you can go out and you can be practicing talking to women,
getting comfortable in front of them, and making sure that you understand the TED formula; tension,
entertainment dominance. I talked about tension a little bit before. I know I'm talking about 100
miles per minute right now but I want to fit this all in. Entertainment, making sure that
you're enjoying yourself, entertaining yourself because due to the law of state transfer, she's
gonna have a good time if you're having a good time. And dominance, leading the way and not being
a nice guy, not being a pushover. Showing that you have your opinions, asking her on the date,
leading the interactions to physicality and sex. All those things. I gave you a lot there. I know
it sounds like, "whoa Tripp. That's a lot to work on. This is pretty intense." Yeah, I get it.
It's not gonna happen overnight. But what I just gave you is this little formula that you
can work on to be your most attractive self and understand that you don't have to be the tall,
handsome, rich guy to still be able to attract more women into your life. It is possible. I see
it every day. I work with clients on this. Like I said, if you want to work with me go to Coached By
Tripp dot com. Link down below. Work on this. If you're still here right now, and I hope you are,
click that like button. Because I know this is helping you and I'm trying to
get you to think outside the box and think in a different way in terms of how attraction works.
I hope this helped. See you on the next video. If you need to watch us again, do it.