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- How do you feel about the next chapter of your life?
(both laughing)
- I'm going to become a dancer,
I'm going to take the cooking lessons, grad school.
What are your three favorite memories we share?
- This is a hard question for me.
So many years, every dinner,
just since leaving school,
the way that our relationship became-
- Different. - Yeah.
Much more of like a friendship almost,
there was like a deep sharing and honesty
that we have cultivated,
but that isn't really a specific memory or moment,
but it's like a period that began when I moved to New York.
- What I remember is some of the things,
when I was able to teach you something,
and the ones that I can remember,
you were at the San Francisco School
and you were trying, you have two poles
and you have a ladder that goes like that,
but you didn't know how to do it.
You grabbed one. - The monkey bars.
- And then you grabbed the other,
and I got up, I was watching you
and I showed you how to throw your body.
And then it became very easy
and suddenly you could do it.
I enjoyed those moments,
- I love that. - And learning
how to catch a ball.
- You taught me how to catch a ball?
- Yes.
- Thanks.
What's one thing I could do to improve our relationship?
- I wouldn't say improve our relationship,
because I don't think that two people can be any closer,
than we are.
And some of the things that sometimes,
maybe everyday to me a little bit,
are things that are part of being 23,
and part of my being from a different,
I'm not a different generation,
I am a different sixth generation from yours,
and from another country, there are certain things
that I will never accept, or I will never forget,
or that I will never think can be done better
a different way, I mean, I'm a product of an education,
I'm the product of a certain type of family,
so, that is so sometimes yes, sometimes you can be annoying.
So what?
So I take you as you are?
Or I say well, next time, it won't be.
- But when you're upset with me,
there's nothing that upsets me more.
It's frustrating, it's sad, it's confusing sometimes,
sometimes, often our disagreements are,
when you're upset with me, come from miscommunications.
Related to technology, or.
- I'm a wizard.
- You are.
- I don't even know the left from the right.
- Yes you do, you know, you got an iPhone, you use Lyft,
you know what you're doing.
When do you feel closest to me?
- I have a feeling that all the time,
even if we are not in the same home, in the same country,
in the same place, but close to you always,
with the feedings that if you call me,
and tell me, I have to be there in five minutes,
I'll be there in five minutes.
- What if there's traffic?
(both laughing)
- What are you hesitant to tell me?
- I really didn't wanna cry.
- These are good tears.
- Yes, they're very good, very good tears.
I'm so scared to lose you.
And I love you so much,
and you always say to me, do you know how much I love you?
You say it all the time, every time I see you.
And, I go yes, yes, because I'm so awkward
and as soon as I see you well up, I'm like,
because I don't wanna do it.
And I feel that I haven't maybe said enough,
how much you mean to me and-
- I think I know.
- Yeah, but it's nice, I Know, I should say it more.
- No I think I feel it, I know it.
I don't think we always need words between ourselves.
- But you're so good at that.
You make me feel like I walked through the world
having a bad day, but I'm like,
I know May May loves me today, and that's great.
What's one lesson you never want me to forget?
- That when a door closes, a window opens.
And it's really true.
And don't focus on the closed door,
but look for the window.
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